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By her own admission she is both very controlling and "expects her man to take care of things"....?
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By her own admission she is both very controlling and "expects her man to take care of things"....?

Doesn't these two things seem to contradict each other? I mean, by being controlling she wants to make the decisions, say when and where, make the decision where we go and how long we are there, ect....(basically everything that controlling implies). But on the other hand she told me that she likes the guy she's with to make decisions, set the times, do things she her without her asking, ect....
If a woman is both controlling and also expects her man to be decisive is there anyway of pleasing her?

As a side note, any idea how come the prettier a woman is the harder she is to please? Any chance of making a woman happy for any length of time if she's 38 yrs old, a near ten, perfect body, great face, has been married but her ex made something like $400,000 a yr, and has young son (she collects about as much in child support in a year as what I make). Do I have a chance of her being happy with me for any length of time?


    




Rories
I'm not sure if she can ever be satisfied. I think though, that the reason why she's like that is that she really wants someone who is going to take care of her and take control and make the decisions, but because she probably has high expectations and has been let down in the past, shes probably scared to give up control like that so she always takes over to make sure it all goes the way she wants it to


spankmaster general
All you can do is get laid whenever possible!
No point in trying to please her!


Tamara
She means man up, take charge but not charge of her life. I know that is what I like in a man.


sharon s
Via la difference between men and women. lol


Nina
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If she was in a controlling relationship, she may want to feel in control again. She probably isn't controlling but needs to feel there is some stability in her life now. If you really want to be with this woman, then have a talk with her.

Communication is so important in any relationship. This could help eliminate any misgivings you may have.


E-Counselor
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Yes, all women want to feel loved and important. If you can make her feel that way, you are indispensable to her. Boost her ego quite a bit and shower her with compliments. She will grow dependent on you because you make her feel good about herself.





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