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Am I really old? I have a complex about it .Please answer if you're over 30 only?

Okay well I turned 21 in June, I feel so old. Do you people in your 30s see me as being in a similiar age group to you? My life is moving too damn fast : (
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Well I dont know how this was posted in this section but I'd be glad of answers anyhow, thanks


    




Valerie X Account #16! MEAN GIRL
I am 33 and I have ZERO in common with 21 year olds.

To me, you might as well be in High School.....seriously.

You aren't on my level in any way at all......maturity, emotionally or otherwise.

Stop worrying about crap like this.

You'll spend more of your life being OVER 30, than you will spend being UNDER 30. And your 20's FLY BY!


Old Kid
I'm 43 and still feel like I did in my 20's. It's all in your mind. You're only as old as you feel.


Seth..
LOL. You are closer to the age group of teenagers than 30 year old adults. I still consider 21 year olds as very young, I find it hard to take them seriously cause they really aren't grown adults, they're college kids whose lives revolve around hanging out in bars most of the week.


organic
21 is stil young
you are so lucky


willow glitter
Lol, I'm 38 and don't feel it, I feel like I'm still in my early 20's. When I was 21 I had 2 daughters so I guess having them so young has kept me feeling young!


Dino
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You just want people to tell ya that "you are still young."
No, you are not. You are too old already. Now get over it


bobby d
I didn't feel old at 21 ... and to me now, 21 is still almost just a kid ... so enjoy being young ... just don't be young and foolish.


Michael V
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Well i'm a 36 yr male from louisiana i have some friends in there 20s
an well are good friends but thay don't understand like my friends in there 30s or 40s like life!


mfsf2006
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no you are young


grammie
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Honey I'm 61 and I don't feel any older than I did when I was 21 only much wiser and I have more patients. And I don't worry about the small things like I'm feeling so old. You need to grow up a whole hell of a lot. Your still a baby.


Podie S
Well let me put it this way. I'm 49 and just caught my 52 yrs old husband talking (cheating in my opinion) with a 26 yr old. I feel that she is a child. Nothing in common at all. Different generation. Your still barely legal. Stop worrying about it and oh don't chase after older guys LOL


GidgetGirl
I barely felt "grown up" at 30. I'm not sure what you're talking about when you ask about "age group." If you're asking whether people over 30 can form valuable friendships and take those under 30 with any seriousness, yes it's entirely possible. However, after 30ish, people have a tendency to be more settled in their lives, and it's easier to maintain friendships and take one's peers more seriously.

Most of my friends from my 20's have moved on, and it seems the friends I've made in recent years have been much more fulfilling.

BTW - "party buddies" does not constitute friendship. I don't take partiers of any age very seriously.


Happy-2
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I felt extremely young at 21. I would have a hard time explaining how I'm different now vs. how I'm the same. However, you are not old. Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed by the brand new, or about-to-come, responsibilities of young adulthood. But, you are very young. You're definitely not in my age group, because you're young enough to be may daughter. (I actually have a daughter who will turn 24 next month.) I'm 46 years old and I am here to tell you that you have plenty of time ahead of you.


Geoff the skier
I'm 53 and I'm still young - stop worrying.


Brigitta
It's a shock to your system when you get out of your teens. Then suddenly a lightbulb goes off that your parents still feel like they did when they were in their 20s. They are still the same people, just with more information in older bodies. We change a little with wisdom and time but we stay the same people. You're young and you'll grow. I can tell you that I am 41 and I am happier now than I have ever been in my life.


Johnny
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21 is a great age, still young, I am a lot older then you


Sweetzoe
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You are not old.

Why are you saying that over 30's?

I am 20 so almost 21.


mully
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21 yrs of age is not old. i'm 38 and although there are days when i feel really old - there are more days when i feel younger. I'm alot different now to then at 21. i have grown up, i'm alot more mature and more tolerant. when i was in my twenties i didn't seem happy with anything even though i had a fab twenties...being (still am) married etc etc. but when i hit my thirties everything just fitted into place an i definitely became alot more settled and content. personally i love being in my thirties and wouldn't turn the clock back.


icewitch54
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I'm 54 and I don't feel I am old. I still play badminton, and am fitter than many people younger than I am.


Gaz
Some people are old at 21, others are young at 71 !!!!!!!!!!


kheserthorpe
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I'm 33. You're so young that I'd likely find you less attractive once you started talking ;)

To a large extent though, its life that moves you along, not age. 35 year olds who still go out to clubs all the time have more in common with 21 year old club goers then they do with 30 year olds who are married with kids.



Jenna
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Hello! you're only 21. Your fun just started.
When I was younger (a real woman never told her age), I though 30+ must be old. Now I'm 30 (for how many years I don't remember now), but I'm still feeling young at heart. I still have hopes and dreams. So it's all up to you.
Life is uncertain, enjoy it while you can!


sid
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im not over 30, but where i work age isnt really a problem. i am the youngest person there and its more personality then age. my friends at work range from 19 to about 48, and there is not at all any little groups that are split entirely because of age.

i dont think age really makes a different to what 'group' you would hang around with.


Classic Beauty
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Girl, I'm over 30 and NO I do not consider you in my age group at all. You are still young and need to have as much fun as you can. Just be safe!
Take care


xenonvalkyrie
Depends if you have children or got married at that age. Then you would feel older than your tender years.


Anti theist
I am 49, and if asked what age i would like to be again i would say 21.
So you're NOT old.........
Enjoy the best period of your life!


Apple Tart
I know 20 year olds that act like 40 year olds and 40 year olds that act like teenagers! I think 21 is young. When I was in my 20s I thought that 30 was sooooo old. Now I'm over 30 and I think that 40 is old. My husbands grandma put it best. She said that she doesn't feel like an old lady but people keep treating her like one! Age is a state of mind and trust me, you are still young.

I actually feel younger now in my 30s than I did in my 20s! I think it's because now I have a career and more stability and a more mature emotional state. Now I get all that with all of the fun (shopping, lunches with friends, house parties) that I did in my 20s


Just Call me AJ
I'm 40 just after Christmas and don't feel any different now than I did when I was 20. Age is all in the mind. I'm now older and wiser, and have a house and wife and kid so life is much better than when I was 21.
I have friends in there early 20's so all in the same age group as far as I'm concerned.


scooby doo!!
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21 isnt old im just turned 18 in july and i think i know what you are getting at i feel like im not in the same age group as someone in there teens at 16 lol but really 21 isnt old i think that age doesnt really matter like my 2 grannies 1 is 68 and the other is 76 and that is wat you call old


Ivan
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I'm 55 and I have never felt a different person since about 19 or 20.
Funny but I always felt older at 21,31,41,51.. something about having moved into my 20's or whatever. 20,30,40 and 50 didn't bother me.

Oh to be 21 again, so much has happened in the last 34 years it would be fantastic to go around again.
Enjoy your life - you have it ahead of you. Damn, I'm jealous!


blackpool lass
hiya 21 is not old,but it is your turning point.time flyes past now,before you know it you will be 30 and so on.you are has old as you feel.you start to get all the ache and pains.then all your bits and pieces start to fail you.





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