Can I get in trouble for having an affair with a married woman?

Okay, so I’m a 23 year old college student. I am a personal trainer at this gym. Anyway, I am personal training a 31 year old woman. She is married to this doctor and has one kid. He husband is basically paying me to personal train his wife. Anyway, we have been having an affair for six months. We are careful and she only comes to my apartment when her husband is out of town. Lately I’ve been worrying. I saw her husband drive by my apartment three times on the same day. And whenever I see him and the gym, he stares at me a lot. I play it off like I don’t notice but I’m really starting to worry. My question is, can I get fired/ in trouble with my employers for sleeping with a client? Am I breaking any laws for having an affair with this woman? I live in the state of Texas, if that’s any help. And do you think the husband is catching on or am I just being paranoid? Tell me what you know.

10tolife

no you cant get in trouble
infact youshould ask for more money for your service to his wife if i was you i go and ask him about it
he might get mad because he dont want to pay more money but thats the break.
I let him know you been doing his wife and pleasing her and that call for extra money
i say you let him know and ask for more money.

Star

Driving by your house three times in one day.....that there answers your question He is on to you guys and you better watch your back because You never know what he might do. Honestly your best bet is to break free from that situation. I cant believe you let that happen the man was paying you to train her and you decided to sleep with her. This could present a problem with your work if he takes it to your employers. Depending upon the policy's of your work. Basically your subconscious is trying to get you to wake up and realize that the GAME you two were playing is COMING to a CROSSROAD and you are going to have to pick your next move. Which is one of two things. 1- continue to cheat with this women until her husband gets hard proof and ripes you apart. 2- tell her it is over until she is divorced (which wont happen because your just her toy) So what do you want????

eharrah1

You are not doing anything illegal, just immoral. Yes, you can get fired for having an affair with a client. Especially if your gym has rules against it. As far as the husband catching on, you would have to find out if he had a reason for driving by such as living in the area, going to a store in the area, etc. It could be that this is not the first time she cheated on him and he is just wondering. Find someone that is unattached.

happier days

what are you going to do when she gets pregnant.....with your child?

cherryberry

your common sense is begging for you to pay it some attention.

Brunette wife

I have no idea if you could get fired or not but why dont you learn how to respect another man's marriage and leave his wife alone.

Find your own woman preferably single.

tincan62

what i know really dosnt amount to a hill of beans, i hope you are happy thumping anothers mans wife, bad judgement,,, and it will come around one day and bite you in the ***.... just ask the guy that was sleeping with my ex wife,,play ur game and pretend to be something u will never be and pray that when its payback time, youll be looking the other way when it pile drives your *** 6 foot into the ground

jazzyj

You may not get in trouble on your job, but you might get your butt beat up by her husband if he finds out for sure!! Since he is passing by your house a lot and looking at you funny, then he already suspects someting or has seen her car at your house. So I would suggest you find yourself a new job, and a new location to live, and break it off with this married woman before her husband figures this all out and comes after you!! Dude are you crazy...people really kill over this type of stuff!! You need to stay away from jobs that deal with good looking women or women period!! Good luck, Chuck!!

Silenceâ„¢

Ew, why would you? You don't know if she has any type of diseases. Grow the hell up.

pileated

Unless your apartment is on a very busy street, if you are seeing the husband drive by three times a day, then yes, I'd say he's catching on. If he's staring at you at the gym, I wouldn't ignore that hint if I were you.

Lorrie W

Hmmmm it sounds like he is very suspicious. Have you talked to her? You guys probably need cool it for awhile. I don't know if you can get fired or not but be extra careful. If he does find out he may go crazy on you and beat the crap out of you. Just keep your eyes open and be careful.

Mindy B

I am sure he can get you fired if he complains about it. And I hope he has caught you both and throws his wife out. Oh and kicks your ***.

sherryzcream

Maybe the husband wants some too...lol,,,not really. Of course you can get fired for that! The husband knows something is going on, believe me! I advise you be careful, tell her you don't want to see her anymore. You don't know if the hubby is a psycho. But I understand. Going out with married people is more fun. But,,dangerous!

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