A friend of a friend told me that his colleague had a one night fling with a married woman..my question is..?

Ol Goat

Welcome to the real world, kid, ain't nothing sacred, no more, no where.

sara

I think that its not necesarily just the women that cheat on their husbands. And maybe there is just not the same connection the married couple had at the beginning of the marriage as it is later on. I'm not saying its right but at the same time we dont know what the marriage couple is going through.

sweetsal

i would think similar reasons a man would do it?? I dont know..I could be wrong

Arthur W

Thanks to TV and soap operas showing just easy it really can be and how to get away with it>Many people actually relate their everyday lifes to these shows and try the same thing if their marriage is boring and dull. In todays society, marriage vows,fidelity, morals, values, etc are mostly a thing of the past and most just dont care any more just as long as they are having fun living. Divorces are at an alltime high and dont appear to be coming down any time soon, family morals and values are being tossed out the window at the same time and no one really seems to care so life goes on and so do these idiotic extra marital affairs. Its really sad and too bad

wildflower

I think you're right, a lot of women don't think twice about cheating if they think they can get away with it. Personally, I think that if you play with fire, you'll get burned........!

smashingdelite

oh no there are still more cheating husbands. Thats what got the woman started in the first place , their cheating husbands. So whats good for the geese is now-a-days is good for the gander now. Equality at last.

AMY S

You know its funny you say that, there is never a good answer theres people who seem so happy in their marriage but still cheat so i dont know maybe she was curious, maybe she was a virgin when she married, maybe she feels or know something is missing, maybe her hubby cheated on her and she wanted revenge, maybe shes bored i dont know ...

lone_lee_days

It is happening more and more but...........maybe she just needed some attention at the time and if no one tells, she is in the clear. Is it right, no, but maybe it was a fling of convenience.

sword_maker_samurai

it's the same everywhere, it may be she's in a bad marriage ? who knows what happens, but one thing i do know, too much alchohol had a thing to do with it.

Thinking

Just a guess off the top of my head:
A combination of the (false) feeling of freedom, being out of town, away from normal responsibilities, ALCOHOL (certainly), camraderie, fun, etc.
Oh! And the most important one: the Fall. Also known as Original Sin. We are all subject to that one.
Even the posters above who would "never" dream of cheating.

Lilian

Why you just put it all on the married woman, and sound like it was all her fault. It takes two to tangle. After all, Why did your friend still slept with her, even though he already know her status? And if he did not know at first, he should try to find out before he get laid.So ,maybe they both didn't care for the outcome. Men cheats on their wife all the time, too. More worse that, they even cheat when their wife's pregnant. So tell me which one is more worse.

dohm84

Because people are to quick to "Stop Caring" when things get rocky, they run and do things to make the other person mad rather then fight for there marriage. People are stupid, if you are not ready to be married, DON'T GET MARRIED!!! It's as easy as that!

cadet

Woman are self- supporting now-a-days. Years ago, 'till 1980's, women had difficulty getting house loans, jobs that paid well, or plain respect.

Women do not NEED a man, and that is Independence. All I'm saying is consequences aren't that severe , and reputation no longer interferes so ....

Tsunami

men and women do this and its sad. they are not all doing this but there is that percentage that do i just hope i never have to be one of those its bad period lol

duaneb_59

There are a lot of choices out there. Many times when away from home she can have an adventure, this is the main reason that people cheat. It's for adventure.

Nati

everything's too easy nowdays. every one's too easy nowadays. parents are no different to kids, they want everything, they want it now. doesn't make any difference what you pretend to be committed to, if something better comes along and wags its tail, let's jump it! that's society apparently!

becky b

Could be a MILLION reasons. We are human, make mistakes and we sin. I think if the husband and the wife both put each other on pedestals, there would be a lot less cheating.

Ray E

It takes 2

xxNBTROUBLExx

the same thing that prompts a man, the ease of it. its sooo easy now days to cheat and get away with it....or if u get caught, doesnt matter, they see it as they get to do it all the time now... for awhile. it gets old fast. theres way too many people out there that cheat with no conscience, then people like myself are misunderstood as "jealous". when its just KNOWING what people are like now. i dont trust the whole world when it comes to a relationship. its a tough place to be, but its reality.

kathyw

alcohol.

twinkle2twinkle

ego, she wants to see if she still has what it takes to get a man.

lawstudntbynite

You need to watch 'The Secret lives of Women' on We tv.

the quiet storm

probably the same thing that would prompt the man. you have no Idea of what is or what took place in the marriage to pass judgment on her or the guy she had the one night stand with. or if it was even a one, night stand. I don't believe in making excuses for adult mistake's. wrong is wrong. the very people who run this country are doing the same, behind double bolted door's. some in public place's. is your friend aware that you took something that was most likely told to you in private and broadcasted it all over the net? the simple fact that you did this speaks volumes about your character and the type of person YOU are. are you immuned from her type of behavior? no you are not. does this make you a bad person? no it does not. it simply says we all make costly mistakes in life that could be avoided if we spent as much time seeking to understand, rather than, to be undersood.and to listen with our ears rather than our mouth. and to see with our mind not with our eyes.believing is seeing.

Shana N

It is sad that people don't value their vows anymore. I think the times are changing and marriage just isn't as valuable anymore to a lot of people.

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