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Boyfriend's ex is going to have their baby and he wants me there...should I go?

I've known my boyfriend for 7 years and been dating him for 3. Around July I had to leave for a few months to work for my Aunt who's business was having some problems. Right before I left, my boyfriend cheated on me with this other girl, Abby, who had moved onto his street a few months before. Me and her never really got along, because she was constantly trying to get with my boyfriend right in front of me. He told me what was going on, and I told him that if he'd rather date her while I was away that he could. During 3 of the 5 months that I was gone he went out with her and we stayed as friends, until she told him that if he wanted to keep dating her that he would have to cut all communication with me. He then broke up with her and a month later I came back and we got back together. A few weeks later, she told him she was pregnant. She tried to get him to leave me again, but he wouldn't. Now their baby is due in about a month, and he keeps telling me that he wants me to go with him, because he feels horrible that he's not having his first child with me. Honestly I don't feel comfortable with it, and I feel bad for this girl because she really likes him...but my boyfriend keeps insisting it and saying he wants us both to be part of the baby's life. Should I just wait out in the waiting room? I want to support him and I don't want to upset him by flat out refusing, but I don't want to piss off Abby while she's in labor by my even being in the hospital.


    







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