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sarah a
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If you were not married to him when your daughter was born, he has no right to her anyway, he would have to apply for custody. Even if his name is on the birth certificate, he still has no right to her, if anything was to happen to you, she would automatically go to your next of kin. Go to the police and tell them what he is doing and you should be able to get an order for him to stay away from you and your daughter and if he doesn't he will get arrested. |
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spensmum
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hun you are better off without the scumbag. dont give him no money your daughter deserves better than that. i personally would ignore him, if he persists to harrass you then go see a solicitor and get advise from them hun he cant do this to you xxx hope you go okay x |
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jason12211
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Get him to put it in writing along with an a account of his previous bad behaviour.
Then get yourself to the nearest Police station and have him charged with demanding money with menaces.
He sounds like a sick freak to me.
A nice long spell inside might do him some good and give you a chance to find yourself a new life with a decent man.
Good luck. |
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helz bellz
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you pay him? its completly absurd not to mention illegal. I think that you should just not contact him or be provked by this guy he sounds ill to me! other than that go to the police and show them records of all of this....agreeing with him and going through with this wont help you...hope it all works out! x |
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big b
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call the cops |
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neverland
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i say don't pay him. file a restraining order instead. |
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Filthy Lucre
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Sounds like extortion...see a solicitor. |
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dizzymooo
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No dont do it he wont stay away. good luck hun x |
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Midnight Wolf
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I agree with mr gravy |
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Anne K T
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No way should you pay this awful man, he will keep coming back for more, a piece of paper will mean nothing to him. You should try to break all ties with him even if it means moving to another area, if it becomes extreme you might consider a restraining order, then you keep that man away from you and your loved ones and not spend a penny. |
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Mr Gravy
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contact a lawyer/police before doing anything |
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Andromeda Newtonâ„¢
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This is called blackmail. You ought to contact Citizens Advice or if you're in a position to do it go to a solicitor. It might even be a case for the police but I'd see what advice you can get first. Good luck! |
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peter s
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no do not pay him tell the police what he is doing and try to get proof of his demands and then take them to police |
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twinkletoestheballerina
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That is absolutely disgusting. Contact a lawyer and thank the lord you are awy from that horror of a man. |
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hiya
i does sound like a great idea but i wouldnt when you daughter grows up she will wont to find him and he sounds like a nasty man and it could come back on you and push your little girl away if she ever found out
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D G
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kick him in the balls and get a solicitor he will probly deny it but its worth a try if not get a really big boyfriend to kick him for you the guy is a fool to do that |
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Robert B
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He shouldn't have been able to contact you yesterday to say that. Change your telephone number, file a police report about what he did, and don't believe him. He's an abuser and he wants the money to cause abuse, like by using drugs, buying weapons, and so on. He shouldn't be treating you that way in the first place and he should be the one paying you on account of the child.
Learn from this. You got involved with the wrong person. Know to cut association instead of making the same mistake again. He's a serious problem and giving him what he wants will just be throwing fuel on the fire.
I am concerned that you are even considering giving him that kind of money. If you have it, you might pay part of it to a good lawyer to get legal protection from him. You might take a trip to a courthouse and ask about filing a restraining order against him. |
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kitten
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don't give the s***t a penny, go and see a solicitor, sounds like hes trying to blackmail you !! |
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jaxous04
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I'd get a lawyer and see about getting him on tape agreeing to that. then take his sorry butt to court and have his rights TAKEN from him. What a lowlife, people like that should be fixed! |
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whoopsadaisy
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ask him to put it in writing then take it to your solicitor- DON'T YOU DARE PAY this scumbag anymoney spend it on who really matters- you and your daughter-
ignore him get a restraining order if neccessary- he is a bully and all bullys are cowards- stop being a victim- you can do it- you are a mum and theres no one braver than a mum when it comes to protecting her babies.
good luck to you!!
did you put his name on the birth certificate!? go and see a solictor- ask around for a good family sollicitor- and if your not happy with them find someone else |
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trouble
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awe honey you need to get as much proof as possible on this sick man, and then get an injunction out on him, and if he threatens to go for access then say OK you can have it supervised one hour a month, he wont like that as you are giving away his bargaining chip to get to you daughter, change your numbers, and tell him all contact is to go through a solicitor, at the end of the day he should be paying you child support you are looking after his child, so don't give this waste of space anything, im me if you want to talk more x |
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sandostrich
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No. Take him to court for blackmail and child support and get a restraining order! |
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red
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i wouldnt that 10gs could be put in a a bank for her..why pay him to stay away when she gets old enough to understand she blame you if you pay him to stay away..let her see him for what he really is a scum bag.. |
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raftart
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Seek a lawyers help. You pay him and he will only come back again and again demanding money from you. He will have you over a barrel. Good Luck. |
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gypsy
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No way, contact the police, this is blackmail. |
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♥fluffykins_69♥
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no don't pay him a penny, seek advice from a solicitor and get it all down in writing what has been going on with him.
if the abuse get to much go and report him at the police station |
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babs
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ow my god what a horrible man i say do not give him a penny and get a solicitor good luk !! |
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steve p
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i wonder....why people cant do the decent thing and contact the POLICE!!! |
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colvin0594
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don't pay contact local police for black mail, take the money get lawyer and sue for custody with out visitation |
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lee64do
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Use the 10,000 and hire someone to make sure he never contacts you again. I have a child by Someone abroad but i am allways in contact and I will set up a trust fund for him. Yes i am married well not any more because she found out. With 2 daughters. |
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Luke J
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Absolutely not... men like this sicken me.
if he has subjected you to that sort of torment, get a restraining order out against him. |
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