Any women here who have dated or married a younger man?

LeeH

Except for my ex-husband, almost all of the men I've dated have been younger. I just seem to be involved with activities where I meet younger people (soccer, running etc.).
Very rarely did I notice the age difference, except occasionally with my current bf (he is 32 and I'm 36). His maturity and responsibility with finances seem to be a problem but I'm not convinced that's an age thing.
I've been judged in the past for it. One of my bf's was 6 years younger than me and some of the peeps in our circle thought the age difference was too much but they accepted it.

â™« Mad Luv â™«

my fiance is liek ayear and half younger then me!
nope and yes people judge me all the time not that i care! and not about whom i with!
they are not quailfed to pass judgment on me!

Em C

Yes i'm currently dating a younger man, but he isn't that much younger than me, only 5 months. He is very mature though, more so than I am. I'm just more playful at heart, he is a little more serious about things and he has his moments :) I think that comes from the army though. No one has judge me I don't think most people would even know, he looks older than me.

Katie

My husband is younger. People didn't really notice, because it's not a huge difference, only 3 years, but when they found out they told him that was hot.

My sister married the son of the boy next door. Thye are not judged as far as I can see and seem happy to me. I think there is about a 12 year age diff.

ablex

Yes, yes and no.
Dated, married, FWB, hooked up, etc. younger guys for a long time now. Like 10 to 20 years younger. No one ever batted an eye or said anything about the age difference (at least not to my face). I noticed the age difference between them and guys my own age, but not between them and myself. I prefer the uncomplicated and energetic younger types to the older guys with their cynicism and baggage. I have enough of those for two.

oryano2003

Are you a cougar?? Let me know...

cheer mother

Me and my husband are the same age, but my best friend is married to a man that is 12 years younger than her. I know she has told me several times before that her motherinlaw didn't approve of them getting married. Me and my husband are both 36. My friend is 37, and her husband is 25. I can say that he acts as mature as we do. We have never look at him as being any different than we are.

Crazy 4 Cats!

I am one year older than my husband. My eldest sister married a guy that is 4 years her junior. Ok so MY experience and life...at first it was weird, cause I was friends with his older brother first. Didn't even know they were brothers, cause the friend and I talked at school and really didn't walk home together because I was in band, and had to stay after for pratice all year round. But no one gave me a hard time about dating a younger guy, in fact, my parents were excited when I told them I had a boyfriend. I guess they were worried I was gay or something because I was 16 when I started dating.
Now the age isn't an issue, though I pick on him for being younger, but we both know its good natured fun. Besides, I may be older, but he is more mature at times! So really, i think it depends on age difference, cause my eldest sister is happily married to that guy and in 2003, after almost 4 years of dating, I married my high school sweetie! I love him more than life itself!

nonameblonde

My man is 4 years younger than me. Most of the women I know are probably just jealous because he's really good looking and in good shape. He's very smart and we get along great. My exhusband was 6 years older than me. Things like that aren't a huge issue at certain ages.

unsung hero

Well, no one judged me, but I noticed a considerable difference in the maturity level. Very self centered. Although I know not all can be like that, the one I dated turned out that way.

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