Are either of these expenses unacceptable in a marriage...?
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Are either of these expenses unacceptable in a marriage...?
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1. her monthly hairdo $100 includes dying, which i could care less about.
2. my monthly 2 cases of beer $70 expensive local beer, which she could care less about.
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Julie H
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I think it's a trade off. Unless you are willing to buy cheap beer don't expect her to buy the $8 haircolor at Walmart and do it herself. |
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amyhpete
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If you both don't care and are able to pay your bills, go for it. |
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Aimes
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They seem to even out expect every couple months it looks like you should get an extra case of beer... |
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Chad B
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They both could go or stay, none are "unacceptable" though. |
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LeeH
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If money is tight both of those things could be considered a little frivolous. But if you can afford it then go for it.
Wow, I want to hear about this local beer? I like beer... |
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robertswife
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Sounds reasonable to me. Save money, buy the beer at costco;)! |
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papercutfaint
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There's nothing wrong with either one as long as you can afford it.. You just need to buy another half a case each month to equal things out. |
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Sandy Ego
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Both are acceptable as long as you can afford it. |
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Queen of Beer
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Both are necessary expenses in my book! |
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HollyyMarie
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nope both fine
not unacceptable
if she wants her hair done she should get her hair done, if you want your beer get your beer
if you have the money that is, these are a luxury so other things should come first ie. bills, utilities, rent etc. but if theres money left over go for it!
hollyy |
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IndyGirl
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They seem about equal.
Either shut up about BOTH of them;
or give them BOTH UP.
Do you two just like to nit-pick or what??
Good luck!!
xoxoxoxoxo |
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Rebekah05
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If you could care less about it, then why are you asking? |
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lorbell
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Neither are unacceptable, as long as you have the money for it. They are both luxuries, though, so I would say if you are tight in paying necessary bills, then you may want to cut out the hairdresser or beer. |
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Salacious Crumb
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She dies every month?
"Dying" = ceasing to live. "Dyeing" - changing hair color.
And if you "could care less," that means you care.
If you "couldn't care less," that means you do not care at all.
Save up your money and finish 7th grade with it. |
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mebo
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You both don't care so, what exactly is the question? |
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KS
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$100 a month on hair seems a little out of control to me-but if you don't care about the money that's your choice
Beer is a necessity lol..... j/k but I don't think that's bad per month:) |
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Brianna
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In your home apparently they are acceptable. In my home... that hairdo cost would not be acceptable. Not that my husband would care one way or the other... but i would think the hair appointment would be too high. One does not get their hair died every month or their hair would be nothing but a fried mess. There is rarely need for a trim per month either, most salons suggest every other month for a few different reasons.
But hey.. who cares if you two are happy... so be it. |
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