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joy ride
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why don't you take a ride own to his house or his pareants house to see if he is home or out on the town with the other women...
did leave a message on his phone? Well something is up and you not a part of it, by the way do his parents like you??? |
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Bill
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I think you should break up with him because of the lack of trust here.
You don't trust him enough to be a couple.
Good luck. |
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On Holiday
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You'll just have to wait until you see him and ask him directly. I wouldn't put yourself into a frenzy ... just wait and see what's up. |
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Jessica
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Usually if you have a gut feeling about something, that means weird things may be afoot. Has he lied to you before? Shown longing for the ex? If so, I would be uneasy too. |
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chingasos
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sadly your guts probably right |
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caballero5792
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give him the benefit of the doubt. If he just got back, there is a good chance that he wants his family to help him recover so that he can be happy and full of energy when he sees you |
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You might be right thinkin somethings fishy |
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jpferrierjr
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Hello, I'm in the military and I can tell you. The fact is, only like 30% of military men are faithful to their wives. And I know from experience, that a soldier ain't gettin no money back from changing his flight date. If he did, let me know the airline. Because I fly all of the time and I have never run across that. If anything they take money. If that girls birthday is today and he's not answering his phone, I'm sorry to tell you but you've been had. No guy in his right mind would skip out on his woman unless he's gettin some fix somewhere else. |
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Ashley
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Well, maybe the reason he isn't answering his phone is because he is out with his parents. Leave him a message... He can tell how many times you called him as well so you don't want to look over anxious.
People in the military can change there plans like a drop of a hat. So, don't get too bend up on that one. Maybe he is taking a flight home or something and can't have his phone on.
I would wait it out, if you get too anxious call his house talk to his mom and be like I'm so excited to see him and I want to surprise him with something do you know exactly when he is coming home? ... that would work. So, then she will let you in on it... |
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reecie_1992
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I believe you should just plain out ask him. I mean I'm only 14 but I've seen my mother go through these things and most of the time it don't come out pretty. If you don't want 2 do that just casually remind him that it was her b-day and see how reacts. I hope everything works out ok b-tween u 2.
yours truelly,
reecie |
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Camping Chick
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As some of the other posts said, trust seems to be an issue in your relationship.
How long have you been going out? Before this, was the relationship serious? Christmas is coming. Maybe he wanted help getting you the perfect present and wanted help from his family. I would wait to see how he acts with you. If he is acting different in a way that makes you believe he is not as committed, maybe you could discuss the situation with him.
At any rate with all the questions you have running around in your head, maybe you need to examine if this is right type of relationship for YOU. Having relationships with military personnel is difficult and takes lots of commitment from both for it to work.
I hope it all works out for the best! |
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missy
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fishy... he should be picking up his phone... did u leave a mess? |
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armybrat529
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It depends on what kind of military flight he was on that he can get $100 back. You shouldn't worry if you truly love him and you know for a fact he loves you. I was in your situation 2 years ago only I was married to him. I was in Hawaii stationed at Schofield Barracks and my husband went to Arkansas for only 2 weeks and he ended staying there for 3 weeks instead. I was mad at him because he didnt tell me until the last second and he wouldnt tell me why he just said it was because he really missed his family but in my head I was saying hello im your family come back so we can have a life together. I called my brother who was about to leave to go to Iraq and he said that he thinks it bc his "first love" just came into town the day before he was suppose to leave. But he didn't know that and it was really because he missed his family I had my brother watch for me because you always hear the horrow stories about the military men being horny guys who will screw anything walking married or not. But thats only half of the military, do what I learned for being married for 3 years now, talk to him, let him know your feelings about this situation. Thats the best thing about relationships is trust and being able to talk about what one another is feeling so the other one can reasure everything is fine. If he freaks then second guess, because you should know if a guys freaks something is up. |
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24 Hour Milk Bar
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Sounds like there isnt much trust in your relationship, and if he was really gonna cheat on you with his ex, he probably wouldnt tell you he's stayin another day, he'd just do it.
Don't go accusing him of anything unless you have absolute proof, or you could end up pushing him away with your jealousy |
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TIA
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as the sister of a soldier I think you should let him breathe a little !he is not cheating just because he wants to spend time with his family .being insecure is a good way to loose your soldier .he does not have time for all that mess you are stirring up ! |
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IcanHelpyou:)
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question him when he comes back soemthing is fishy |
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Camille
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Go with your gut, but don't attack him or accuse him of anything just yet! Try bringing up your feelings in a way that doesn't make him put up a wall and get all defensive. You can tell him that you are confused about why he wouldn't want to come see you sooner and that your feelings were kind of hurt by his change of plans. Give him a chance to give his side of the story before you decide to jump to conclusions. The fact that you're thinking he might be with his ex means that you two probably have some trust issues. Ask yourself why. Has he cheated before? If so cheaters usually cheat again. Good luck!! |
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Richard J
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Something is fishy, your right !! he's been gone a long time and do ya think he would be beating down the door to get home? especially since your days are numbered also... yea... something stinks!! |
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lawguy
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This might be a novel idea, but how about actually going to the airport early and meeting him on the day that he says he's coming in? Last I checked, they don't let you into the security side unless you are taking off or arriving. (And save the "confrontation" until you are sure there's something to confront him about). |
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nc_hpoa
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I would call his parents/family just to "see how things are going". If you and his family aren't that close than call and ask if he is around. If they say they haven't seen him in a day or two, then you will know. |
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tinamaries43
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Just sounds to me like his family wants an extra day with him. |
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nochickenhead
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Girl, listen to your instinct. If you're not the one he's running to when he steps off the plane, he's not the one for you. Don't be his sloppy seconds. |
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Victhechic
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GEEZ! Can you say paranoid & untrusting! |
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wenwen
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I think that you should go with your gut feelings because your first instinct is usely right. |
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debbie2243
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all you can do is trust him...you cannot follow him or have him followed...the military has the advantage.
call his mom and dad. find out where he is...
Treat him kind or lose him....you have to trust or end it now. |
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ktray1275
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jesus youre paranoid |
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Shamudog
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Do you watch Prison Break? Lots of "soldiers" are really just doing a stint in the pen, and they dont want to lose their ladies. If your really feeling fishy, check to make sure he's enlisted. |
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