Brother's wife trying to creep?

my brother's wife has been constantly trying to get me in bed . I'm also married & i find it disgusting that she wouldn't want to fully commit to him . i for one find no desire to even be next to this woman . she's the tall dark & pretty type but my wife is honestly the only girl i could ever imagine myself with . how do i get her to back off ? i've told her plenty of times to leave me alone but she calls me at work & when she's out with her friends . & ever since she started , i've been feeling weird & creepy & awkward around her or even if we're just in the same room . help !

BikerChick

I seriously find it discouraging that you call yourself "girly man". To me, that indicates that you are a marshmallow, a milk toast, someone who does not have BALLS. I HOPE you are just joking.

ANYWAY, this happened to me with my exes brother. After several attempts to handle it myself, I saved the evidence I could and handed it over to my husband AND my sister in law. My husband had no problem handling it, and after his nose heeled from being broken, the brother apologized to me and it never was an issue again.

oracleofohio

Tell your wife and your brother. That should fix her..lol

Ocimom

Tell her that if she doesn't stop the stalking/harassment, you will file a restraining order on her - and then do it!

Thank you from being man enough to keep turning her down. I would never be in a room or event alone with her - if your wife cannot be there, then don't go.

And also tell your brother what she is doing. My husband's brother came to him immediately when my husband's ex wife tried to do the same thing. My BIL didn't want a thing to do with my husband's ex-wife.

januckey

If she has no qualms with being a hobag, then you shouldn't have any qualms with calling her out. Tell your wife and brother and see how she fairs.

AKAO4D

Keep a log of her attempts to temp you. The next time she tries to throw herself at your manly urges, scream at her by saying let's see what ___<- your brother's name, thinks about this! Then tell him and end this b s once and for all.

Goathead50

Show her how small your pecker is. She'll back off.

iyamacog

Girly man, please ask your alter ego this Q.

LIPPIE

First you tell her that if she doesn't stop that you are going to tell your wife. If that doesn't stop her, then you make sure that you document all the calls you can and invite them over so you can address this to your brother with your wife by your side. It might cause a big rift in the family, but It isn't you that is doing it, she is. Make sure your wife is aware of what is going on and be truthful about it all. Take a lie detector test if you must to prove that it is not you.

3strikes

There are four people involved in this situation. All four people should be made aware of the situation. I would confront her in front of the spouses. Lay it all out there. Your wife will be hurt / angry, but she will respect you for resisting the advances. Your brother will have the hardest time dealing with this. You are going to have to be there for him after the pain. You are still his brother and he will need your support in whatever decision that he makes.

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