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Am i being silly?

Over the weekend me and some friends went clubbing, my husband disappered and later when i checked the website i found pictures of him with loads of pretty girls, we are not talking at the moment as he says he can't remember, if that was me there would be uproar, am i bein silly?


    




Angela
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How do you people come up with this stuff?


♫Pavic♫
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yes you are, divorce the freak, honey!


squarepants_ejo
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No your not! You feel hurt and betrayed as i would too! Like you say if the boot was on the other foot what would he do? Ask him, see what he says. .. .


GRAy
no. you need to know the truth so communicate.


bender
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no


snowfoxx71
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You are not being silly. But talking about it is the best thing. Hopefully once tempers have calmed down a bit it will be eadier to talk.

Good luck.


Princess P
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no your not being silly!!! cant remember what kind of excuse is that! ultimatly do you feel you can trust him?


moonchild1808
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hey,
u should be......


I Seek
"Can't remember" is just a lame excuse. Ask yourself, why did he do it? What does he need from you that he hasn't been getting? A "fulfilled" and contented man isn't likely to behave this way. Ask him what it is that he needs in your marriage, and then if you can, provide it. If he "strays", that is a first step to a second step. What is the second step? Cheating? Take it as a sign that all is not well in your marriage, find out what it is, then give it to him if you can (because something's missing). Good luck!


Honey
Did he take pictures with you?


IrishLassie
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god no...being drunk is no excuse,.... your right to be p*ssed of


capricorn
it serves him right. don't worry. i really can understand you. i wouldn't believe him if he told me i don't remember. i'm from greece and here people say: 'all the pigs have the same face....!!!' <<pig=man>>
hope everything's okay...............
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ijlafia2006
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u are not being silly may he was drunk


cheetah7
I don't think you're being silly but what I don't understand is why doesn't he remember them? Was he drunk when the pics were taken or is he just having fun posing w/ some girls? What were they doing in the pics? Were they naked? Sorry to be asking all these questions but it's hard to judge without knowing the contents of those pictures. Since this is obviously bothering you a lot, I suggest you speak with him about it if only for your own peace of mind.


&gt;&gt;||&lt;&lt;
Men are visual creatures. Are these girls before you were married? He is with you right? Is he showing you that he wants to end the marriage? You might be reading into it more than necessary.


shan3328
no you are not being silly. why can't he remember? was he to drunk? that is still no excuse!!!!!!!


ngiapapa
No you are not, but how on earth did you find your husband's photos on the internet? Is this normal? How is he depicted in the photos? Is he doing something wrong or is he just hangin our with the girls?
And I'm really sorry but I would not buy the excuse of "not remembering"...
It's very naive!


Magick_is_you!
Not silly at all...I'd kill for something like that...he can't remember...please!...


elliebear
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Hmmm...


minerva
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what was he doing wth the girls? if he's just posing for a photo what's the problem..if he's getting it on with them then you have some serious talking to do. perhaps clubbing now you are married is not the best idea!


xbkw46
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Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander!! You need to have some agreement as to what is and isn't acceptable to you both!!


Fie
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What he was doing in the picture? if he didn't do anything wrong why should be a problem then?


JJassey
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Well, man are man....if you do that then perhaps you will be slap with a divorce paper........Since it has already happened and if you can forgive him then just move on with life and tell him don't do it again and it will make your life happier instead of such a misery and cold war....


ward1703
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obviously not id play him back at that game ang get loads of pictures of me with girls see how he likes it


donua1022
well how did he manage to get onto a web site, he must have been gone for a long time ,, mmm makes you wonder, i dont think that i would be taking to him either, the old i dont remeber trick, works all the time.


zoe198718
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Definitely not how would he of reacted if that was you doing that, 9/10 it would have been the same.


Andrea
No, Calm down girl, everything will be all right.


babygirl
i dont think u are being silly.especially since he cant seem to explain the pictures.





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