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Felidae
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Have you talked to him about this? Is he having problems at work? try and get to the root of the problem; failing that - tell him to get his act together. |
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sinned
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those words are in my vocabulary ma'am. please accept my apology for your inconsiderate hubby. i guess that isn't my fault because you picked him. have a great day. |
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twinspin
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I ad a husband like this n after 13 yrs i divorced him best thing i did wish id dun it sooner!!! |
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zeldieuk2002
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i left the hubby watching a programme on stress in men this morning, i do everything for my hubby, every morning i wake him up with a cup of tea, if i have a lay in, he will wake me just to make him his usual cuppa! fi you ever understand a man, please write on here and let me know the secret! |
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dnlrawson
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Do not tar all men with the same brush as your husband! I do quite a lot for my gf and she seems to be the one doing the moaning and complaining. |
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Joyous
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No and even when they do say sorry, they always carry on justifying why they did whatever it was to begin with. Read "Men are from Mars...." it actually does a really good job explaining how men and women's brain are wired differently and how to get through to them. |
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michelle
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Unfortunatley those words are not in thier vocabulary! and yes the more you do for them the more they expect. It does hurt to not be appreciated,,,but guess what honey??WE ARE THE STRONGER OUT OF THE TWO!!! men can be VERY selfish,,thats just thier nature. keep doing the great job you are doing. |
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dungeoness
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can you just chat and let him tell you if there's anything wrong?or has he always been like this,in which case you've got to get used to it. |
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aangie781
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hmmmmm....this is either Lothario OR Lotharios wife. |
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Dmh
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take yourself out of the situation for a short while, go away for a week or so and then he will appreciate you. If you dont do everything he may grumble, but on deaf ears! |
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random
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Well firstly how long have you had this grumpy old man?
If he is aged between 35 - 55 hes def turned into a G.O.M
and when he starts his wittering and a moanin just get that heavy
metal CD out and play it loud ...I said LOUD....VERY VERY Loud
until his mood pass
or....
Just become a uber selfish ***** who spends her days doing what SHE wants WHEN she wants ... its worked for me all these years!! |
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jelli_bean_36
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sit him down and spell it out for him. also helps to find out what his problem is |
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yeah well
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is this a question, or a whinge, if its a whinge, you might have ure answer. if its a question, you need to give us more detail.. |
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I could speak about two ex husbands... I could suggest you read about Asperger's Syndrome... he might fit this... I could say it's a male thing anyway... or I could just say, after reading your replies...
THANK THE GOOD LORD THAT I'M NO LONGER MARRIED!
Sigh;-) |
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Bec
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Ask Lothario.. look at a couple question before yours.... |
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purefire41
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sounds like an "insecure" man.........or one that has no idea how to be a man.........to start with. ASK HIM......."why are you such a pain in the ***" |
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Blunt
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Perhaps you are being overwhelming, needy and clingy. Give the man some space and a hot meal.
Good luck |
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missnikid
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they are in my hubbys, i would do fcuk all for mine if i wasnt appreciated and rewarded |
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sandra+3...
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Snap! And no matter what hints are given nothing changes.. So you start to do less & less untill they notice.... Like not picking clothes up to wash So they never get done. they face is a picture when come friday they have nothing to wear!!!!!!!!!! |
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Bebe
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Its in their genes. In my experience if you behave in exactly the same way, his attitude will soon change |
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theoriginalquestmaker
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Mine is like that first thing in the morning. I just let him get it out of his system until he acts human again. |
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CazW
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have you ever read "men are from mars, women are from venus"? i'm reading it at the moment and that explains a lot of it ; ) if your into that kinda thing. if not maybe have a little word in his shell like and see what the problem is? |
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whydiduaskthis?
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give him some and see what happens |
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bty53404242
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They are made that way....My advice is try the opposite... Do less... Then drop the words thank-you from your vocabulary too.. Tell him things like dinner is still in the supermarket and if he wants it he will have to go buy and cook it himself... |
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PAMELA O
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hahahahaha!! Well I aint married - but I think that grumpy men are just part n parcel of the whole men package!!!
Give him a tast of his own medicine - or secretly record him when hes having a grumpfit and play it back tohim - hopefully it will embarass him enough to cop himself on!!! |
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casurfwatcher
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periodically, men have to go into "cave mode" when they need to be left alone to work out something that is on their minds. an hour or two is plenty for that.
if you need help, for goodness sakes, ASK for it. why do you women always expect us to volunteer? we know better than to invade your way of doing things. speak up, your lips ain't broke
a hint to the smart woman .. always ask a man if he WILL do something ... when you ask if we CAN do something, the subliminal message is a questioning of our capability to perform a task. WILL you lift the car? (we may try just to please you) CAN you lift the car? "Hell NO!" think about it ..all men want to come to your rescue, none of us want to justify our ability to perform. |
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choo
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the best thing to do when hubby is grumpy is to ignor him - dont validate the behaviour by trying to sooth or please or get angry. leave him be and he will work it out on his own, use the time to do something you like instead...... |
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.�°*�.Shall.�*°�.
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well I'm sorry to say this but if you read what you have typed on here your answer is staring you right in the face ?????
STOP DOING IT THEN GO ON STRIKE see how long he can go on without clean socks,boxers,clothes,tea etc just see how long it takes for him to say something do your meals,tea etc and the kids stuff if you have any leave his till he starts to help around the house,I'm lucky i don't ever have this problem my husband does just as much as me so do my boys aged just 8 and 13 so if they can do it so can your husband no excuses we do not live in the dark ages where women did everything today is 50/50 it's called give and take and it sounds to me that he's taken and your giving STOP IT NOW good luck put your foot down or put it where the sun don't shine {up his a**e} |
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Mrs Dwkns
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They are big babies and that is what they do. There is no changing it. |
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Jackie
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Has he always beenlike this? Sometimes its the way they were brought up so perhaps his father didn't help his mother either. Manners have to be learned. I'd just say to him "I'd really appreciate it if you could give me a hand". If he doesnt help then next time he lazes about, you do it too. |
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Ton
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you should divorce him lol |
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