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Bad luck or just life???

Have you ever heard of someone getting divorced after 13 years of marriage, loosing a best friend of 16 years,getting fired after 11 years. Loosing car and house all in the same year. wow is this bad luck or just life????


    




cheetah7
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Ever hear of that saying...."When it rains, it pours"? It's just a stroke of bad luck. But that's life. The only way to go now is up.


JP the Answer Pimp
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I have now...sounds like you have something going on there, check your Karma...


good_old_bastard
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Well, look at it this way: Your marriage ended sooner than later, so the thirteen years had good and bad times. Just remember the good, but that's over move-on. Your best friend really wasn't your best friend because one doesn't loose a best friend. This person was just an acquaintance that you knew for sixteen years. Getting fired means there's another job waiting for you paying more money and better benefits. And loosing the car and house means you no longer have to make the car or mortgage payments, so you can start all over in a new car and a new home. Just take a deep breath, go out and sit in the sun, and love yourself because someone is coming along real soon to love you!


kierstead
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sounds like a stroke of bad luck , things can only get better from here on out!


olderbutwiser
Look at it this way, when you're at the very bottom, every step you take is UP! Things will change for the better , real soon! Just keep on , keeping on......the wind doesn't blow from the same direction all the time! I see smooth sailing in your future !


ice princess
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sounds like my life...isnt it great to be alive.......***** no!!!!


Drake ☮
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Dude... welcome to life.


CowboyBill
It's just life. A really $HITTY life, but just life. Look at it this way...you got no where else to go but UP!
A wise man once told me, "when you reach the end of your rope...tie a knot in it and---SWING!"


vinyl_mad
sounds like bad luck...in the words of Jazz and plastic population..."The only way is up"


vtlovie
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It is the way the cards fell......I celebrate my sixth year away from my ex husband and it is Friday the 13th...the same as it was the year I left!! I have lost the same things the same way .It has gotten better.Keep your chin up and smile ...good karma brings good things. Look at what you do have and what you have accomplished see the brighter side to your life!!I was married 15 yrs, quit my job of six yrs, my oldest son moved back to his fathers house, it was my house but he got to keep it. It does get better!! I have a good man in my life, my children are almost grown, I have a better job now!! Keep going keep smiling the world is watching!!
~Good Luck~


diana1b
Just life. A lot of people don't believe in bad luck. Much of the time, if one takes the time to reflect, it is possible to see what went wrong. Except for losing the friend ( if you are referring to losing them to death) trials indicate where the person needs to correct their life's path. I hope things get better.
Best of luck. ;-)


snoop_dougie_doug04
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Just life my friend to quote Val Kilmer in Tombstone" There aint no normal life Wyatt there is just life" Sorry you are having a rough time of it. Hangin there doll it is always darkest before dawn.


can u ♥ moi?
its both


BOO
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bad luck !!!!!


Ebony H
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i say both!!!! daaaannnnnggg!!!! who going through all that!!!


beautiful
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sounds like life handed you a lot of lemons. what do you base the decisions you make on? how do you handle life on a daily basis? evaluate that and see where it leads you.


~Jessica~
Life!!


moon light
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it is definitely LIFE, We do not have control over our lives and so things happened because they are meant to be that way, we have a purpose. things kind of shake off to get where they have to be at.

The hardest part to understand is why things have to end after so many years right?
I guess we follow our instinct and don't see results until years passed.


berry
Poor life management, not bad luck.


SexyTrojan
Gum Ball Gal,

Screw everyone who mentions anything about karma.

Sometimes life has a not so funny way of saying "I'm in charge."

Everything will come around, in time. Maybe not the way that you want it or expect it, but life will be bright again.

I promise.


eeeeeeeeclipse
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It does sound like bad luck!


Rachel
Well, when there's a lot of chaos in your life, it only means you're ready to move up to the next level. Things will get better - hang in there and keep smiling.


wilco254
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just life , some times when it over it's time to start all over again and i've been there and done that


LovePotion
It may be a streak of bad luck, or it may be a streak of bad decision making, we can't really tell online. Usually things can only get better (hopefully) :)


casurfwatcher
it is a combination of both ... it would appear that one action caused the rest to occur from the stress or relationship of one to the other.


delmaanna67
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That's called "the storms of life", and it happens to everyone.

In less than a year's time one of our sons was killed in a car wreck, another son quit school, a daughter got a divorce, and my husband had a heart attack and had to have open-heart surgery.


Lake Lover
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Yes ---- but you have no choice but to go on! Better things are around the corner for you and every life has it's cycles. Good luck and I know you will be fine!


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You can never be so far down that you can't get back up again.





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