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Would this be considered rape?

Okay this has been irking me for a year. When I was 15 I was a virgin at the time and I was dating a guy who was 18. We were in the back of his car making out. Is it going too far if he pushed me against the car seat and forced himself into me? I didn't say no or really fight but I froze up and I was scared. I just recently told someone and they said it was a form of rape but I'm not sure if it was. I still have bad memories on it though.
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Well I'm 16 now so I don't plan to report it because what's done is done but I just recently told people about it so I was curious on what it was just in case it might happen to someone else.


    




Darrell S
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you shouldn't ask a legal question like this, without specifying what jurisdiction you are in, whether you are referring to rape or statutory rape, and you certainlyh shouldn't be asking anonymous nonlawyers on the internet their opinions. You will get nothing but semi-educated opinions and will likely have at least a half dozen different answers.

If you really need to know, have an actual lawyer write you an opinion letter, citing to the laws which support his or her conclusion.

It is actually a crime to give legal advice without being a lawyer in most jurisdictions. So, you should definitely not rely on such info from unknown questionable sources.


I love my baby girl!
yep its rape. He's 18 your 15. Your a child hes an adult. You should find him and lock him up.


Thomas A
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That is statutory rape as he was above the age of consent (18 in most situations) and you weren't


Golan89
rape


Cheenah
Yes. The law declared that the woman doesn't have to say no when she is in a state of fear.
Will you win the battle in court that is a different story.
Also, if you did decide to pursue action you have to make sure you haven't passed time limitations for charging him with rape


Rachel M
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It sounds serious enough to at least be assault. I'm not really familiar with laws and definitions of all these different types of breaking the law, but it sounds like you were scared to say no to him because he may have hurt you. Were you able to get out of the relationship? Do you see him anymore?
Anyway, it's probably a good idea to not bring up those memories even more by pressing charges. I hope everything goes well for you, and that you're able to talk with your experiences with others not only to help yourself, but to help others.


Latrice T
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I think it would be considered rape. Most rape laws don't say that it's rape if the victim fails to object--instead, they say it's rape if the victim fails to give consent.

It doesn't sound like you were given the opportunity to give consent. In fact, you were too young to give consent.

The fact you have bad memories suggests that you might be even be questioning yourself in terms of what you failed to do, which is something that you shouldn't do--doubting or blaming yourself.

I suggest that you call a hotline (link for research below) and talk to them about it. These counselors are very experienced in dealing with these questions. No matter what you decide to do after that, it may help ease your mind to talk to someone personally who can assure you that you were not responsible for this.


sports441995
well, i guess it could be rape. depends on what you mean by "forced himself into me."


Rat Nana
Depends on what state you were in. In some states, the fact that he was 18 and you were underage makes it statutory rape. Other than that, if you didn't protest, I don't believe it would be considered rape.


Bethenny
My friend...it is called 'statutory rape' and since it happened within the last 3 years, he can be charged. You need to consult an attorney asap.

All the best to you... very sad, and I'm sorry to hear this...


tru808
In short terms, yes. That is considerd RAPE.


Pyar
You were forcibly raped ... It was also statutory rape .


Luke A
I don't know I wasn't there to judge it ..lol
but seriously Did u tell him to stop? if u did and kept going its quite rape.. and if u bad memories,,, is it because of a bad experience
u have to explain more your feelings...
hard to tell...

Ok hit u many times!!!? Thats rape! report him!


Proud to be an AMERICAN
Actually, I'd say anytime you have to ask whether it was rape or not, it probably was.

I'm sorry this happened to you.


Love!
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uh, yes.


Remyxo
It is! Even if you told him'oh yeah I want this' it is still rape because he is an adult and you are still a minor. its Statutory rape

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statutory_rape


cbrownie
Date rape. And statutory at that.


nicole h
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wow thats a tough one. If you didnt use any form of denying him....then i dont think it's considered rape. But im so sorry for your situation....i just wished you had spoken up!


RobNasty
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well its already statutory cause 18 15 thing
but yea rape


George C
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Some women think that being taken like that is pretty hot.

Let it go. You were in the car, you made out with the guy, you knew he was 18, and you didn't say "no".


Eric H
It's statutory rape and you can still report it.


Ashley answered ur question !
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u wouldn't have a case


moocey64
any time somebody forces it apond u without both peoples approval its considered rape take legal major consideration in legal action


TBECK
It is rape. I don't know if you can still press charges though. Time limitations may apply. I would advise for your own benefit get counseling.





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