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Can't wait to get married and have children, 26 yr old guy, is this normal?
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Can't wait to get married and have children, 26 yr old guy, is this normal?

I love my life, it's great, I love going out with my mates and stuff, and works brilliant, but I just love the idea of being a dad in happy family unit, is this weird for a guy to feel like this?


    




kelly w
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will you marry me?

I would love to have a guy like that.
Thanks for letting me know there are still a few out there like you


Anthony C
are you kidding me?? im 22 and i feel that way, its not strange but guys like us are rare. Life is great and i think were heading in the right direction, Best wishes !


Someone Else
I got a 25 year old sister I'd like to introduce you to.


bad b
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actually its quite normal for your age, it means your actually maturing, just take good care of the wife you find and it will be great! hard work though, good luck!


im*horny
god, u sound ideal! lol

its good that you feel this way, but it is out of the ordinary!

nothing wrong with being unique!


Eda M
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i think it's natural, but you are the only one i have met willing to spell it out loud.


lost_rabbit
not at all im doing it in july cant wait
im 26 as well


janice a
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Very normal , I have 4 sons and they each couldnt wait to have ramilys or there own , and they have , they love their children , and you know what their father didnt give a darn about them . They are wonderful fathers . Good Luck


Shannon
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I think that you feel this way, will make you a really good husband and Dad. You seem very goal orinted regarding family. My husband and I got married when I was 19. My one friend from school he was anxious to get married and start a family. I am talking 6 kids or more. Not my cup of tea that many. But I love the two I have. My friend was male and was 18. So I think if it is in you and your family oriented it is very normal to feel that way. Goodluck with the family you are seeking!


David B
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Im 22 and will be getting married in Oct... I hope its normal lol.


barb
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i think it's great. hope you meet a wonderful woman who shares your views.


brown eyes
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omgosh, what a refresing question. so good to hear , i hope you have the right girl who thinks as you do. having children is the best, you will make a super dad with your attitude.


ashleyjones21
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I think it is normal. I don't think its weird. You have reached a point in your life that you are ready for a marriage and children. Be patient. Your time will come. Its hard work, but if its something that you truly want it is worth all the hard work!!


missnikid
no its lovely.. hope you get all you dream of xx


sexbox00100
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yes its normal


dave
course its normall im 25 married with 2 kids it great


Annzie
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no its not in fact its nice actually most women like guys who want families


cigaro19
Not normal but great!
Nice to know there are men like you out there...


Maureen B
No it is not weird for you to feel this way.It sound's like you are mature and you know what you want in life.Being married and having children and family is a wonderful gift.You are at the perfect age to be getting married and starting a family.Now is the time for you to try and find your lifetime partner and settle down.Good Luck to you.


Kismitt
sounds pretty normal to me...Hope you find it all


karen i
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not at all. It's completely normal. May your dreams come true!


puppylove
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I think its normal. Its programed in us to want to have children and pass on our heritage. I am married with 3 children. My oldest is 14 and youngest 3. We have good times and bad. I started my family at 19 so in my opinion your late.


heaven o
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Most guys around the age of thirty start feeling like settling down. There isn't anything weird about that. I think it's great! Good luck and I hope you get what you want!


Keith Python
No, it's very mature. Good for you.


leets69
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Not weird at all. I felt the same way and got married at 21 and have been very happy with my choice. To be happy in life it is best not to worry about what is "normal." Because you are able to recognize your true desires makes a lucky man, just follow your instincts and don't worry about what others say or do.


bezz2007
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I'm in the military and I have a little boy and he is the best thing that could have happen to me. So I would say yes, have kids one or two would be good starting off.


citra
it is not...
coz...
you are settle alrdy....
you know yourself and you r mature enough to raise and train your children in a good way... and you r ready to take responsibility as the head of the family...
you know how to manage the house...
you know how to disiplin your children....
you know how to spend your time w them n enjoy your children...
you know that you will not leave your family no matter what...
you know all these things... and you are ready!!

no prblm w money....
now...

no prblm w your mate?? I mean... you want her to be your children's mother?? are you sure bout this one? hv u picture her as the mother of them?
can she raise the childrn in a good way?
can she train her children to respect the father, loving God, having good manners, have a strong and good character???
are you sure that she can respect you as the husband, the head of the family?

if your answer is yes... i mean really yes....
not "weak" yes or may be...
than you are ready to marry and have your own family...

but if your answer to these question is still maybe or you r not sure bout them....
pls...
equip yourself and your mate...

sit down and talk about these things...
you dont want your marriage fail, right??

have you seen people who were in love... married, but divorced??

have you ever questioned those things?
i mean... what happen with them??
love and money only are not enough??

you are like everybody else....
but you can make the difference...

equip yourself...
be fully armed for the situation that you are going to be in...
make strategy...
ask the couple whose marriage is more than 30 years old.....
ask the secret...
ask the formula...

ask also the ones who got divorced...
where was their passion and love??
did they chose the right person??

ask also the children whose parents divorced...
ask them their true feeling...
did they hope they could do something to prevent it?

man... i have to tell you something....
to be involved with somebody is just a preparation...
old people in indonesia (I am an indonesian) said that when you got married...your life has just started....
your true love will be tested...
it will be through fire....
not only one time......
but everytime!!!!!
really... everytime!!!!
does it stand forever??
or it just shallow love??

it is applied to your future wife as well....
:)
i am sorry to tell you this beforehand.....

sometimes, i just wondered....
why we always have fantacy like the fairytales??
".....and they live happily ever after...."

i tell you the truth....
there is no life like that.... while you r living here in this earth!!

why dont we just open our eyes to see the fact??
pls.... read the newspaper...
read the marriage and the divorce survey
face the fact!!!

read the cry of the children of those whose divorced!!
ask them!!
some regretted that they were born!!!
they had misery life....

young man....
i have to tell you this..
coz i ve seen it happened again and again
again and again...........
again and again.......

be clever!!!
plan your life....
choose the best!!
be fully armed!!!
both of you...
for the sake of your life and
THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILDREN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

be a wise, loving, caring and dependable husband and father!!
dont just follow your feeling and money!!
be a wise and submit wife....
loving and caring mother.........

dont learn later when it is too late....
learn now and be ready to face the battle!!

gud luck!


☼♥MARY♥☼
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that's a normal feeling and its not weird! only stupid people will say that its weird... =D


Ying
You're so rare and special! It's not weird to feel like that, just rare...you guys are the rapidly extinct species!


Jecs O
Its just natural to feel that way, especially when one has reached a age of of having a family of its own, i dont descriminate your idea, it just normal





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