What do i do to get my son if my wife cheating on me. she leaving me for another man after 8 yrs of marriage.?

yacheckoo

Get a Lawyer.

B.D.G

damn! had the samething happen to me and it 2 lawyers and $7,500 later to settle it out or if you have a good enough lawyer then keep taking her back to court and drown her with money from the court costs! get a damn good P.I(private. investigator)-- good luck! ! ! ! there r alot more guys getting there kids so keep your head up and there is hope ! ! !*********oh and by law you have **only** 1yr. to file if she cheated on you and she can't move back in you b/c then that looks bad on your part...EVEN IF YOU HAPPEN TO LEAVE with your son w/out her permission u can't get in trouble by law(I did that) and file 1st and get temp. custody! ! ! ! ! with a stable place of living with the intentions of a ''BETTER WAY OF LIFE'' for you and ur son ! ! !

missyme.

hello. the same thing happened to my parents. after signing the divorce papers, there was a whole tug-of -war thing going on within the whole family and it was really bad and traumatizing. i think you should be able to get you son because your wife commited adultery. but if you go on buisness trips alot, you might lose. because my dad flies alot. and thats why he lost my custody. so, if you dont fly alot, you should have a pretty good chance. i guess you should talk to you son. but you should not force him. its really bad. yeap. hope that helped. and good luck.

Missy B

If he is a soldier, you cant, unless he is doing sumthing wrong, cause he has money to take of him.Or if she is unfit to be a parent.You can,however, get joint custody.She cant refuse you of seeing him, unless u are doing sumthing wrong!

Michael T

Documentation, photos, wittnesses, etc. Hire a private detective, hire a lawyer, and make sure she doesn't know that you know. A judge will see all of this evidence as favorable for your custody.

bonney

i have no idea

Screaming Eagle

Do what is best for your son. No matter what else.

Belen

Ask the court to give you full custody of your child because your wife is committing adultery.

mistyangel

what is he interested in? you should git him what ever he wants and make sure to tell him you love him and its not his fault

helo pilot cfi

file before she does and ask for temporary custody till the divorce is final them get your facts together in how you can be a better parent and provider and where will the child have stability your problem is you're in the military and its subject to transfer you at moment notice it not matter of who cheated but where will the child have a more stable life, or prove that she is unfit mother hard to do this days

nswblue

Get a lawyer and do it now!@

wolverine1usa2002

First, get a lawyer. Keep records of EVERYTHING! You will need that in court. Get pictures, if possible of any negative thing you can. Be prepared for a long costly battle. It's not going to be fun for anyone involved, especially the child. Try not to involve him at all. He'll feel pulled between his parents and no matter what a low life his mother is, it's still his mother and he loves her. Do not use the child in any way. He will hate you both for it. Good luck. My son went though it and it's NOT fun. By the way, he did win custody.

floxy

Tsk Tsk Tsk! can you find it in your heart to forgive her.?

illusionaryr

Get an attorney and file for it

Fuzzywuzzygal

the only thing i can suggest is just explain that you wish to have gardianship or sole custody over her becasue you have a secure income and you are able to provide for the kids and she is unemployed and you fear she is unable to provide the proper elements into your son having a secure and safe enviroment

TrueSoul

Get a lawyer and ask yourself, not what is fair to you, but what is best for your child. What your wife did to you was not nice but where would your child be happiest, bettter taken care, under what conditions would he thrive? And then try to provide that situation for him, whatever that may be. Even spend a few dollars on consulting a child therapist and if he is 8 year old, try asking him what he would like---but let him know that you will not be mad if he says he wants to live with mom because you will always love him no matter what. Raising a healthy well adjusted son is all that should matter. (PS If your son wants to live with you, congrats but if he wnat sto live with mom and she doesnt have a job now, then isnt child support supposed to provide for your son?)

siddhulucknow214

hi dear u may go to court or the best method for getting your son is to chat with that man with which your wife is going. tell that your son is very bad and stupid and that he is unable to help your son. the best way is chatting with that man and your wife too.

Seeker?

Quit banging cheap hos'.

mel65

My son is in the airforce,, his wife refused to move oklahoma with him after she talked him iinto joining,, now she is pregnant by another man,,, he wants custody of their son,,, how does he go about this,, does he have a good chance of getting him, even if she isn't a horrible mother,, and will he get stuck with child suppor ton the new baby since they are married while it was concieved, test should prove its not his...

reba

get a lawyer. Me and my husband are going through the same thing with are grandchilren. Dad is trying to get sole custody of the grandchildren and my daughter is not happy with that the grandchildren are happy right here with us we are going for gardianship for the grandchilren legaly through a lawyer which it will cost you but in the end it is worth it. My son in law cheated on my daughter and now he is trying to get sole custody of the grandchilren behind my daughters back and ours. He already signed a paper for us to have gradianship of the grandchilren and my daughter did to but it has to go through the court. good luck

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