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15 and want to get married?

im 15 and me and my 17 year old boyfriend want to get married but my mom says im too young and i should wait, what should i do?


    




Nina
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I think your mom is right. This is one of those times when it's a good idea to listen to mom and her own ife experience.
Your mom had you and, whether she's married o rnot to your dad, she knows that things change a whole lot when 2 people get together and get married and start a family.
I'd wait if I were you. This could be the first real test for your relationship. If your boyfriend is OK with waiting, then he really loves you. If he's not OK with waiting, then he just wants to own you. And then you'll find out a side of him that you never knew. It's a real good idea to "test" a guy a few times, the hard way, before making any type of commitment.


Kiddo
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Wait.
Your moms right,your too young.


Soon 2 Be Mrs. Pumpernickle
Do like your mom says and wait. You haven't experienced life yet sweetie. And I can tell you now that who you are with at 15 may drastically differ when you are 18 or 28.


XxPunk_RoxXx
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sorry kid but you gotta wait till you are 18


tacos
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....um...wait?


JonB
don't do it


Paul L
go to mexico and get married.


chela
You should wait until you are older. I got married when I was 15 and that is the biggest mistake I have ever made. Enjoy life you are so young.


a w
hi, please don't get married your too young. trust me marriage is not a thing that if you put it in your mouth and get burned you can spit it. it's a big NO. you can wait until you get older.


Sarah
You should wait. Your relationship is bordering on illegal, if he turns 18 soon. And plus, at 15, you may think you love and want to marry someone, but there is still alot of growing up to do!


<3
Wait. If it's true love, it'll still be around in 2-5 years.


The Lauren
WAIT! you are far too young to know what you want from life or from a partner.


Jillian M.
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you are way to young to be married. your mom's right. you guys really should wait.


Yason
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your 15...i know you think you love him but give it 5 years. you wont. i promise. i know


stacy g
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don't do it your to young i got married at 17 and ive been divorced twice..it just hard given up your child hood to become an adult now should be the funniest time of your life you should be hanging with Friends going to games ,going to dances haven sleep overs with the girls .believe me you have your whole life to have to be an adult you never get to be 15 again.you need to be grown up out own your own and Living without your parents being the boss before you marry and have a husband to be you boss all girls need to have a career and be able to support themselves before marriage .I cant stress how important this is .guys tend to always leave ..if he loves you now hell still be just in love when your 20 look past your hormones to a real future .If you marry now you wont finish school more than likely have 1 if not 2 kids by the age of 20 and divorced


veggie_luv!
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personally, i don't think that age has ANYTHING WHATSOEVER to do with love, and i absolutely HATE it when people associate them. however, marraige itself is a tricky subject. think about everything first: would you live together? if so, you would both have to get jobs to support each other. then you would go to school, go to work, come home and do homework, and then go to sleep. you would rarely ever see each other. if not, if you don't want to live together, then what's the point of getting married? just so you can brag and have a ring on your finger, and later get it taken away when you realize that your marriage isn't going anywhere? however, if this is one of those RARE true love situations (i have this theory on love and i do believe that true love exists, but, unfortunately, the two meant for each other rarely ever find each other) then it could possibly work.

i think that you should both sit down and seriously talk about this. if you TRULY love him. becuase if you don't, and unfortunately the majority of the chance is that you don't, then it is a wasted effort. you'll either end up being miserable in the marriage or divorcing. and that is NOT something that you want to do. i'm not totally ruling out the possibility that it could be true love, i just think that you should HONESTLY think about it.


Selena M
I'm 15 too but i know for a fact that you are not ready for marriage at this age. You haven't even discovered what real love is yet! You may have a perception of it now but that will change drastically with age!
Do you really want to be the 15 year old that can't go out partying with your girlies because you have a husband! And most young marriages end in divorce, in a year or two you will get fed up with him, it happens in all relationships, you need at least 2 years to get to know eachother fully, good moods, bad moods, etc.
My sister got engaged when she was sixteen and the boy ended up leaving her the day before her 18th birthday! She's so lucky that she hadn't married him yet!
I'm sorry if this sounds insulting to you or anyone reading but that is just my opinion,
good luck and i hope you make the right choice.


alines
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Listen to your mom. What's wrong with waiting a few more years?


~pEaCe~
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wait duh!


Danny
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Early marriage is why the divorce rate nowadays are so high. you should do as your mom says. what you think now probably will be different 5 years later and even more different 10 years later. You might even find a better guy


adie
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I'm 16 and I wouldn't dream of getting married. I think you should wait. At your age you can't get married without parent consent anyway and if your mum says no then no dice kid. If he loves you he'll wait.


Lady Gaga!!!
Are u crazy u have to wait ur too young!


Emily Dew
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Wait. The people you two will be in 10 years even will bear no resemblance to the people you are today. You have no idea how much you both are going to change in the coming years.


ohlookitsus
wait till you atleast 18, if yall want to still get married then, then go ahead!


♥Red Panda♥
You're way too young. There is plenty of time to live in marital grief. Enjoy being young and happy.


al;<3
do what she says wait...why would you want to get married now.. you have a lot to experience before being joined legally and mentally with someone for the rest of your life =/


TheKidRevisited.
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your hormones are raging, don't do it. wait. because you may come to your senses in a few years.


amanda
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you never want to get married too young, you destroy your opportunities! if anything wait till after college, when you actually need to start making big plans in your life. 15 is way too young to be thinking about marriage, not that you dont love your boyfriend, but if he really fully loves and respects you, he will wait till your older!!


Cheese Queen Forever
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wow......u have NO BUSINESS getting married yet. u lack life experience and maturity big time. i was 20 when i got married and it was a big mistake. learn from other ppl's mistakes and wait until u been in a serious relationship AS AN ADULT first before u get married. there are so many thiings u should see and do first before u get married. dont rush it! u will be very sorry u did, if u do.


rebecka♥
wait til your older it just might be fake teen love

sorry and good luck! though





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