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LS
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no its not realisted, understandable but i dont think you should let it stop you.
70% sounds a bit too high, are you sure thats a reliable statistic?
i know plenty of women who would nevr cheat,
Go out and meeet some new people and never give up!
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Heatherrrrrrrr
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Do what you want in your own life. You attract everything you think about and talk about. Nothing wrong with you but something wrong with your thinking. You don't think you deserve any better or maybe you are always thinking in the back of your mind "i bet she is cheating on me" and guess what she did.
Don't get married if you don't want to. It is not a requirement. |
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Eleanor Rigby
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If you are going to base your decision on statistics, you will never be happy. I'm not insulting your or anything, I'm just saying the truth. |
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sarahmay
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This horrible trend might be due to the fact that men these days treat their women like crap. Don't refuse to get married, just marry someone who you really love and act accordingly. |
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AB
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There's no one here who can tell you if you should get married or not. Marriage can be a wonderful, blessed partnership... but it can also be a deceitful, empty one.
Don't base your desire (or lack thereof) to get married on statistics. |
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bridgette b
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its totally normal to feel like you dont want to be in a relationship if you've been stabbed in the back one to many times.. but dont let the past affect your future |
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Annabella
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I think your facts are wrong. I just watched a report on that the other day & men cheating is still MUCH higher than the women's statistics which was nowhere near 70%. The fact is that a lot of us have been cheated on. I know I have. You can't simply discount the entire population because of that.
I hate to say this but in many cases people just choose the wrong partners. I understand that some people have been blindsided by this & cheated on after years of marriage but many times it's a little of our own fault too for not choosing well. When cheating occurs in almost EVERY relationship we've had then there were probably some warning signs to begin with. If I told you that I have a history of dating musicians & they all cheated then you might not be surprised. Who dates wanna be rockstars who are out on tour with all their groupies & expect them to be faithful? ME. So I used to be a dumb@ss & got cheated on in every relationship. Now I know better. My husband has never cheated on anyone in his life. I learned to be more cautious & I chose based on character. I could have easily kept that pattern going & I would still be getting cheated on to this day.
So if I can move on then I'm sure you can too. Don't end up being bitter & resentful towards women the rest of your life. It's really not flattering & it just screams FEAR. Choose better & be a little more cautious. |
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Belinda28
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You pick the wrong women. This is just like a woman who attracts abusers saying 70% of men physically abuse their mate. It does not make sense. It is about the type of women you are dating. |
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nathan_pal
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when you say 70% of the women cheat.. then you mean 70% of the Men are involved in it too.. So all you have to do is stay away from that 70% crowd.. NOT from marriage. |
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esbm_alf
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I believe the reason relationships end up with an affair is...people neglect their relationships. They don't feed and nurture them, they take them for granted. It takes everyday to tell your spouse that they mean the world to you and that you appreciate and love them. You should get married when you find the right one and nurture that relationship every single day. |
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rkrell
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Who ever gave you that percentage is lying. If that was the case I doubt if anyone would get married. Regardless, just because you have had bad luck in the past doesn't mean that will continue in the future. Once you find that kind of love that lasts and is true, it is worth all the pain you have endured in the past. |
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Why not me
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There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting & just be more careful about who you trust next time around. Make yourself a better person & know who you are before you try & know someone else & expect them to know you.
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dinny's engaged!!
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no, it's not a good reason. My fiance is getting someone in the 30% range. If you don't want to find someone in that 30% also, then don't get married.
Out of 1 million women, 300,000 are good hearted.... |
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It's A Boy 10/18/09
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There are good women out there!! One's who long for a good husband in return. I know marriage can be a scary thing, but if you pick the right person it can be a little bit of heaven on earth!! How do you know if the person is for you? In my experience, your gut tells you!! |
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MAKING IT WORK!
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No , because there are still 30% waiting on a good man. I think that just because you have had some tramps doesn't mean you should neglect yourself and a good woman of happiness. Good Luck! |
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It's a New Day
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I think that statistic is made up. I don't cheat and my friends don't cheat... neither did my Ex's. I would get married, you just have to find the right person who will only want to be with you forever. |
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Anji
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I am not sure that I believe that statistic...
Stats are NOT always accurate because they have not polled the entire world.
It sounds like you have chosen people who were set up to fail do to character flaws.
Believe in yourself and never settle fro less than you deserve.
Not everyone is a cheater....We only hear about the bad things, rarely the good. |
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Mrs. Robinson
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wow. whered you get that statistic?
ive got 5 girlfriends for the last 22 years. hs buddies. were all very close. not one of them cheats on their man. ive never cheated on a man.
i think somtimes certain personalities are more likely to stray. its also possilble your attracted to a certain type of girl, that comes w/ a downside, selfish, cheater, lier.. etc.
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<3
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And the statistics are based on a personal study?
Women could say almost the same thing about men, but that necessary hold any truth to it?
You may be attracted to a certain kind of women who end up cheating and it has became a pattern in your relationships. Stepping out of the box may help.
If you don't want to get married, that's up to you, but chances are you haven't found the one who you would want to spend your life with.
Good luck :)
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paganmom
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I have never and will never cheat on my husband...guess I'm in that 30%
Although I think your statistics are a bit high because I know a lot of women and they don't cheat.
The statistics are more like 15% of married women cheat not 70% |
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Spindrift
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Whoa, easy there big fella. All those women had someone to cheat WITH; ergo, 70% of all men accompany the women! When you make one or even two mistakes, that is understandable; if it is a pattern, there is a problem and you need to figure out why you gravitate to women who have a propensity to cheat. You will be treated according to how you demand to be treated. You set your own parameters as to what is acceptable and what is not. |
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SoulMate
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If 70% of women cheat, their cheating male counterparts have to be 70%. So, it is not a man woman thing. Get a good woman, who will not cheat. |
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Snowwolf
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Maybe you're just attracted to the wrong kind of woman, since in every relationship you've been hurt in the same way (and I so sorry to hear that). But not all woman cheat, and it if they do it really has nothing to do with marriage, but the person themselves. Only you can make the decision whether or not you would like to be married, and even if you get into a serious relationship again, make sure the other person knows that you've been burnt before and are taking things really slowly. You never know, you might swear off marriage and then meet an absolutely fabulous woman and treats you how you should be treated. |
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450 Club
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I would like to know where you got that statistic? Even if it were correct I still would not rule out marriage. You need to find a good Christian woman. A true Christian will be less likely to cheat. It is not foolproof for any one can be tempted especially if treated poorly or ignored .Remember a relationship is two sided. |
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christianwife38
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I dont think 70% of women cheat. Maybe where you live......but not here. I know women do cheat, but there are a lot that don't. I take commitment very seriously! |
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~nicole~
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There's still 30% who don't. That's pretty good odds. |
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Piink ♥
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not all women cheat |
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trixxxy_23
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not all woman are cheaters! there are a few out there that love who there with unconditionally. You just happend to get stuck with the ones that don't is all. Don't give up on marriage though (at least don't spend your money) LOL kidding kidding |
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