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thats me
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i think you are a very bad husband and that is saying it nicely. Your wife had four kids for you and you are going to go cheat on her because of her weight.....maybe you should try getting her out of the house and tell her how much you love her....not how she needs to look good for you..... |
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rocswife
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If you love her it dosnt matter if she hell of big or skinny minnie. What if she loose weight and get another man then you will be looking very salty. Then 2 I hope she leave you anyway because you aint no good and no good will come to you. Good Luck on your serch for Miss america you crumb. |
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Common Sense
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Yep..
Bad husband..
Help her lose weight..
If you want someone else, get a divorce first... |
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emolover
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Your a pig and a dog. She doesn't need to lose wait. |
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Just_Me
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are u kidding?
she gave u 4kids..and of course her body changed(every woman changes af.preg.) and ur thikin about cheating now that she doesnt look the same? |
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ABC
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u r defenitley a bad husband. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH U? THATS UR WIFE!!! WHY THE HELL DID U MARRY HER FOR? HER LOOKS? U MEN R SUCH PIGS. |
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People come up with ALL SORTS OF EXCUSES for cheating! As if it's justified!
"I was drunk and it meant nothing"
"I don't get enough attention from my spouse"
"This other person treats me better than my spouse"
"I only got married because I was going to be a parent"
or in your case.....
"My wife is too fat from having my 4 children"
If your wife is overweight, chances are SHE KNOWS IT every time she tries to fit into a pair of jeans. You cheating on her won't motivate her to hit the gym and lose weight. And if she does, it won't be to impress YOU that's for sure! |
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Paul
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Well, dude, unless you put in your marriage vows "Until weight gain" do us part, what you are planning is immoral. You owe it to your wife and especially your children to stand strong and stay in there battling for them and their security and their future. |
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biggbilly03
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might motivate her to castrate you... |
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S K
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I'm sure she'd be motivated to divorce you. |
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Another Garcia
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Well at least your trying. Listen, why don't you try working out with her. It will get your endorphins going and might get your mind off the trash you see and hear everyday that if your wife doesn't look like a super model she isn't worth f'ng. If you want to try to save your marriage without breaking your vows why don't you try working out with her it will motivate both of you and results are right around the corner. |
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SCOTLAND!
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if she saw you with someone else ya'll might barke up.....just tell her you want to loose a few pounds and will she go on a diet with you. |
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mama
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What's wrong with plus size women? And why did u married her for if u couldn't support in her bad times. |
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♥Sunflower
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Hmmm..Motivate her to get a divorce maybe but not to lose weight. It is hard to lose weight after it is too far gone. Give her a break. I suppose you have talked to her nicely about it right. |
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anicoleslaw
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No, that would motivate her to divorce you and get a lot of child support.
Why don't you do fun things together? Like take walks, play a sport? Encourage her as she loses a pound or two. This will keep her wanting to continue on the plight. |
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Charlie
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You should let her catch you with Dr. Phil!!
You don't gain weight from babies unless you eat them or steal their food. You gain weight from food.
She is overeating because she is getting more compassion from beets and burritos than the moron she is married to. |
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louise
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If I was her and caught you with someone else...yeah that would motivate me.... motivate me to pick up the phone and call a locksmith to have the locks changed. It would motivate me to call a mover to come and get all of your things. And motivate me to call an attorney! Come on...did your vows have for better or worse in them? You should look at her now with weight and all and know she loved you so much to gain weight in order to provide you with 4 beautiful babies! You can remind her how beautiful she was when she was a certain size and tell her you were more attracted to her at that size or tell her you want to start exercising and dieting because you feel like you both need it (if you do diet/exercise together she might feel as if you are more understanding about her weight now because trust me she is aware without you telling her that she has gained the weight) ....but I would not do anything like being with someone else just to make her want to lose the weight. |
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Free-Lance
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MAN get real! You wife won't lose weight because she has no time, selfisteam, and after 4 children probably no strength to !
Quit being Selfish and star to help her out more then who knows. If you have an affair I hope she divorces you and then take Everything you have in Civil Court. |
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Poppet
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Ha ha ha. Wonderful fake/false post. Try to use more imagination next time. Thanks. |
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B K
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Well, "Billie Joe Jimbob", letting her "catch" you up on a stump banging away at a donkey, despite how much you enjoy it, probably won't make her very jealous.
By the way, despite what the hung-over substitute told you in your one-room dirt floor schoolhouse, it's *lose* weight, not *loose* weight. Mmm-kay?
Now run along and think up a better troll. |
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sweetgranny06
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if your ashamed of your wife because of her weight then you don't love her for who she is it's what's inside that count's she had four kid's by you you can't expect your wife to look like a movie star it's more to love fatter that they are or do you want a boney person look at your self before you put your wife down |
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datemasterdude
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what ever you do, dont talk to her about that directly, it can blow up in your face. just start to be more fit and active yourself and invite her to join you.usually someone will want to do what the people around them are doing. if she doesnt want to, then just slowly work into it. for example: say you want to go for a walk with her or something, and moving on to biking or hiking or something.
and NO her finding you with someone else would not be good at all, if anything it would only make things worse. |
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confuse06
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i hate that women do not listen to their husbands and then complain of being cheated..but at the same time,if you did a good thing by communicating it,you should do a second better thing: help her. you can subconsiously help her change her habits,without pushing it so obviously. ask her for walks, or cook over the weekend vegetables or healthy stuff. tell her that you are the one in diet and force her to buy "light" stuff or tell her that you will get her whatever she wants if you both guys loose certain amount of weight,etc. or talk to a friend of her or sister discretly so that she feels that is not only your thougths. |
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Jose R
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try some actities... such as join a gym n have her tagg along and walk or exercise w/ her. make it fun. tell her to take a long walk with you daily but at the same time hold her hand or make her feel like she felt b4 the kidz... and in the same process she'll be doing sum exercise.... also change YOUR diet so she changes hers aswell... so you both eat healthier... |
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junior1108
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Now she has had your kids and put on some weight.She was looking good enought for you too have four kids together.If you want to help,then do things to help her.Sounds like you have seen a woman or too and you want to cheat and you need a reason to justify it.Be a man and keep your wife and kids together,you may never find a woman as good as she is,then what would you do besides looking like a fool. |
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darlin12009
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why would you want to hurt someone you love by doing that to them?
if that is the best idea you can come up with to motivate her, she is better off without you.
why dont you think of less hurtful ways, like offering to watch those 4 babies while she goes to a workout class, or curves or swimming? why dont you offer to go for walks or workout with her?
sounds like you have already made up your mind. |
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Kit Kat
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Sure...that might motivate her to beat your ***. You need to grow up some. You marry because you love the person, not for how they look. I have a feeling you arent Prince Charming yourself. However, to continuly nag someone is not an incentive. Look for ways to be encouraging in all ways to her just just about her weight. Good luck. |
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Shootsscores
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Dood, you need to support her. Does she want to loose the waight? Help her. If she is lazy and sits on the couch and lazy like my stbx. Then kick her to the curb. |
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