Anyone's relationship is worse than mine?

Pest

O.k, First of all!! You are NOT alone! This is my story!!
My Sister Marge went to Germany in 1985, and was there for a year! When she returned she, had a surprise for us all! She was married! They stayed married until april of last year, When she divorced him! He became very jelous when he found out she was seing someone a few months after the divorce, So on Tuesday June 22nd of 2005, When she was driving to work, He followed her in his truck, stopped at an intersection, and started trying to get into the car! She left through the passenger side door, and started running down the highway, He grabbed a compound bow from his truck, and shot her through the heart!!!
He hung himself 3 hours later! The police went to arrest him and found him! The day that he murdered her I not only lost my best friend but I also lost my Identical twin! My true soul mate.......
My advice to you is : GET THE **** OUT OF THERE!! NOW!!! CALL THE POLICE!!! GET OUT!!!! GET!!! OUT!!!! NOW!!! DONT WAIT THINKING THINGS WILL CHANGE!!!! THEY WONT!!! THEY WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!! PLEASE JUST GET OUT!!!!!!

sminter2nd

That is not a relationship. Break up with him, get some help, call the police, move in with your parents or friends, whatever, just get out of there, It's more likely he'll hurt you living with him than away from him...how long are you going to let that go on?

LeeLynn

Go to the police!

Tunasandwich

How in the heck did you let it get to this point to begin with? Leave him, leave town if need be, and call the cops to voice your concerns.

lilredhead

Time to call the Cops .. he sounds Nuts. Get away fast. The Cops are there to Help, use them.

Karrien Sim Peters

restraint order. You can break up with him. If he touches you he goes to jail.

michelle

he will kill you. so i think you better get out now. get a restraining order on him. you better make sure you let the authorities know about this maniac. hes trying to brain wash you into not leaving him because hes a pshyco. if you dont get out now you will be dead by him. noone deserves this abuse!!!

tina m

I don't know what you mean by saying you can't break up with him......YES, you can!

This is YOUR life. What do you want it to be?

Becky

Go to the police and let them know what is going on. He is abusing you terribly. Good Luck

Mother of three

When there's a death threat, you should make a police report immediately. You never know what the person is capable of, and I have heard they usually go through with their intentions.

You did not mention children in this relationship? I have always advice people to meditate before terminating a relationship when there are children. But in cases like this, even children are in danger or they just absorb every problem that at the end of the day, they could more affected than the adults in the household.

Try to get help any which way you can before is too late.

Keep in touch please. At this point you need not to be alone, if there is a way you could stay away from him, do go back home.

I'll be praying for your safety

jolie minouche

Sorry my it's noting like yours

Kitten

Go to the cops. You are in it BAD. This one sounds like a psycho.

Sandy F

Well you said it yourself in the last line.. you can't break up with him and then ask what should you do..
well there is nothing until you decide that you aren't going to take his crap any more..
He is one of the jealous freaks out there that have already threatened to hurt you. get rid of his butt. call the cops. have him put in jail.. the abuse won't end no matter what you do .
I have been through this with my second husband .. had him put in jail for molesting my daughter . and divorced him before he got out.. gave me time to change my name and move so that he couldn't find me.. he also told me if he couldn't have me he would kill me.. I believed him .. get out while you can. he has already thrown you out.. so keep on going girl.. it won't get better. You don't want to stick around until someone gets hurt.
show all of the e-mails to the cops and show them what he is saying and doing and they will do something for you.
You can always replace your friends list and phone numbers. so that isn't even a priority.. get away from him and show enough proof of what he is doing to lock him up for a good amount of time..get out now.. think about it later,

hieandbye

are you for real

nothing anymore

run quickly in the other direction. Get a restraining order. THis man needs help and you can't help him. Get out now before he hurts you

marianaadrianaioja

If you are saying that you can't because you love him.....it is hard to convince u (even if u have to do it). How can you bare all of those things that he is doing to you? Is he your first man? What? Make me understand!
Leave him dear. And then change your phone numbers. I guess he knows where you live. If he still bothers you go to the police. Start a new life with someone to make you feel alive in the good way. I bet u feel empty inside, aren't you.
Do what u know u have to do! Don't lose time!

dsd

Get out! Get out! Get out! This guy could seriously hurt you. I can't reiterate it enough. Get out! Get out! Get out!

What do you mean you can't break up with him?

gapeach

Yes, your relationship is worse than mine used to be. And I thought I had it bad. What you need to do is realize that you don't need this guy and that you can do so much better than him. Please honey, don't let yourself be degraded and humiliated like that. You're a grown woman, not a 2 year old. And don't listen to a damned word he says. You know you can do better.

itzfitzhere

Hire a hit man and ask them to make it look like he accidentally got ran over by a train, 20 to 30 times.

silver

Ok so he is an a**, why do you stay with him? Why can't you break up with him? The next time he does something violent call the police. Why do you allow him to treat you this way?..and yes if you don't leave him or report it you are allowing it. This man is abusive you have to leave!

Sunshine

Actually you are in a bad relationship. It's time to get out of it. He is out of control and he knows that he has put fear in you enough that you won't leave him. It's best if you run as fast as you can from that guy and if need be get the restraining order. No one should treat you like that and you shouldn't let anyone treat you like that.

annastasia1955ca

No, mine is bad, but not that bad..........
Call the cops, get a restraining order, and move out of state.

JoeP

exactly why CAN'T you break up with him? OH its because you like being abused.

robcostabrava@yahoo.com

come and see me in spain babe you need some tlc xxxxxxx

bobbysgirl703

Nope, I have a great relationship with my husband. So, how did it get this bad and why are you still with him? Leave, move, get a restraining order, and change your name if you have to.

Harriet The Spy

Walking away can be the hardest thing you ever do, but the most satisfying. Get a restraining order out if he has threatened your life. Think of this as a new lease on life - move anywhere in the world you want. Believe me, there is someone out there who will love, protect and support you. I know for a fact!

NEOTEH

Two words.. Restraining Order

Kevin T

Nope, mine is not worse than that.

Free d

Go to the police station and file a report of abuse and a threat to kill you! Tell them the whole story!
Believe me they will take very good care of him!!!
You do not have to endure this!
This is not a relationship!

Go to the police right now!!!

princesspooh1987

i say the only way to deal wit a problem like that is to get out NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS HE WILL DO. my friend was in the same siituation nad he even took it so far as to come to her house with a gun tapping it on her door and window, and she made up in her mind that from dat day forward he would have to kill her cause she was leaving. i mean he put her and her family in danger so plz get out while u still have a chance and go to the police if you have to just get the hell out of it

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