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btpage0630
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It can speed things up for sure. It suggests you aren't communicating within your marriage, the fact that you are turning to online for the chatting. That suggests an unhealthy relationship, and turning to someone else just makes it worse. |
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cree siempre
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Depends what kind of "chatting" you are doing. Also depends on your husband, if he is the "jealous" type. |
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sassywv
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It's not the end of the marriage it is just the fast track to ending it |
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skydancerwi
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I believe that in all relationships, especially those which have lasted for relatively long periods, there are moments when it is possible to feel that a partner or spouse does not fulfill all that we heart-fully desire.
The internet chatting has allowed people to seek intimacy, friendship, camaraderie, without the responsibility which feels burdensome, if guilt enters the situation.
I suppose one would have to ask oneself, before seeking what is not had, how strong or weak the marriage is. What it is that we are searching through a chat line, aside from our spouses, and then be honest with one self before entering a chat line.
People are vulnerable whether through a chat line or meeting by chance somewhere . . we all seek feeling happy and content, if we are sharing a relationship with another.
One then, allowing our own frailties to exist, not deny them, must take an inventory into our feelings, and responsibilities owed to a marriage or relationship, before launching into situations which may become far more complicated than we had thought would be. |
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Adara
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Yes! Chatting online can be seen as cheating and definitely can effect your marriage. Be careful! |
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MG
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That depends on your partner and how insecure they are in your relationship. Chatting on line is good fun and often a welcome break when you and your partner have nothing much to talk about to each other. I think it's harmless and definitely shouldn't be seen as a threat to any good relationship. Of course, if you are spending more time on line that you are with your partner then it is a problem. But the problem isn't the actual on line chatting but the fact that you prefer this to being with your partner. |
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jenivive
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depends on what ur chatting about and with whom |
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♥§wεεt Diana♥
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any form of cheating can end a marriage. If you are chatting with someone romantically then yeah it can sure end a marriage depending on how the spouse responds to it, if your just chating with friends and only simply chating then its okay, just dont do it alot that your husband and wife is questioning you about it |
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karen v
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I think that it would depend on whom you are chatting with and how far you want this to go. But most people would consider this a form of cheating and it could be. |
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Chandra H
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my cousin and his wife got a divorce because she started chating with this guy on line I don't think that was the true reason for the divorce but it moved the divorce along. She is now married to the man that she was chating with so you tell me if she hadn't starting chating would she still be married. I think we need to monitor out chatting I would never talk or chat with any one about personal matters that I need to speak with my husband about. |
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Gayathri
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No!
but yeah, depends on wht u chat abt. |
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TalonsMomma
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YES..SURE CAN THEY GET JEOULOUS!!! |
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tabatha
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it depends on how far u take it. |
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STARS
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In some cases depending on who it is with and the time your chatting-yes its can! |
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mixedup
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Well, it's well on the way to ending your marriage. Ask yourself this, Is it appropriate? And would you allow your mate to do what you have been doing? And would you tell them everything you've been chatting about, if you think it to be as innocent as you claim? What the hell is wrong with you people??? If you're bored, take up knitting or try yoga. |
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jodi r
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It depends on your husband if he is the jealous type like mine then yea. If my husband catches me on here then I am gone. |
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Lia
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No, I don't think so, as far as you have an allegiance to your spouse. Avoid talking something romantically. Be faithful with your spouse |
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Trisha
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Yes I certainly think it could. |
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Cheryl F
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I'm still trying to figure it out myself. Maybe a support group should be started so we can talk about it. |
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sweetgranny06
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long as you don't cheat with the person your chatting too i don't see harm in making friends |
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Willie M
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I certainly hope not. I do it all the time. |
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foxxzymama
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It could if you let it...Is your chatting taking the place of what would otherwise be conversation with your spouse?
If so, then chatting is simply a wedge - like another woman or man, hobby or job that takes you away from that other spouse. It can cause jealousy.
Just put yourself in your spouse's shoes. Would you feel left out if they were always online chatting with some unknown person, seeming to spend more time with cyberspace friends than with you? |
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Rhonda N
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YES! |
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psyco
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it sure can end a marriage. |
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canteloupesweet
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Depending on who you are talking to.Most times cheating starts this way.So I would watch out.Depends how much time is spent online. |
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E
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Yeah absolutely! |
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MIGHTY MINNIE
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Yep, happened to a guy I know........ |
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cristanine
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Chatting on line is not the end of marriage ubnless you're seeking another realtionship and then that will cause trouble in paradise.
My friend met a lady on chat last year with three kids and he sent for her and put her up in a trailer and paid for the bills and everything to help her get back on her feet.
He ended up having an affair and now he is divorced and the lady he helped out got married to a janitor at the Medical Center.
In the end,,,,,,,,,he lost his wife and his mistress.
It doesn't pay to play |
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☺SDgurl☺
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I don't really understand your question...But chatting online can end your marriage if your spouse has a problem with it. If they don't like it, then don't do it. |
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Ms. Slicker
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If your married, you should be chatting and spending time with your husband, not strangers on the Internet. Put some good quality time with your husband. Good luck............ |
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