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ive been with the same guy and have lived with him since i was 17 and i am now close to 21. we have a daughter who is almost two.we have been through many hard times together.and i dont think i could ever stop loving him. the last year has been very hard and we have argued alot.we broke up a month ago the day before he was arrested he has been in jail for the last month and i have not spoken to him.he is being released on a work release program 2 hours away and its like a boarding house and he cant leave it for the next 12 months other then to go to work.since then i have been dating other guys and i have been very happy.he has asked to see me tomm at the jail and i am going.but i dont know what to do.its like i get obsessed with him and i want him in jail because i dont want anyone else to have him.the last year of our relationship was miserable but yet i never left him because i couldnt stand the fact of him being with another woman.the thought of him liking someone else drives me INSANE..what do i do??
hes trying to change his life around but with him theres always problems but yet hes always been my best friend..
its like i want him to be in jail and i want to date other men in the mean time without him being able to be with other women due to the fact hes in jail..it feels like a sickness LOL..

AKAO4D

It is and remember one day he will get out and you will have to grow up.

Siggi

stop thinking of yourself you have a child & your child comes first. Seeing your partners in jail i dont think this is being a good role model for a child and he has many problems well here is the news flash as your child grows up they learn from us as parents you dont want your child ENDING UP CARRING ALL OF THE BURDENS AND WORRIES AND LIFESTYLE OF YOUR PARTNER DO YOU.
you need to grow up and put your childs best needs first and if you cannot do that then give the child to someone who will do that and love the child more than themselves
You also stated you were dating other men who treated you better well that should have sent alarm bells that there are much nicer people than your partner who are more understanding.
Give him the flick stay single for a while and attend to your childs needs 1st after all you brought this child into the world then you need to be responsible and put that child number one on your list and everything ese last

Domestically Disabled

You sound very selfish go and seek help, you are both too young and there is a child envolved. There are so many more in life than dating another boys. And if your BF is in jail he isnt a saint either and I trully hope he chooses a good path in life.
You feel so jeaulous because your arent faithful, you know he cant trust you so you dont trust him

Cure for your blonde addiction

If he's in jail then obviously he needs to work on his self not drag you down with him. Sorry but I don't go that route! you need to move on with your life and get over him. he will move on with or without you and it's not your place to be phsychotic over him with another chic or try and be in his business.

â™¥Makeup Freekâ™¥

Well you can't have your cake and eat it too. You need to do what makes you happy and vice versa. If you feel he isn't right for you then you will have to let him go. He will eventually date others as well, and though it kills you the thought of it, it's only fair to let him move on with his life. You can't be selfish. Either you love him or you don't. If you don't you then you have to let him make a life without you.........

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