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Sukotash
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Yeah, he's wrong, a sin was committed, but it was him, not you. You have the right to say NO to anyone, including your husband. And why do you say "but it's ok" if you're upset enough not to want to sleep with him? It's NOT ok...... and you are right to be upset with him. He's trying to make you feel guilty, don't let him. HE's the guilty one and he knows it. If you want to stay with him, I would suggest counselling, because he seems to think he can do this and then shift blame. A person who cheats once is very likely to do it again. |
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Dave S
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I think HE is the one that comitted a sin....
Tell him to buzz off |
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Cybeq
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First of all, it's not OK that he slept with a cousin. What you are doing now is simply a natural reaction to what he did. You guys need counseling bad and fast. |
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dukalink6000
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You are NOT committing a sin |
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dread pirate lavenderbeard
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Well if he slept with your cousin, and you do not want to sleep with him anymore, might I suggest that it is time for a divorce.
As far as it is a sin if you do not, I would think if you never did again it is far less of a sin than your husband hopping in the sack with your cousin like some dog. If it were me, I'd neuter him like a dog that he is. |
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Lauren
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i really dont understand he slept wit ur cousin?? |
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Tophy
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You are NOT committing a sin. In fact, he is the sinner for trying to manipulate you the way he has. I'm no longer Catholic, but I know my sins. |
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lastmanstanding
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first of all he has no room to speak about sin. how is sleeping with your cousin o:k, you all belong on jerry |
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Mickey Z
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1st CORINTHIANS 7:2 AND 7:3
YES ITS A SIN |
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collgegrl11
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just because he committed a sin by committing adultry does not give you the right to. however, he does not have the right to tell you its wrong. you sound like a young couple so i'm assuming that by the sounds of it your marriage won't last very long if you're both looking towards other people. |
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Davy D
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what you are doing is not a sin, but he broke one of the 10 commandments when he slept with your cousin (adultery) |
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PennyPickles17
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You both took vows, you need some good marraige counseling if you want to try to get past his infidelity. I can understand how you wouldn't want to sleep with him after he has been with someone else. It may take a long time to get beyond that. You say your mind is with someone? Some other guy???.. I don't get that part...
married people are SUPPOSED to be with the person they MARRY and that's ALL> Why do people get married if they can't manage to be with one person for the rest of their life? I don't get it. |
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possumboots
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he is the one commiting the sin tell him to nick off |
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Michaela 4120
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It is NOT okay he slept with your cousin. It sounds to me like he screwed up and it now making YOU pay for it with some mind games. He committed the sin first, breaking the vows of your marriage (unless you just handed your cousin over to him and told him to go at it with your blessings). You don't have to sleep with him if it makes you feel sick or uncomfortable - that is a privilege for him and HE screwed up. If you have thoughts about someone else, perhaps this marriage isn't going to work out or you should seperate in the meantime. As for sin and all that, I wouldn't base too many of your decisions on what he says or even what the bible says. Just do what you think is right even if that means divorce- you deserve better. |
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silly_girl
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If your husband slept with your cousin.Well I just have just 1 question for you.WHY are you still with him??He is the one that committed the sin |
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ya girl
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if he cheated on you and you forgave him you are not committing a sin, you have a right to say when you will sleep with him, because he must now regain your trust. if he was really remorseful he would understand and comply with your wishes. if he doesn't comply then you have the right to not sleep with him and even divorce him. You can divorce him because you forgave him and he didn't want to do what it took to get the trust back. |
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mom of 2
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In the Bible it tells women not to deny your husbands it tells us to cleave to him but it also tells us not to commit adultery. But it's not a sin or at least I don't think it is |
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~*CoUnTrY gIrL
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No sweety ur are in the right but dont commit adultry leave ur husband and go for the other person. ur husband has no right to tell u its sin in the fist place because he just did "my husband slept with my cousin" and secondly its never "ok" to put up with that im sure u can do alot better there are so many men out there go be free until u find someone that treats u with enough respect than to go sleeping around with ur family. so to answer ur question he is WRONG |
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quantumview
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Actually your husband committed the sin by cheating on you. He is compounding this transgression by trying to make it seem that you are the one who is the sinner. This guy is twisting the situation to suit his selfish philandering ways. Now he is bullying you into his controlling domineering submission. Don't buy into anymore of his deceit or guilt. You are not the blame for not wanting to be intimate with him. How could you be close to him after what he did to you? There is nothing remotely "RIGHT" about what he is saying or doing to you. In fact he is one hundred percent WRONG! He slept with your cousin and that is NOT OK ! |
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dsmiling62
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Ok you are worried about sinning but you should not be your husband should be. Why is it ok that he slept wiht your cousin? |
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filmfreak2199
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OK, you are concerned with thre whole sin aspect, but he slept with your cousin, an that is ok?? What the heck??? The sinner is him,a nd you are definately making a big mistake by just staying with the dirt bag. if he can manipulate you into thinking that it's ok for him to sleep with her, and then make you think that you are in the wromg by not wanting to touch the swine. You need to get out of that hell hole, and move on. get as far away from him as you can, and start over. Good luck, and God bless |
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