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for sure.leave and don't go back for that emotional abuse.if you go back,you are just enabling him.he will keep doing that to you. |
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thezaylady
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What you have for him is not love. You have an extremely low self esteem who feels that you deserve nothing better than being treated like trash or treasure when it;s convenient for HIM.
His behavior is controlling and abusive. Get out and away from him before the abuse turns physical. Don't look back and don't warm up to his sweetest apologies.
You deserve better! |
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Vanessa
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He looks for reasons for it to end and you beg your way back.
leave the boy alone he is done. Walk away. |
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jon
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The next time he does this, let your suitcase do the talking. |
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Forever
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You must be the doormat because that is how he's treating you! And you are teaching him that it's ok. What a shame. If a guy did that to me, I'd be gone yesterday and he would not have a chance with me! I am too good, worth too much and not willing to let any man treat me bad! Turn around and don't look back - and get some self confidence!! |
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PRiNcEsSmO999
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Why would you want to stay? It doesn't make any sense. Men tell women things that they like when they want something! If you keep running back, you will seem desperate! If he really love you, he would try to make things work out. Trust me, that can make you really hurt when it is finially over between you two. Better to leave early~ |
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wnk
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Is the Pope Catholic?
(This is a rhetorical question... OBVIOUSLY the answer to this question, as well as yours is, YES) |
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Janelyn B
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i think its foolish to stay with him. Its obvious that he dont love you.
you should take off your Helmet before its too late. LOL |
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jack w
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Leave and don't go back. You can't be serious. |
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Joe Prosnick
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Dump this inconsiderate loser now! |
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ME
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I'd tell him the next time he says that, it will be for good. And then while you wait for the next time (which sadly may happen), find alternatives to your living arrangements and especially in the short term until you are able to stand on your own. |
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lonewolf1
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You don't have to put up with that, love or no love, next time he kicks you out, leave and don't come back and see if he comes looking for you????? But I would have left with the first time I got kicked out, see ya,,,i can do better. |
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annita p
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Let me answer your question by asking another: Do you tell people you love to leave you when get mad?
If you don't do it to him and it hurts you, and you've asked him not to do it. Then I'd suggest you run a three strikes rule for your own well being, first time he does it you tell him not to because it hurts you. Second time he does it you tell him that you can't stay somewhere where the person who says they love you keeps hurting you, and ask him not to do it. The third time he does it, you leave and don't go back. That time, he has shown that he doesn't respect you or love you.
What you might want to find out is, if people have left him before in his life and this is what he is scared of when he gets mad, if not then, why does he say it? Also what is he getting mad at? How often is he getting mad?
Dr Phil says 'If you are with someone, you should be happy together at least 80% of the time" if you're not, then you are just pushing each others buttons...
I hope this helps. |
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itchianna
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You should listen to what he is saying: He loves you but not enough to work on the relationship. He would prefer to kick you out than address the problem like a man and work on the problem. If you are willing to continue this way for the rest of your life, or leave one time and instead of asking you back he invites someone else in. Then stay and deal.
Or you could be the adult, prepare to leave adn stay away. The next time there is an arguement, you walk out before he can say his famous line. Tell him to call when he grows up. |
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♥Stang Girl♥
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Answer this question: Is this the life you want to be leading 10 years from now? If not then move on. Good luck. |
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morahastits
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Dump him. If he keep throwing you out ... that isn't showing he loves you very much. You might try this next time he tells you to go out ... Say, "No, I love you and I won't" If that doesn't stop him ... Dump him. |
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intelligent80000
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yes, why are you taking the abuse. leave him and find a mature and respectful man. |
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mjcseaman
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Honey that is verbal abuse. You need to leave. To say such a thing when mad is cruel and mean. |
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efrain78223
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you should not put up with that crap!! you should leave and find someone that going to treat you right!! |
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Scott8684
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Get out and find someone else. |
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harleysNvettes
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he will eventually stop kicking you out of the apartment and start kicking your butt, Get out now!!! |
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garamerun
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yes |
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jude
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if he kicks u out often i think u need to see him for who he is, and not who u think he is or want him to be. yes it is hurtful, and u deserve better, don't let him do this to u, as i think we do teach people how to treat us, by what we are willing to accept from them. next time he asks u to go, do it, and stay gone from him until he begs u back with the show of remorse. he has to have consequences or he will keep doing it to u, and if u don't start setting limits, u will be treated like this forever. |
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Bonduesa
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I would leave if I were you and never come back!! Don't you feel discarded and used when he does that to you? You need some PRIDE. Don't you feel like a piece of garbage when he does that? Don't take this crap any longer or he or anyone else can treat you like this!!! Stand up and Say NO MORE!!!! Close that door, move on to find a kinder, gentler boy friend |
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T Time
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He doesn't love you, it's a control tactic. You already know you should leave for good. |
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longleggedfirecracker
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I THINK YOU SHOULD GET YOUR OWN PLACE. MAYBE HE FEELS CRAMPED (YOU'RE IN HIS SPACE ALL THE TIME). IF YOU WERE TO GET YOUR OWN PLACE, HE COULDN'T THROW YOU OUT. ALSO, YOU CAN TERMINATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AT ANY TIME WITHOUT FEELING PRESSED OR GUILTY- REMEMBER, YOU HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE AND IT COULD BE EASILY FILLED WITH SOME JOE WHO REALLY DOES WANT YOU AROUND HIM. LET HIM GO IF HE CONTINUES TO BE A NAUGHTY BOY AFTER THE SEPARATION OF LIVING SPACES. |
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Colleen O
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I guess you're just waiting for that ton of bricks to hit you in the head? |
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gcriotgurl500
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It seems that he has problems with discussing things face to face.
And he likes to avoid them. and maybe at a time when your not fighting you should tell him calmly "We need to work on ways to discuss our problems instead of getting in a fight and separating and avoiding the problem." but don't accuse him of anything or he'll get defensive and put up a wall and the problem wont be solved.
And if he's not mature enough to calmly discuss this then dump him.
p.s. don't forget to state to him how throwing you out makes you feel. |
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tatortot so cool
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HE PROBABLY HAS SOME ISSUE I KNOW YOU LUV HIM BUT DUMPPPPP HIM
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nickle
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leave! you dont need a child in your life until you are ready to have one. |
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AngeL
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listen to him, leave! don't waste one more second of your life. it doesn't sound he cares very much for you. It'll be tough, but you can do it on your own.
go girl |
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hey
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noones realizing that he can be overwhelmed about something. i used to treat my girlfriend like that all the time but it wasnt really me. it was the sickness. none of u would understand it unless u have it. |
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