45 years old and never kissed a girl, is this bad???

ilove nick

and do u live with ur mom!!!!!!!!

la man

I think what's more of a concern is that you have never gotten close to anybody. Maybe that's something you should explore in counseling.

Squibby

Oh my. Well, you need to buck up some confidence there!!! What's the worst thing that'll happen? She'll deny you? Find another girl. There's someone out there for everyone, just follow your red string!(Soul-mates are tied together by an invisible red string.)

Mr. Advice

that type of relationship is an important part of my life. i think everyone should be able to experience that feeling of being loved and loving in a romantic way. maybe you could find a professional to help you get a girl. good luck.

Q+A 22

unless you want to theres no problem

Anonymous

I think it's really sad to have never been in an intimate relationship with someone by that age:( Maybe you are a loner at heart, but haven't you ever desired companionship, or at least had a crush on someone? I think you should once again attempt to date a woman. You'll probably discover you enjoy the company and want to search for a soulmate.

Always Bring a Towel!

I don't see how you have lived this long without being with a girl! You don't know what you are missing!

veg_hel

Why don't you go and talk to a counsellor (not a psychologist). You may just need a bit of advice on how to approach a girl correctly. They will be non judgemental and you can practise techniques on how to do it. My partner was really shy and I made all the first moves on him. He was 41 at the time and admits he needs guidance in this area. We are not always born with the answers you know. The most important thing you can do though is get out there ie. accept and attend invitations to parties, work functions etc. or join a club of something you are interested in.

Rosy-poo

Your time will come. Go at your own pace. Its also alright if you've never will either, who cares though? im not going to make fun of you and if somebody does, just igore it. your opinion about this situation counts the most.

M.M.

yes..very very bad! What kind of life is that? EFFFF already will ya!!!!!????

Gina G

no, it's not bad if it doesn't bother u.

Lacroix

it's no big deal to me if it's no big deal for you. if you are lonely though and you really want to experience female company then maybe you should consider some sort of escort...
all the best.

ultrason_5

WEL TO EACH HIS OWN, ME I COULDN'T STAY AWAY FROM A GOOD LOOKING WOMAN. THERE IS NOTHING BETTER IN THIS WORLD THAN THE LOVE OF A GOOD WOMAN. I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THAT YOU WOULD GROW OUT OF YOUR SHYNESS, BY NOW. I WAS A LITTLE BIT LIKE THAT BUT NOW I HAVE NO PROBLEM TALKING TO ANY WOMAN. THE WORST THING SHE CAN DO IS SAY NO. WOMEN ARE HUMAN JUST LIKE US GUYS.

danbear76

Dude you don't know what your missing, if that is true.

samanthaleebartlett

yes this is bad,, Just be more outgoing. The best thing is to be funny (atleast try to be funny-- thats always hilarious) But be yourself, but less shy. Get the few friends you have and go ask some girls and say hey I'm going bowling with some friends, want to join me? Because it doesnt give them the feeling it's a date just hanging out and you can get closer to some women

john t

yeah sorry buddy but you need to find a women ok

koinoi

Save up and hire a nice escort. Once the "first" time is out of the way you will be fine.

STM

Don't concern yourself too much with society's standards. I'm more worried about you though. It doesn't have to stay this way. You just got to put yourself out there. Get out of your comfort zone, and don't think about it too much or you'll hesitate. Sure it may seem weird that you haven't been close to any girls, but don't let that stop you. Be confident, that important, and show those girls who's boss. You've got to start somewhere. Flirt! You'll like after you get the hang of it.

Fries with That?

Take a business trip to thailand, man. Also if there are stores in strip plazas with tinted windows that offer "holistic massages" go there and pay for the full hour. Failing that, there are RealDolls that people in your situation find most useful. For more information visit www.realdoll.com.

jodi c

NO, it isn't necessarily BAD, it's just out of the ordinary, but as they say: WHATEVER FLOATS YOUR BOAT"

A Bounder and a Cad

Many guys go through life without touching a girl, so its no big deal. The point is, do you think its a big deal? and would you like to touch a woman (I say women coz girls are out 4 u), Women are great fun if you like women. Perhaps u should look at women as human rather than an object to touch, restart from scratch, go to a wedding, perfect place to find women that are available.

Natty BayBee

sometimes what people can do that arent good at socializing with people in public is get an internet account and get to know people that way. you can just get one for friends. like a facebook or a my space and that way you can learn how to act around people and open up a bit more.
internet dating is becoming more and more popular so this is a good way to get yourself out there and get some love...or even a friendship
try it.

Nicole

Yes, you should try to open up alittle. Hear a group of girls talking about somthing your into, just add a small coment and get into the conversation

General T

You are a 45 year old with the writing style of a 16 year old. This may be because you are either very immature for your age or, far more likely, you are 16 and pretending to be a 45 year old.

In either case, having not ever kissed a girl is par.

bershnark

im really sorry about this, but this is common. men become more out of luck as they age, because more and more women are going off the market. but i suggest trying out eharmony.com or something like that where you dont have to be upfront at first and dont have to collect the nerve to talk to someone. good luck!

~Raptorallstar~

okay it's kinda bad but if you're happy then why feel the need. Besides if you really want 2 find a gf just take it easy and slow at first. there aren't many fish in the sea now.

ancient warrior

Don't listen to these people, they can't understand your pain. They are just making you feel bad by telling you how great it is to be with someone, touch someone and so on... What is depressing is that people even think the cause of this is your low libido or you don't have a desire to kiss someone. Of course you like girls and like to bang them. What you need to do is to change the structure of your thoughts. You need to start thinking about only good stuff and focus on the things you like to have in your life. start even praying about it. You need to stop feeling bad about yourself if you do that, you need read some guides on making a friendly conversation, how to keep friends, you need to understand what other people like, how they respond to things, how they feel. Maybe something (or somebody) when you were young prevented you from developing psychologicaly and you never understood how to get what you like.

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