Am I required to be friends with my sibling's IN LAWS. She just got married?
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Am I required to be friends with my sibling's IN LAWS. She just got married?
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just went to my sister's wedding. met her new hubby's 6 sisters and bros. they SEEMED snobby and we had little to talk about. i can act civilzed but am i required to be friends with them and have meaningful relationships now that we are family?
cause i realize that your siblings pick partners that suit them, not necesarrily choose partners that suit you. so are you friends with your inlaws? if they werent married, would u still be friends with them?
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soulkid.........who said i didnt like them? i dont even know them.
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Allison
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You don't have to be close friends with them. Be polite and friendly so that family get-togethers are comfortable and happy affairs, but you don;t have to share lots of personal information. |
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soul child
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You are not required to but you should want to. It's ironic how you don't have relationships with them, just met them and don't really know them yet you don't like them and don't want to befriend them or accept them into the family even though they are already legally in the family. Question is do you love your sister and what is it about you that causes you to have this type of attitude towards them, and you shouldn't have to "act civilized" you should be civilized! |
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ST0MP3R
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dont be selfish she married him so dont ruin it with your judgement,or behavior YOU HAVE NO RIGHT |
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Candy B
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no, not close to them but always be polite and friendly, first of all make a rule--no gossiping. |
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angel
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Your sister is married into that family not you, in fact you never need to see them unless your invited to some kind of party like a baby shower for your sister but other than that no need to see them |
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sugar_spice_and_steel
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No, you're not obligated to go out of your way to make friends with all of the new relatives, though it is polite to make them feel as welcome as possible. You never know - maybe they're shy, or just reserved in the beginning, and they'll be a blast later. You don't lose anything by being the courteous one. Your relationship with them will depend mostly on what your sister and her new husband want - does she intend to invite everybody to giant family Christmases, or will this be the last time you see them for years?
I'm very close to my husband's parents, and I get along with his brothers well, though they have their own lives. It does make it nicer for my husband, as there's never any fears that family dinners will be a big blow-up, or that he'll be forced to be in the middle of a fight. However, I do have the advantage of having an incredibly nice extended family, so it's not like I had to make any effort to like them. |
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KhmerLady
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You dont have to be friends with anyone you dont want to but acting civilized wont harm you. But you should consider trying since these are your sister's family now. You love her so you dont want to be a problem in her marriage life, right?
Well my opinion is NO! Civilized: YES!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!! |
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kd_lifer
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They are you sisters problem now - you can sit back an laugh when she tells you the horror stories about them! |
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