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Are you having an affair? Did you have an affair? Would you have an affair?



    




livinhapi
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yes! yes! yes! are you happy now!! i am!!


waia2000
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No.
Never.
Not in a million years.

My now ex-husband did, though. He moved a woman into our house while I was out of town.


Wildflower
No, I would try in every way to communicate my needs to my partner, but if there was no way of working our way through our problems, I would leave on my own two feet without leaning on another guy for support.


warriorbabe
No,why would I want someone else,s headache!


eriamax
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No, I haven't, nor would I. I married the man I love, why would I need another??? If I ever felt that I wanted someone else, I would leave my husband first. It's the honest thing to do, and I was raised to be honest, no matter how hard it may be.


PIX-ED
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NO!
NO!
NO!
When you're married to the best you appreciate how wonderful life can be.


luminosa
No. No. And, NO.


babyangelz
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no no and no!


Ramon
no im loyal neva did cheat


Rikki
No, no and no. I have a happy marriage. Why would I want to hurt the person I love most in this world? It isn't worth it.


tulips♥77
Nope, no affair having here. Never. I wouldnt ever do that. I love my husband and we have a great relationship. Even if we didnt, I still wouldnt have an affair. How would I feel if he had an affair? I believe in taking vows seriously and think that too many people take their wedding vows too lightly.


T T
NO,NO,NO


celticbuddha
no, no and no.
although many other there would say that i'm eligible for having an affair due to the fact that my husband did, and we are now in the midst of a divorce after being separated for 2 years. but i just couldn't disrespect myself in order to break a commitment that i've made to anyone.


BabeHeart
No, I'm single.
No, but I've been the "other woman" and it felt crummy when I allowed myself to think about what I was doing. I'm still trying to balance that karma.
No, because I know how it feels to be on the 'other' end (husband cheated).


Jan
Think about what it would do to your relationship you are in now. They will find out and it will destroy your relationship, forever. Is it worth that?


chelsea
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no no and no i would never do that! never!


jam
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I have never had an affair of any kind. My husband was untrue to me though, & I thought about it to get back, but I would not belittle myself that way. I always thought about it this way, even b4 my , I forgot to say, exhusband was untrue to me, I wouldn't like for someone to do that to me, & it is a matter of respect for that person & respect for myself. right is right & wrong is wrong. I guess I am old fashion, but I am proud of it. doesn't seem to be enough of principles & morals anymore & that is sad.


Mrs. House
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No, no, and no.


Mz.Amber♥'sBryan&Her Babys
No way My body and heart belongs to my husband and him only! We are totally in love and I have NO desire to go elsewhere you can't beat damn near perfect when it comes to marriage!


Lady War
I would never have an affair. That is a total violation of the sanctity of marriage!! I think I got lucky by finding the perfect guy.I would never even begin to entertain the idea of an affair, there is no one who could be better for me than him..7 years strong!!.a lot of people seem unsure of how a marriage works and what it actually means....may God bless you all and heal the wounds caused by your unfaithfulness..


Tracy M
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No to all of the questions.


In_His_Grace
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No to all questions. Committing adultery is a sin and I will not allow myself to willingly sin against God. Vows are sacred that is what a vow means.

When "to forsake all others" is spoken from your lips you are making an oath to hold true to that.


yesyesurugly
NONONONONONO
why r u even thinking about this, there are so many single guys out there why would u even want to get into the drama of a guy that is attached. It says alot about a girl wiling to give up so so much for a guy that is lying and has absolutely no morals because u know he is not trustworthy, is a liar, has two faces, does not stick to his word, is a coward. Stop and think, it makes no sense to be a woman in the shadows value ur love ur self more than a woman on the side!!


Mountaineer Mom
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No, no and no.


not fair
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lets say both partners agree to have a lover, then what shall we call that. remember i said both partners agree


Hoping he will bless me with #1
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No to all three questions.


J K
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I was a mistress. Even though I was the man's "other woman" I ended up getting hurt in the end too. Affairs hurt 3 people. Break up with your partner before you cheat on him or her--it's really not worth the pain and hurt you'll all feel when its over and done. (If they never find out, the guilt will be unbearable...plus, the mistress might tell her in spite of it all...)


skwyrlnutt
i was blamed for an affair if that counts...but its not true she was just a psycho who wanted someone to blame besides herself for losing her man!


boundless
No
No
With her and only her.


Traviesa
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I thought about it. Sometimes imagining myself with older men is HOT. I always imagine having an affair with everything my boyfriend is not but then reality hits and I realize I could never deceive him that way. lol but thoughts are harmless





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