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MLAW77
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that sounds odd to me too. do u think theres a chance hes having an affair and might have contracted an STD? has he been to the doctor recently for any reason at all? |
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Vix
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He's definitely been up to something. Be careful! |
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RedBeard
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Yeah, what man wants to wear a condom if he doesn't have to. |
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prettyinpink03@verizon.net
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well thats how my bf is too he doesnt like condoms, so when i ask him to put one hes doesnt like it and says no, so if he ever puts one on i would say yes its sound strange. unless hes got this std from screwing around or ur not on the pill. |
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loseit
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Well I just asked my Husband and he said that your guy is probably up to no good. He said more than likely this guy is sleeping around and wants to make sure he isn't going to give you something? I don't know just a guess but yes it's very weird and NO you are not jumping to conclusions! |
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elle55407
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That is very odd. Trust your instincts on this one. Something is going on. Don't mean to alarm you...but I would personally be digging a little deeper. Maybe he's got an STD he just found out about. Maybe he's been with someone else and isn't sure if he has an STD or not. You are NOT over reacting. After all this time...the last thing a man would do is pull out a condom unless he had a reason for it. |
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kim h
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I don't think that you are overreacting. You have never used a condom with him? I would ask what he is doing with them. There is something going on. Find out what it is. |
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Chuck C
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I do agree that is something weird coming from a man he wouldn't suddenly switch habits like that unles: A something scared him (example aids or maybe the though tof children.) B. He doesn't trust you. Maybe he thinks you are the one that has something to hide and that was his devious way of bringing it forward by switching your normal routine most people feel guilty when their normal habits are questioned. |
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EVELYN A
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Very suspicious...I would be concerned too. Ask him to be truly honest since you will NOT be tolerating any cheating. Good Luck...hope it's not as bad as it sounds. |
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Crystal G
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sweetie your sixth sense is not failing you. he is cheating or has cheated and got something. go get yourself checked out and make sure everything is cool with you. but your husband is cheating sweetie and dont sleep thinking that he is not. GodBless |
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osok48
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It sounds kinda fishy to me also. He may have caught something he didn't want somewhere else and doesn't want to give himself away by giving it to you. Be careful. |
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drewxjacobs
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It's rather odd behavior from a man that never wore a condom. My first thought, if it were my husband would be, he had been with someone else and didn't want to pass anything on in case he might have contracted something. My husband has never been a condom wearer and if he had a ready supply and whipped one out, I would be very suspicious. |
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snowyniner
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Maybe he is afraid of you getting pregnant. |
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MWestbrook
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Men don't like condoms, it's as simple as that. He has a germ and is trying to hide it from you. Even if he were trying to prevent you becoming pregnant, he'd be chosing another method such as pulling-out. |
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Jack P
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Sounds like he has been dipping his stick in strange places. |
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i'm back again
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you just said a few days ago your husband hasn't made love to you in 4 months now you say you are surprised he used a condom i know a fake when i hear one |
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dizzkat
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If you are on birth control and he pulls out a condom and you are married............there is a problem.
If you are not on birth control and he pulls out a condom then it could be more than one reason- the best being he isn't ready for kids right now, but still very strange.
Less messy? Why now? Ask some questions my friend! |
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Phoebe Finch
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He's lying. |
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malkav99k
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As a guy I have to say it's at least suspicious, but is not necessarily a worst case thing. at worst it's because he's sleeping around, but it could be something more innocent like the though of having kids at the moment is freaking him out. It is possible you are over-reacting but he should at least be owning to the fact that it's odd. |
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fattyb1980
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yeah some thing is going on and it could be cheating and he might think he got some thing |
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teenie
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He has been with another woman and wants to make sure he didn't catch anything from her. My ex husband did the same thing to me. I know you don't believe that but i bet that was the first thing that entered your mind. I have read all your answers and all but three or four say the very same thing as me. Sorry hon, but you have a cheater on you hands. I know how it feels you just want it to be a dream and wake up.Your whole world will change now it will never be the same. |
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BlackDahlia
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Maybe he has an STD and doesn't want to give it to you...or is concerned about you getting pregnant. Or maybe you don't produce enough lubrication for him, and it's painful for him, so he's using the condom as a form of lubricant. |
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