This person has been harassing me for months...? any advice?

Honest Joe

forget waiting for the court date, the police should take him in and charge him based on what you say.

jaws65

let the police know every time he does it and everything he says

Ashleigh

Why is he tying to put you prison? Whats his reason

Eve D

Can you move?

Melissa M

that's pretty crazy.

i'd get outtah town for awhile, and take my kids. so that way i wouldn't be in any danger.

just until court.

X Y

I suggest that you ask the police for protection from this man. They may be able to put you in a safe house or a women's shelter.

trentrockport

This is a serious matter which is beyond the scope of the casual advice you can expect in a forum like this.

Get a lawyer.

I Love Howie Carr

First of all, you could change your yahoo & aol screen names, and/or put him on ignore.

Obviously you did something illegal and he knows about it and is threatening to turn you in for it. He's not threatening to kill you or your kids. You should probably get a lawyer to help with whatever you've done that you could go to prison for, and turn yourself in before he does.

Schizophrenic Psycho

block his emails--do you know this person--besides the internet--report him to the police--the threats are serious---did you do anything to his property---have you threatened him--good luck

x[ STACi3 ]x

omg :O u shud hand that in to the cops dear

be_good_2urslf

Listen to me! Pack up, take your kids and leave town, leave your job, get away, this guy sounds like a total nut job. No job is worth anything happening to you or your kids, the kids need their mommy. So get the heck out of town. Good Luck. People do you know how many people have been killed in spite of having a restraining order, my nurse who worked with my family doctor was just murdered by her husband and then he killed himself, and she had a restraining order on him, its just a piece of paper and the cops told her family they just can't be everywhere at once if this guy really wants to hurt her he will find a way. I myself had to go into a domestic abuse shelter with my kids for a long time due to my ex husband beating me up and threatening to kill me, he went to all my friends houses looking for me and threatening to hurt them if he found out that they were hiding me, the shelte sent me to a location they had out of town and he never found me. He doesn't know where you work so that makes you safe...but he does know where you live since he found your car and slashed your tires but doesn't that make you scared? But, ok I wish you all the best with this situation, just keep looking over your shoulder.

The Razors Edge

Go straight to the police, why is he harassing you anyway?

kaadish

You can also get a restraining order to keep him from doing these things.

PuterPrsn

Unless you own your home, move out now and do not leave a forwarding address. Manually and by phone change the addresses needed for your bills and family members. Use a PO Box instead of the street address if there's a place not too far for you. If you own your home, make sure you have good dead bolts on all doors, and invest in one of the alarm systems you can get from Home Depot or Lowes or such and put them on all doors and windows. Make sure you have drapes that insure your privacy - if not, get some.

Get another cell phone number, but do NOT drop the one you have. That way he won't know you're using a different one and you can continue to collect his inputs for proof. Change your home phone number as well.

If it's possible, after moving, replace your car with one that doesn't resemble the current one. Different color, make, model. It will make it more difficult for him to follow you and know your placement and schedule.

Let the HR department and/or boss know that you won't take his calls and they shouldn't either. They need to know what's going on for safety reasons. If possible, have them move your desk and change your extension.

Work with police and the battered women's shelter to make sure you've covered all your bases when it comes to proof and safety for you AND your children. You may have to make some sacrifices for a while, but it will be worth it if you can get through this safely and get him locked up.

walid k

go to the police station and the messages that he sent you and tell them you got threatened by him and the damage that he did to your car and they will check this IP address for this email ID to make sure he sent them to you on that date and to make sure sent them from home or from somebody Else's computer then he will go down for a long time and he wont bother you again

784mags

1. block him
2. contact someone u no & love, parent, bf, neighbor
3. contact police

Kazzini

Keep records of all conversations that are had with him as I believe web convos are admissable in court. I would also let your lawyer know exactly what has been happening. You should be able to secure a restraining order until the actual court appearance. Alternatively, contact family court personnel, the police or from volunteers at a shelter. When pressing criminal charges of harassment, a DA can assist you with your case as noone should have to put up with these threats online or in the real world.

spacekowboy1965

I personaly whould shoot the SOB but in your case contact a sherrifs deputy and have his butt put in jail ......if that dont work buy a gun and tell him to come on over

wowinca

If there are three harassment cases going on it sounds like you have reported this to the police and the district attorney.

You need to ask them why he is not in jail. He presents a danger to you and everyone else.

If they don't throw him in jail, you need to get an attorney. If you can't afford one contact the local legal services, they may be able to help you.

BARB

Peace bond. In my country Canada the law or a Dr. could have him put in a forensic science unit. Or mental health facility, which is the same exept for the one is for people with violent and extreme psychosis.

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