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ouragon
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I fought to get a man to return home. Then when he did and I'd informed his gf's husband of all they'd done and he couldn't return to her, I threw him out. It was great. |
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๑ Pink Diamond ๑
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let him go I say why fight for a cheat to stay, I have dignity. |
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jmd72inva
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my ex strayed...I actually fought to keep him....surprise, surprise- he did it again (and again). I kicked him out for good. I will NEVER feel that way again- 1 shot- that's it. |
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sheloves_dablues
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Unless I were in that position, I don't know what I'd do.. But I know that people in happy, healthy marriages don't stray, so if he did I'd have to take a serious look at what's not working in the relationship before jumping to any conclusions. |
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Dengue Woman
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I would never be able to trust my husband again if he cheated on me. I won't live with someone I cannot trust. I expect he feels the same. People who love each other, REALLY deep down, don't cheat.
Out he'd go! |
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Valerie X Account #16! MEAN GIRL
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I divorced him.
Screw that.
Life is too damn short.
Been remarried these past six years to a real MAN....he is hotter too and makes more money.
Payback is a b***h. |
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Mrs. Robinson
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i really would
i give my man a hundred percent of everything. i only want what i give.
i would never look at him the same.
there would be no apology, just his regret..
and sara, thats a very naive outlook dear..... |
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Packersgrrl0923
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Honestly, for me, it would depend on the magnitude. If he had maintained a gf for a while, he would get the boot instantly. If he had a one night stand, I may let him make it up to me. |
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KiarasLilMomma
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Id kick him out. Im the stereotypical redhead feistyness. It would take all the strength in my body not to choke the living daylights outta him.
If I could hold my composure Id do what ouragon said hahaha,thats awesome lol. |
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~jaded~
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Mine cheated and I fought to keep him. After 1 yr I realized it was not worth it. What I was really doing was fight to make him miserable, and all that happened is we were both miserable.
Next time I wont bother - just keep walking if you are going to cheat, cause I wont want you. FINAL |
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Baby G
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I did kick him, there is no point fighting for him, he will just get big- headed, and not worth it... |
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Jean
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I honestly can say I would keep him to the curb. I have been betrayed before and I felt so stupid, helpless and naive for thinking the relationship would work. I looked like a fool. Never again. |
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♪♫ ♥Heartbeat♥ ♫♪
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I can't imagine why anyone would fight to keep someone who cheated on them.
I wouldn't want him anymore. It would be an instant turn-off.
Or just the excuse I was waiting for!! |
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crazyone
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I would definately take all things into consideration...what is going on in the relationship and the moment..what was the reason for him to stray. I'm a believer in making things work, but realize too that some things just can't be fixed and things will happen for a reason. |
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Helicreature
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My husband would be gone...that day...for ever. Why? because we have an incredibly happy and passionate marriage, we are true soul mates and we cherish that. If he was prepared to jeopardise it then I would know he had fallen out of love with me, and I have too much self respect to stay with a man who didn't love me. I am quite sure he would feel exactly the same way. |
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Mrs. Heather Schabby
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Well, I'm not too sure to be honest with you, I think it depends.
I love my husband unconditionally -- even if he cheated, I'd still love him, I'm just not sure how much I'd be able to deal with.
I think if it were a one night stand I'd be more apt to forgive him (after a long period of grieving, of course) than if he actually had an ongoing affair.
Both would be extraordinarily painful, but at least you could contribute a one night stand to one night of lust and bad decisions, as opposed to an actual ongoing affair which would take a giant disrespect and disregard for your spouse's feelings. Who knows, there is a chance if he cheated even just once though I may not be able to forgive him, I'm not really sure. I hope to never have to find out.
Good luck. |
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Mz L0v3L0ckD0wn
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YES ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
and imma telll you straight out like this:
i would forgive him a million times until
i realize that i really dont deserve what he does
or until he leaves me, i guess im just weak |
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icewitch54
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The fact of the matter is that until or unless you are actually in that situation you may think you know what you would do but you don't actually know. I suspect that many who automatically say 'once a cheat always a cheat' and 'throw him out' etc have little if any actual experience of such a situation. That is why I never answer in the way. Every situation is different and what may be right for me may not be for another person and only the people involved know the whole scenario. |
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grumpy girl
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dear sir ,
i am not dating anyone at this time. the rule is : stay with me and only me , or get the crap out !!
i will not cheat on anyone , so they better not do it to me.
before i give him the boot { if i found a guy and he cheated...} , i would rip out his intestines { or ..other parts...so know ..} through his eye-sockets !! would be a reminder to not cheat on the next one....
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Jai
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I can take care of myself so the hell with him. |
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Andcatz
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I have no clue..I let you know if it happens. |
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~Smoochies~
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I always used to think I would divorce over cheating, however, I thought my husband cheated and I did NOT want a divorce. I think some women say they would ditch him so they have control and to try to scare their man into being faithful. It would be a hard hit to the pride to tell a cheater you wanted to work it out and hear them tell you they don't want you. I think many women want control of the situation and want to teach the cheating man a lesson. Why ditch him to teach him a lesson if you only make you both miserable? I love my man enough I don't ever want to be without him. And I am willing to accept the fact that I am not perfect and he may have been lacking something from me. I think it all has to do with pride and control. |
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Seriously?
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Well, since it hasn't been a pattern for us (thankfully) I guess I'd have to say it depends. I mean if he's decided he loves the person than I'd call it quits (and nail him hard in court). If it was a short fling and he's repenting and wants to "fix" things to continue our marriage I would say I'd be willing to try. We have one daughter and her well being would play a big part in it. Now, if she's out of the house and grown and he cheats I might just decide that I want out (and still nail him hard in court). It's kind of hard to say, especially with a child involved. |
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miabella b2b 6th June 2009 !!
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If he preferred another womans flesh to mine then there would be no point in staying together, he obviously feels that he has outgrown me so I would stand aside and let him go.
As for fighting to keep him, no way would I do that, I would encourage him to either be with his affair or to find another woman.
Why fight and lose your pride when its already been trodden on by his infidelity, no man is worth that once the trust has gone. |
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daeve930
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There are a lot of variables to consider...money, employment, children. In my current situation where I'm not responsible for anyone other than myself, there would be no second chances. A man who cheats isn't worth the fight. |
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Vivita
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It would depend on the situation, it would take a lot of groveling and therapy on his part (well some therapy/counseling on mine too) to take him back and only if I trusted he was sorry (not just sorry he got caught). I do think couples can overcome infidelity but it's very difficult and both parties have to be up for it. Don't think for a second that I wouldn't do it if I wasn't 100% sure of the above, his a** would be on the curb before he even knew what happened. |
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TOTO
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He has strayed ( I am sure 99%) have'nt thrown him out but I am waiting for the right time to leave! Thing is some men just will not go!! |
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Naysa
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Why would I stay is the way I feel. I am to open and honest and compromising. Pretty much I know with out a doubt that I do all I can to make him happy. He says this to me all the time to so if he cheats I feel like what's the point, that must just be the way he is and will be because I have given him no reason to disrespect me like that. |
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Try n Smile
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I would never be able to trust him again. I would probably try to make it work though, if he was the man i truely loved, but i would no im my heart it probaby never would work again. We would probably end up fighting and then breaking up anyway, but it wold be more painful. I really know i could never trust someone who cheated on me, i would be wondering if he would do it again. I woudl wonder where he was when he went out, if he went out with his friends i would think he was cheating on me. It would completely destory our relatioship and everything we ever had. |
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