Am I ready to be married?

April

You can't even spell the word boy correctly - I don't think you are ready for marriage.

Look Away, I'm Hideous

to put it short and sweet. you are not ready, finish college first.

Mongo

Nope! A marriage at your age, particularly after knowing the guy a few weeks, would be a disaster. You would end up making one or more babies and then splitting. Don't do it.

Violet Pearl

No, I think dating for 30 days and deciding to get married when you're under the age of 18 is probably a little hasty.

Nacho

haha HELL NO. getting married is a lot like buying a Ferrari, if you have to ask, ya aint ready.

Anil I

1 month?!? 16 years old!!!

HELL NO!

I know people who have broken up after several years of being together and they were also positive that they would get married.

again ... HELL NO

no. Marriage is an adult commitment that should only be entered into after careful thought and planning.
How will you support yourselves? Where will you live? Are you going to college? Do you agree on money? kids? pets? religion?
There's a lot more to marriage than love and people who don't look at all the other things end up divorced.

No, you are to young to get married. You will miss the best years of your life if your throw them away to a young marriage now. If this guy truly loves you, he will wait for you. He, by the way, is also to young to get married. Can he support you and your household? I bet not.

The Wife

First of all, you can't know you are in the kind of love that it required for such a commitment after only 1 month. Sorry, but it does take more time than that. Love isn't all there is to marriage.

Secondly, you are 16. You should not get married this young. No one should. Unless you're aching to be a divorcee by the age of 20. Are you?

Just date him... be together for 2 more years. If you still love him to death and want to marry him, then talk about it again.

Nicky

NO. Wait, take things slowly. You shouldn't be in such a hurry to run through life. Enjoy everyday. Your still so young.

cadeigh^lur

omg do not do it

Watch IT!

too young

Hokie_Pokey

You're not ready.

At 16, you have a lot of life to experience before you get married. Keep in mind, that many people who marry that young usually get divorced.

You don't have to marry your boyfriend just yet. Date him for several years. You've only been together for one month so you don't truly know him. You may think you do, but you don't.

junkman

WAY TOO YOUNG !!!! need to be at least 21

amyvail25

No way, no way, no way! You hardly know yourself at 16, let alone someone you've been dateing for a month! That sounds like a disaster! If he is so in love with you, then what's the rush. If you guys are going to be together for ever anyways, then he can wait a couple years to marry you. Oh my gosh, don't do it!

Nickelsworth!

Noooo, no no no! wait till your 20s.

momrfg2003

Not that you are going to want to hear this, but no, you are nowhere near ready.

efb91

No. Get your GED, and date for at least for 5 more months. It's none of my business how you live your life, you simply know more about it, but from what you're telling me getting married right now is a bad idea.

fthjulymom

You are far from ready. Give yourself a chance to explore life first before you get tied down. You may think he is the love of your life but there are millions of fish in the sea and if you settle for the first one that thinks is in love with you you will just end up hurt and alone. If he truely loves you tell him you want to wait and if he says no then he's not the real one for you. You are still young and need to spread your wings first. Good luck

BabeHeart

Short answer: NO

First: you are too young to be even thinking in terms of marriage...wait another 8 - 10 yrs

Next: you haven't known each other any time at all...it takes a while to really get to know someone inside and out...this is infatuation at best

Also: What you think is love at your age, is NOTHING like what you'll feel when you're an adult and actually fall in love. Puppy love is just a precursor...like the tip of the iceberg.

Time and maturity will change so much about how you both think and feel. I got married at age 19 and it was the stupidest thing I could've done. I thought I was in love too, and wanted to be all grown up and out of Mom's house...dumb, dumb, dumb.

Patience.

team.awesomest

No I think that you are way to young to get married ecleast start collage or wait until another year ecleast because you haven't known him long enough. I'm waiting to get married around the age of 20 or above.

justakiss62

You should be playing with Barbie dolls not worrying if you are old enough to get married......

Ahh_Sweet_Boredom

I doubt it.

PPSCSwimGirl

First off, 1 month of going out is not enough to know! Second, you are too young in my opinion.

llcooljosh279

its called puppy love, im absolutley positive that you wont be with him in 3 yrs, ur too young, im ur same age im in love, and she loves me, but we both know that we are not ready for marriage.

Petesux B

I'm all in favor of getting married young, but you guys are TOO young. Wait till you're 21, that is a perfect age. You're young, good looking, and have a whole life ahead of you. Right now at 16, you haven't even laid the groundwork for a solid home to grow up in. Nah. Don't do it! Wait. If you can't wait, then obviously something is wrong.

Dani <3

you still have your whole life ahead of you and your to young to get married.

thea a

If you gotta ask I think you already know

CLOWN

you are irresponsible

Soldier's Girl

no....for the fact that you are only 16....while you live him now, you may or may not feel the same way in 4 or 5 years let alone for the rest of your life. you still have a lot of growing up to do and so does he. you two may be different people after this growing up so you dont know if you will still love that person or still feel the same way. if yall are meant to be then you will be. wait, stay in the relationship and if it still works a few years later, then get married. marriage will only make things 10 times harder.

Lynn

Ummm, NO. How do you plan on supporting yourselves financially? Sorry honey and I'm sure this will make you upset, but honestly - you don't have a clue. You are a child.

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