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Are you too shy to go to the toilet in front of your boyf/girlf?

My hubby and I have been doing this for years, but I have recently found out that not many other people do this. They say there is no mystery left between us, but if we are married, should there be any mystery between us? I just thought I would throw this question to the masses and see what comes out!!!!
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When my hubby and I moved house last year, we didn't have a bathroom door. My mum suggested putting a curtain up in the mean time, but we never got round to it. It wasn't a problem, cos we always went in front of eachother anyway. Now we have a door, but we don't bother closing it!!!!


    




Kelly D
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I do, but I draw the line at doing a no. 2 whilst he is in the bathroom lol! (he doesnt ha ha), I think that this only comes when you are comfortable enough with that person that you can do this-as most people who are new to each other(or just have too much pride) want their other half to think they smeel like roses all the time! Well, we dont and I dont see why our partners would love us any less for knowing that we go to the toilet, even though some people would try to make their partners believe they dont. You have found the right man hun ha ha xxx


BOO
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I'm not shy by any means but there are some things one must do alone and with the door shut.


Joey
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Not shy at all, but I think it's disgusting.


domme me
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I cannot pass water in front of ANY other person.

It is a 'turn on' for me to see a woman passing water.

So the answer is... Yes, very much so


Baby Girl 24
I see not problem w/going number 1 in front of each other but number 2...that should be just you//my man can care less if i'm in te shower & he's go to go he comes right in and thats it....No that i'm shy just i think that no one shoudld be in w/you while sh*ting


letitbegood34
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It seems daft to not go to the toilet in front of each other when you've been intimate in other ways but I always had a problem with this and only after about a year did I relax enough...but only for a quick wee, nothing else and only if I was bursting and he was in the bath lol. As for mystery between a couple, there are certain things he doesn't need to see/know about but I'm thinking along the lines of waxing/picking fluff out of belly buttons, that sort of thing!


crystal
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Yes,there is no embarrassment.when you are with someone a long time,it seems silly locking one another out.


*suga-pop*
no i dont that is a private thing witch i would like to keep that way...but what ever flots you boat......


joe
yes


seeitmiway32
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no, not too shy. But I avoid it.


chickadee
Somethings should be kept private, bit of a passion killer dont you think?


Hongisacunt
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I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we still dont pass wind or do poops around each other!!! Sometimes this can mean being in some discomfort for the sake of our shyness but I just cant do it when he's around!!! Im too embarressed!


♥ Love Angel Music Baby
Its sooo embaressing though and then you waste half you Dior perfume to pretend like nothing ever happened :-)


Mise Éire
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i don't mind when doing a no.1 but doing a no.2 i shut the door and squeeze on my own.


Mr Kippling
yuck


Angel
Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 years and ive never gone to the toilet in front of him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


for_runner0
Yes, for gods sake why woudl some1 wanna see that? I get so nervus that I just cant go


the ram
My girlfriand and I have no issues in going to the lav in front of each other, after all in most relationships people taste each others bodily fluid in one way or another which can be classed as worse than seeing someone deposit their waste. I deposit my own fluids in all my fiances holes as I am sure a lot of you do which surely must be worse than her watching me on the throne?


ALAN Q
I never had a problem wioth it, but it takes all sorts, yes?


grrlonthaswing
theres nothing wrong with that! im not shy around my bf when imo n the toilet and neither is he.


johnny
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nope we all human beings


aout
I haven't peed in front of my boyfriend yet. But, he does when I'm in the shower.


rkrell
Nope, we aren't too shy....I do understand where people are coming from when they say it takes away the mystery, but once your together for several years that will disappear regardless. Sooner or later you see your partner at their worst so why worry about it.


zombie_girl_84
No lol If you have to go you have to go. My hubby is at the sink while I go potty LMFAO Normaly our son is in and out also lol He is 3 LMFAO


Footballers Wifey
yes im 2 shy 2 do that. thats like weird 2 me. but i know alot of ppl arent embarassed by it.


ivory_kittens
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My hubby and I do. But we do some things in private. I mean I don't really want him around when I am doing certain parts of my business and I wouldn't want to be in there with him. But when it comes to #1 we have no problem doing that in front of each other.


IndyMM
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if you been with someone over 3 months it should not shy in front of each other


Sweetie!
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When you say toilet do u mean a number 1 or number 2?
I have been with my bf for neally 9 years an would NEVER do a number 2 in front of him but if its just number 1 then theres no probs with that!

nothing to do with being shy, its a matter of respect (for myself) lol


irish_swede1962
Yes


liliw24
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Nope if I got to go I go!





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