Can anyone flirt and yet be devoted to his/her spouse at the same time?

BobcatChick

No, I don't think so.

pulchritudinous

Yes.

fellow

U cannot serve two or more Masters at the same time!

mjstwin0405

I think that is cheating

Tater Salad

It depends on what you consider flirting. It's in the personalities of some to be very social. I'm a contact person. I reaffirm my greetings with handshakes and pats on the arm and shoulders for men and hugs and warm smiles for women. It's how I interact. It's part of my personality to be this way. Some have said I flirt. But flirting is a conscious act. You go in knowing what response you hope to get. I simply act as I feel. There's a difference.

myself

no.. youre putting your relatioship in a mud

scott_v1963

Of course, if not they are overly focused on the spouse. This could cause resentment and jealousy on your part.

Flirt a little, enjoy friendships and a casual smile.

Just because you go to the beach doesn't mean your gonna swim!

babieshay27

no because if your happy in your relationship you shouldn't have to be flirting in the first place.

bll1305

yes

zeus2quincy

First,what's your definition of flirting?If it's joking around and enjoying each other's company I see no issue.Anything beyond that,however,may send the wrong message.No touching,please.I flirt with women I know all the time.They know I love my wife and we're totally committed.But a little harmless wink,for example,isn't going to unravel a marriage.

southern_rebel

Nope sure can't.

Always Right

yes

Just_wondering234

Yes, I believe flirting is just people having a good time together without going to far. Also flirting is a natural response to recieiving attenchin, so whats the harm?

arizonaprincess2

no i dont believe you would be flirting if you were devoted

MoMattTexas

I would have to say it depends on your personal definition of flirting.

Do you consider looks or casual comments to be considered flirting? Or do you consider actual physical contact to be flirting?

If it is just playful comments, then I would say yes, you can flirt and still be totally devoted to your spouse.

hettywiley

No! Don't even open up those doors! You never know what could happen. Someone could take it the wrong way, worse of all, someone could take it for more than it is and then you have a stocker issue. If you're not happy in your relationship enough to want to flirt then get out of it. WHY DON'T YOU FLIRT WITH YOUR SPOUSE INSTEAD! :-) Good luck!

splashbabe1

Of course it's natural to flirt shoot most times people don't even realize their doing it I am married and I am a natural flirt Just because people flirt does not mean they want someone else

Debbie D

Oh yes. I am married to the love of my life. We are completely devoted to each other, and could not be any happier with our relationship. There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirtation as long as the person being flirted with is aware it is not going to lead to anything else. If you trust your partner completely and are secure in their love, a little flirty conversation is no threat.

McHammerHer

No.
Lets put it this way, if your spouse flirt, will you still think he/she is devoted to you..?

kingpeter47

you can be devoted even if you cheat

papa bear

yes you can,but in most cases its a nono,besides,if your with the one you love???,why do you want to flirt in the first place???????????

draper159

Flirting makes people feel insecure and flirting might also make you tempted to do somthing else.

blondieinlove

I don't think so

lfbrowne

I do not think that you should flirt intentionally with someone else. But I do realize that sometimes a person can come across as flirting and not be at all. If one says they are devoted to their spouse then they need to very careful of that person's feelings. It would hurt my feelings if my finace' flirted with another girl. Thankfully, I have a good enough relationship to ask him about his actions and if he were flirting with someone or not.

brookecapulet

This is a difficult question because the answer is yes and no.

Yes it is okay if you are out with your buddies and flirt with a girl and then go home ALONE to your significant other.

No it is not okay if you flirt in front of your girlfriend or if you cheat on her.

I wouldn't really recommend flirting to begin with b/c of one of your sweetie's friends sees you and it gets back to your girl, well, then you are in deep ****.

mick

yes...but when the flirting is done with another attractive person - one thing can lead to another

angilic_that

Yes

tinkerbell126

no, flirting is lusting regardless of what form you use. if you want a solid relationship with your spouse dont start it, know that your doing her wrong. plus if she finds out then she'll want to know what else is going on, or does he do this with all women? then your relationship will fall....... stay true to her. that will bring more enjoyment.

A1Lover7

YES!!! ... but just know that danger is danger..

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