Am i still in past, or not yet move on?

jude

u don't always see it when someone suffers, but karma always finds its mark, could take years but it always comes back to bite them. but u need to stop looking into his life, because every time u do it brings back your pain. and u will never find closure when theres been betrayal, just never happens. u have to stop expecting this guy to be sorry, it hardly ever happens. sometimes it just looks as if someone has gotten by with something, but u don't get by with anything not ever.

Em-Jay

Doesn't sound like you've quite gotten over this bloke. There's no time limit on Karma.

BOBBER

Because part of you still loves him.

Gregory

you need to let go and move on because he has. you still feel this way because you are blaming yourself for something that had nothing to do with you. sounds like this dude was selfish and playing the field and you just got caught up. it's not about you, the issue was him and since it's been 3 years you really need to move on.

harshad s

Leave the past and love your happiness or just love the past and leave your happiness!
You are wise dear!
Best of luck!

Sarah D

you have every right to feel that way. im only fourteen but im old enough to know that people that deserve bad things to happen to them never get punished. this is why im atheist. i do not believe any god would let these people hurt other people without payment. and if there is a god then he is one sick person. your just going to have to move on and forget about him. there is someone out there who is going to love you more than life itself. just be patient and understanding. there are sick people out there don't let them win by moping in misery.

dreamgirl28

It's normal for you to feel that way. That's simply because you were hurt. Any moment of pain in our lives is not easily forgotten. And we can't help but hold on to our strong desire for that person who had hurt us to feel the same pain we've gone through because we think they deserve it.

It's not actually your status (if you moved on or not) that you have to be concerned. It's about your negative emotion towards your ex. You haven't forgiven him yet, that's why your feeling this way. I know it's hard but we have to learn how to forgive in order to let go of things. That's like forgive and forget.

Rich

His KArma is the fact that his new wife knows he cheated on you to get to her. So if you think for a minute she doesnt always wonder and question him you are wrong. And you still feel sad because you are the one he was with when he cheated. You wonder whats wrong with you etc. There is nothing wrong with you. Alot of men feel the have to conquer women and sleep with them. They feel better about themselves when they do. So chalk this up to him being insecure about himself, thats why he cheated. It had nothing to do with you, trust me.

Well my ex had a baby on me, and left me and our family to be with her, this has only been 6 months ago, but I'll always have that pain, and If your normal? you will to, but just take it as a lesson learned, you deserve better, and when you less expect it something really bad will come to him or the ones he loves most, If any thing thank him and god for showing you and giving you the since enough to leave him, and feel sorry for the one that he's with now

zero tolerance

first there is no such thing and second why any karma should get him if he didn't like being with u and dumped u? shouldn't karma get u for making someone suffer? maybe it did.

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