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Keith Perry
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Ouch. That is a toughy! You need to see if there are other signs. If he hasn't been faithful before then you should be able to pick up on those signs quick. (You have to give him the benefit of the doubt until caught red handed). She could have a thing for him and he denied her. She could now be trying to start something between the two of you. (you never know). Or he could actually be cheating.
All I can say is give him the benefit of the doubt until you have concrete proof. Don't try to put things in perspective until you have all the evidence. Some people do learn from their mistakes. Don't base things on the past. Base it on what is happening now. This could put a strain on your marriage and complicate things when in fact they may have no reason to be. |
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diva
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you should star 69 her #, if its a hair salon, then you're probably fine, if its a residential house # then you need to beat your husband with a frying pan........ |
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miss lady
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If not in the making , i did not know barbers make house call when you need a hair cut |
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Chris C
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He may not be cheating, but is sounds like he is attempting to....
Get a flowbee and cut his hair at home... |
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bianca w
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thats what they always say! leave him |
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Leroy
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definately
3rd marriage ? that boys not only cheating , he's crazy |
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Clints_wench
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HMMMM very suspicious. He should not be giving his number out to women if he is married period..Men like that want you to trust them then something stupid like that happens. What are we to expect? We might have been born but we weren't born yesterday... |
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celery_is_the_enemy
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Cheating.
The woman already gave you the answer. She said he told her to call him at home.
He gave her your guys' home phone number. How else would she have gotten it? By closing her eyes and pointing in the phone book?
She told you he gave her the phone number and had told her to call him.
Especially if he wasn't always faithful before you were married. Ouch. Sorry, but once a cheater, (almost) always a cheater.
Him trying to laugh it off and deny it is a whole 'nother ballgame. She obviously got the phone number from somewhere and he is lying to you about it. If he didn't have any wrong intentions with that woman he would have just told you, 'yeah, I told her to call so I can set up an appointment with her' or whatever. By him trying to laugh it off and ask why he would do that, he is trying to throw you for a loop and distract you from asking what the hell is really going on. |
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heavenlyhotchild
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well, there is something he is hiding, and she did call the house,you should have got more info from the chick, like why did he say call you |
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JustMe
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I would think he is. There is no other reason for a women to be calling your house. I would do some investigation. Check his cell phone records and show up to his job at night. |
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Xena
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Probably! Hire a private investigator. Or borrow someones vehicle that he doesn't know and stake him out. |
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thezaylady
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This can be summed up with a philosophical word that describes most complex situations such as yours:
DUH! |
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Trina R
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Yes probably.....for some reason the other woman always feels the need to let the wife know what she has been up to......what a ho...u should've *69 the number, did a reverse search on the internet and stalked that beeeeaaaaatch's house.....thats what I would have done/ |
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FaZizzle
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You need to seriously TALK to him about your concerns.
While I'm sure there is more to this story, you both need to have a coming together. You've been married for 11 years--congrats! However, it may be time to just have a check up on your relationship.
The call may be nothing, but it may be something.
For now give your husband the benefit of the doubt and assume that it's nothing. |
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jit bag
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trap him. go to his haircut place and ask who cuts his hair. then throw something at him. |
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s t
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I can not answer if he is cheating. I have never seen your husband on the fact. Now back to your original question-- what was it anyway? yes, the phone call and what you would do -- number one i would not panick. it is only a phone call. number two -- politely i will tell her -- he is not home and ask her name and her number. now at least you have some facts to go by. and please don't jump to conclusion. next -- I will make sure the information -- is true. that the phone number and name are correct. easy to verify. once you have those facts -- i will find out where "she lives" -- that is also easy if you have the correct number -- find out if you can her profession etc. May be there is nothing -- behind all that info. now ready to confront the hubby -- tell him who called. if he wants to volunteer info -- that is fine. if he does not want -- that is when you begin to ask yourself questions. when you get to that step. come back for the next question. hope it helps. and you need some good luck but really not much. you had plenty of experience already with your number 3 hub. |
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Allinwiththenuts
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Let me look into my crystal ball, yes, no, I dont know. |
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Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly
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Hire a detective if any other evidence comes up of him pursuing. Until then, expect the best of people till proven otherwise. |
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Chanel
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It doesn't sound too good to me. Very unusual that he would laugh about it, if it was really nothing...I'd guess he'd be surprised that someone called and asked for him!
Listen to your gut feeling above all else. Think about the facts of the situation.
No one can tell you if he's cheating or not because we haven't seen him! But the facts don't look to great, and the past doesn't either.
The best hopes to you. |
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dmizell1221
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Ask him what is going on and then go with your gut instinct |
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Munya Says: DUH!
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so basically he just said he wouldnt give out your home number BECAUSE you'd be home at night...but he'd give out ANOTHER number???
He's either just stupid or he's cheating. Sorry, I would need more info. Maybe you need to go see if he's REALLY at work when he's "working nights". And dont just call there. Go there. AND THEN from the parking lot next to his car, CALL the place and have them bring him to the phone. Dont call his cell, he could be anywhere, and just having his car parked at work.
AND then I'll finish up with "once a cheat, always a cheat" and...did he cheat on a prior wife with you? Hmmm...I say clean out the bank accounts, put the bills in his name and call a lawyer!
Good luck, sweetie! |
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Girliegirl
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Maybe. With these things you kind of have to go with your gut. If you truly believe there's cause for concern, than there is. If you believe him, remember this call, but don't obsess about it and move on. |
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caring_sm
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Maybe......Just trust your gut feeling and good luck |
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Pink Denial
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I don't know if he's cheating, but something is definately fishy. Many men react in just this way when they are almost "caught"; they laugh it off and try to make the wife feel silly for even suggesting it. |
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Jennifer M
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yeah i think soo |
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Not sure if he is cheating, if not he's probably thinking about it..He laughed when you asked him this question that is a big red flag...So did she give out anymore info,,,i always call to make my hair appointments they never call me unless there is a change in appointments for some reason,,,did she discuss changing any previous appointment or was that the end of the conversation?? what smells like a rat is probably a rat...good luck... |
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James R
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if i was u i would im me at lookie_here692000 |
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Ole Whoopsie Daisy
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can't a man get a hair cut from an attractive woman without being suspected of cheating....again?
It could have been worse....it could have been a male "cutting" his hair! |
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easinclair
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Sounds like he has a long history of being unfaithful. I think if you have to ask that question then deep in your heart you know the answer.
He knows how to talk smooth and say just what he thinks you want to hear.... And because you love him he's depending on you to believe him.
It sounds to me like she was trying to let you know about herself and your husband.
If you don't trust your husband there is really nothing anyone here can say that is going to change that...
Marriage is based on love, trust and commitment. You deserve the very best in life along with happiness and security.
Suggest some marriage counseling and see what he has to say. A therapist can help you get to the bottom of this and give you tools to either mend things of get out....
best wishes and I'm sorry you are going through this, I know you must be hurt and scared. |
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susie_notts
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He's not cheating with her but maybe the next one!
My husband talked his way out of many a similar situation. I eventually found out the truth. Trust your instincts. Also think about the woman,,, why would she embarrass herself like that? unless she was also innocent and he was the guilty one.
My husband said that laughing was the easiest form of defence! |
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hotsavannah21
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He's probably cheating. How did she get the phone # if he didn't give it to her? Either that or someone is just trying to get him in trouble with you...since they called while he was at work. I've had both happen over the years. |
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