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Aren't you people HYPOCRITES?
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Aren't you people HYPOCRITES?

Repeated for the spelling monsters.
Let's see. You all believe that it is terrible to have an affair unbeknownst to the wife.

Aren't you the same people who are friends with people who leave or have left their spouses and kids for someone else? Aren't you the same people who say that you "can't judge" so you still have these adulterers over for dinner? Look around. How many of your friends started out as affairs on one of your other friends and you welcome them into your home?

OK. Begin the excuses, diffrentiation and personal attacks.


    




Keetta
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It is terrible. You wouldn't like it is your wife was banging the next door neighbor and he was putting it down better than you. People can dish it, but they can't take it!


dixiegirl687
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my, aren't we hostile today?


Mr. November
, life is much bigger that this.... move on...


overweight doomsayer
I do not have friends like that.If i knew they did i would not stay friends with them.
I do not like liars and cheaters.
See we're not all like you describe us.


Megs
um, I think cheating is bad, period, and I've had friendships end because I lost respect for people after how they treated their partners...

on the other hand, in my circle of friends, infidelity's not quite as rampant as you're making out in your rampage... yes, it happens; yes, it's a terrible and hurtful thing. no, not everyone does it.


Shut your mouth when u tlk to me
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*I'm guilty of being a hypocrite at some point or another.*
(I'll admit it.) (I'm not married though, so I can't speak on that part.)

~You make a good point, I have no personal attacks on you.~

**In fact I agree with you, I've noticed that a lot on here...and everything you said (which is true)...happens everyday. **

~I would like to see what everyone has to say about it too.~
*This should be interesting.*


ac
1. yes i believe it is terrible for some witch to try to get with my man
2. no, i don't believe any of my friends have cheated or left their spouse for someone else
3. i won't attack you for having your opinion
4. i will if you come after my husband


Shelly E
You asked for our opinions and you got it. You know that you're wrong and all you want is for someone to validate your behavior. You can do what you want to do just know that it WILL come back to bite you in the *ss later. I used to be a cheater and I ended up paying for it everytime. Now I know better and I do all I can everyday to become a better person.


sister
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everyone is a hippo-critter in at least one area of their life


GirlinNB
All people are hypocrites, some of us don't go around pointing fingers (unlike you). And just because someone cheats doesn't mean it was the right thing to do, but unless we walk in someone else's shoes and find out "why" the cheating was done, then it's not up to me, you or anyone else to place blame.


timo_10143
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Get a hold of yourself. You're going on about something but I can't figure out what.


michaeljazz
You know you're still wrong from the last question, and you asked for the advice. Otherwise no one would have known what you were doing at all.

Why make up stuff to point fingers at now? You've called yourself out already. Live with it and think about your choices.


bunny h
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yada yada yada


paul s
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what crawled up you ***??? 2 points


pip
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Everyone of us including you are HYPOCRITES.


ohiofirefighter42
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Actually ive broken off contact with any friends who cheated on their spouses....Some people cant be trusted


Wondering
I don't and I won't.


rich2481
why talk about it to people unknown, if someone cheats on someone and it is unknown, why talk about it,, I certainly would not run around telling people I cheated on my old lady and got away with it


20+ years and still in-love!
Just because I don't believe it right to have an affair does not mean that everyone believes that. It isn't being a hypocrite to have friends that had an affair, it is if you tell them it isn't okay and then go out and do it. I think it is wrong and I will tell them friend or not if I think they are doing wrong, but that would only be my opinion, and they have a right to make the decision. How is that being a hypocrite.


Kim
LOL you know how to get them going. Yes are are completely right, we are all hypocrites especially when it comes to infidelity. We all try to protect what we think is ours, but dont notice or we approve of what our friends family co workers do, because well the b#tch./@ss they are married to deserves it. But when it happens to us, its the end of the world. Thanks for the question.


neicee
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I personally can't really be good Friends with someone who cheated because if I or my husband can accept that behavior then how can we say we will never do it, As far as family members go who have done it, I don't agree with their actions and I won't lie or support them in their actions but I will continue to love them.
No I am not supposed to judge but if my husbands best Friend is cheating then who's to say if my husband did it I could trust the Friend not to lie to me.


Rick46
No to all your questions.


dad
Yep one in the same . I have no excuse for them . I do not hate them and would not kick them out of my house . I look at them as humans we all fall short but if they need advise i am willing to share what little knowledge i have .


Kevin J
It is terrible for anyone to have an affair, man or woman. I personally have no friends or family that started a relationship by cheating, but even if I did, they would still be my friends and family. Just because you do not agree with their actions does not mean that you cannot be their friend. I assume that you support everything every one of your friends, if you have any, has ever done because if you felt what they did was wrong you would not be their friend anymore. You must be a very lonely person.


helpfull2u
who peed in your cheerios???


Anita
Nice job!!!!


Ally
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Anybody in any situation will critize someone for doing something they believe is wrong. But when the situation hits home, they make good of it. Maybe I'm just naive, or haven't had to deal with this just yet, but let me ask you a question... have you ever been in the same position? Do you look at someone on tv who's left their family and children for the sake of another? What runs through your mind? But most importantly, who runs through your mind? It's a messed up world out there, but for every little thing that we critisize, we've been in that position or know somebody who has. This website provides guidance and an outlet for all your worries, but why waste five points to state the obvious?


clbinmo
Having trouble seeing where you are coming from.





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