Am I a bad wife for forgetting to pour my husbands coffee this morning? He told me I was and I feel awful :(?

Ole Whoopsie Daisy

Yes you are and you need to be properly reprimanded.

Carrie!

Ugh. I hope you aren't serious! You aren't a slave! Kill him.

Mommyk232

How old are you? I think/hope this is a hoax.
Any man pull that crap with me and I would be out the door....baby - phone- coffemaker and more.
If this is a true story you need to put that man in check- real fast!

atl2004grl

Grl stop cryin ova that. His hands work. He aint handicapp. Your baby comes first. You r his wife not his momma.

Big D's Sexy Peach

he sounds mean, your his wife not his servant

Rhianna

Honey you are so much a better wife than me. I don't make my husband's breakfast. Seriously he was hopefully having a bad day and isn't always like that, hopefully never, or he is a real ******. I really hope that he treats you right usually and that you don't let him push you around. Good luck and feel better because you are a good wife.

rosierotweiller

sort yourself out you are not a bad wife your husband is an *** hole how can he say you are bad wife just os you didnt pour his coffee is he not capable of doin it him self????
i think you should remind him that its more important for your baby to be fed than for his coffee to be poured.
he is a bad husband to say that if my husband said that to me he would be told where to go

Eeyore

Your husband is a controll freak. My husband's little sister went through the same thing little lady. She was a wonderful wife to her husband, but he didn't think so. Hey you fixed his breakfast! He could get off his own lazy @$$ and gethis coffee himself. Sounds like you are a good wife, but controll freaks will ALWAYS find something wrong with you. they want you to feel worthless and dependent on them. Good Luck Sweetie

gottaloveavy

It shouldn't be a problem if he doesn't get his coffee. He probably was just in a bad mood today. If there's something else, just talk to him. If not, he's got some problems.

huggz

He needs to go back to the zoo for some retraining...like a couple of thousand years of evolution should do it!! You were being a good mother caring for a helpless baby, surely the neanderthal can pick up a pot and pour his own coffee?

Leela

any woman who would put up with something obviously childish and pathetic like this needs to get a really good look at her marriage. why'd you marry someone who acts like he's 10?

Rawrrrr

Your husband sounds neurotic. You are a good wife! I don't even get up in the morning to make my husband breakfast, nor does he expect me to get up so early. Your husband needs to give you a break, especially since you are taking care of a baby.

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NO! YOUR NOT A BAD WIFE!!! If u were busy, with HIS baby, then tell him to pour his own stupid coffee. Remeber: HeBrews, Not SheBrews. Its Bible Standard! (If your like that)

*Mustang*

tell him to pour his own d*** coffee or go get some at the store, I's put my foot in his a**, and say don't let the door hit you on the way out.

OrianasMom

I seriously hope this is a joke and you are going to be laughing at my expense. No human being deserves to be treated that way. I work 50 hours a week and my hubby is a stay at home dad. Dinner is usually waiting for me when I get home, but I'm not going to have a coronary if it isn't. Marriage is about working together. You are not his slave you are his partner. God gave him two hands he can pour his own coffee.

Sandra K

I am sorry that you have such an oaf for a husband. With a new baby he shouldn't be so cruel.

Maybe he is feeling neglected because a new baby does use up a lot of energy. But, I suspect that he is one of those guys who expect his wife to wait on him hand and foot.

That is not a partnership. A marriage should be more than a partnership. When one person can't hold up his/her side the other balances it out. Love, respect and consideration are the cornerstones of your union. It appears that your husband feels himself to be the ruler rather than a partner.

You may need to get some help from clergy or relatives in this matter. I will pray for you.

webby

Are you for real? Is your husband a severely disabled person unable to pour his own coffee?

Connie M

No, you're not a bad wife. Sounds to me as if you were just doing what you needed to do. The bady needs to be taken care of, he's old enough to pour his own coffee.

awommack

tell him you feel

tommy_8473

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh,No BRAINWASHED THO!!!!!!!!!!

Burhan

Think of this, You are a wonderfull wife who is taking care of the man's child and making him breakfast as well. You are not bad he is the one who is bad not understanding the baby's need. He is a grown up man and he can pour his own coffee where as the baby can not feed itself. Dont feel bad in my opinion you are a wonderfull wife.

Claire

Look, this is unbelievable.
You are absolutely not a bad wife. Does he not have a hand and a portion of brain to pour his coffee himself? It is very nice of you to do it for him, great, but if the baby needs you etc, I find your husband's reaction really bad.
Mind you, I had the same sort of attitude at dinner tonight. Ha ha, let's form a club. I left the room and said he should do his own cooking, though.

Colleen

You are not a bad wife! You are a great wife and a great Mom!

Torres

It sounds like your husband is being very selfish.. He is taking into consideration that you are taking care of his child, his household and well as him...

He is very capable of doing things for himself... If he wanted the coffee, then he should have poured it himself....

There is no reason in the world for you to feel bad, that you forgot to pour his coffee.. The baby is priority.. Please don't let him put you down, for not doing certain things around the house or for him. The kind of talk on his part, is a way of lowering your self esteem. Don't let it happen.... Remember that you are not his maid, you are his wife. He do for him, but he needs to do for you as well...... He also needs to treat you like one...

A real man, would understand and not only that, he would help you out. Being a stay at home Mom and Wife is a full time job. It is not as easy as many men think it is......

Good Luck and God Bless!

MissJ

No you're not a bad wife for forgetting his coffee.
You took the time to cook him breakfast, and obviously you made the coffee... does he not know where the coffee cups are? Does he not have legs? He could have poured it himself. For crying out loud. He was out of line.
Sounds like he's got jealousy issues with the new baby. I sure hope you two can work things out.

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