Is this rape?

Jonny

Ask the guy, and speak to the girl. If the guy says they did, and the girl says she said no but can't remember, then yes, I guess it is rape. Sorry to say.

cmdrbnd007

Yes, it probably is but it is also a sign that you and your "mate" drink way too much.

the stank monster!

yes but sorry to say this you probably wont have a leg to stand on in court!

please do not take this the wrong way but if you didnt get so drunk this wouldve never have happened!

Uh huh, go on I'm listening

won't hold up in court quite honestly.
you stated "I remember that", yet you forgot everything else as did she... you remember one small part. you do not know if she changed her mind. neither does she for that matter.
So legally no, it is not rape unless there is some form proof, it was recorded, pictures showing her struggle, other witnesses, a hospital exam showing forced entry etc...
But as of now w/o any proof, (in the eye of the law) there was no rape.

zon moy

Yes if she was not able to give consent then it would be rape.

John D.

Yeah sounds like it. It is also a good reason not to get so drunk you become unaware of what is going on around you.

dark Seconds

ok this is not a joking matter. yes she was raped. if she did not consent then its rape, if she didnt say yes or no then its still rape (again there is no consent). its only not rape when she actually says yes. if shes doesnt remember giving consent its still rape but will be horrible to prove when it goes to court. Please please report this to police immediately for further advice.

just me

she should have known waht she was geting her self into, drunk as hell, guys drunk as hell??? not such a sad rape story........

Anthony

Yes, he took advantage of her and she expressed the fact she didn't want to do anything

clcschiller

Just because she was .laying next too..does not mean anything..did your friend get a rape test?..as you said both ..not aware of what was happening around you...Hopefuly ..you have learned something..never... ever.lose control over your surroundings and promise that yall will never let it happen again..next time ..ya may be wondering ..who raped and killed her ..OR YOU....

Yvonne D

Yes. Legally, if a woman doesn't give consent to the act, even if it's because she's too drunk to give consent then it is considered rape as it was non-consensual.

The Darkened Man

IF she said no and he forced himself on her (even if she was to drunk to stop him) then that would be rape

No=No End of!

willow

yes he raped her, but neither of you should have put yourselves in that position

Gilly

best thing to do tell the police and let them tell you!
if it is rape or not in my book it's rape

MARC T

Yes, it is almost a text book example of a typical rape. There is more than enough evidence to at least give prosecutors a reasonable hope of conviction - not many rape cases have little more than collaborating witness statements - I particularly liked "Uh huh, go on I'm listening"'s opinion that a rape cant be proved without someone filming it or taking pictures!!!! Who the hell films a rape????

srt slayer

yup rape if i was there someone woulda been gettin the **** beat outta them

lazerbeam123

well she didn't want to so i would say yes,he should not of taken advantage of her while in a vulnerable state

Niall S

yes to common people, no in the eyes of the Law
unless the person can recall the events, and can prove beyond a reasonable that it was rape (sorry) then there is no case to answer

bella

She might have said no & then changed her mind later. I really cant say. Im not sure. If you were so concerned you should not have left her knowing that she could not make good decisions at the time.

1Conehead

Of course it is.

Alissa

No its not rape once she purposely got herself drunk around another drunk didn't control herself and he didn't control himself why is he the rapist. They both were drunk why is he responsible for his actions and not her

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