Can i depend on him or not?

iyamacog

Only time will tell if you'll be able to depend on him. I assume he is aware of the pregnancy. At this point your first concern is you and your baby. Next you need to tell your folks. Make an appointment with an OBGYN to ensure the well being of you and your baby. Last, be sure to graduate! Do not be concerned with marriage at this point. But do insist that your bf provide some financial support. It's not fair to your parents to absorb all the financial responsibility involved. Best Wishes, you have much on your plate over the next 9 months.......and thereafter.......

salsa

I'm not sure what the problem is? If a doctor has diagnosed depression then at least he has sought help, most people aren't strong enough to admit they need help. Left untreated depression can lead to major mental problems, he could hurt you, the baby or himself. So why are you mad? Because he's not perfect like you imagined? I would be proud he is seeking help.

Sophiesmom

If he needs to take this medication its best that he does. I think you better tell your parents, lying now will make it worse later. If your pregnant him taken this med isn't going to effect the baby, its in your body.

cassmac

There is nothing wrong with him having anti-depressant if he is feeling down as that is not his fault and that least he is doing something about it . You may be surprise how many people are on an anti- depressant , So don't judge him he needs support and he is only depressed not mental.

Catherine B

Give him credit for being honest and real enough to tell you. Let him know how you feel, and what your concerns are. If there's any doubts about him or any itch at all about his mental well-being, do not marry him! There's time to marry later when things are in a better place for everyone. Tell your parents when the time is right...they'll flip, but will want to be there for you and their grandchild. Go with your gut, always pay attention to those red flags. All the best for you and your baby!

liltermight

If he is the father, you must tell him and stick by him. It sounds like you both need each other more than ever now. And besides, you guys have to stop thinking about yourselves and focus on the most important one of all.....the little bundle of joy. Just remember the baby can sense tension and stress. You want to have a healthy baby. So don't let something so beautiful turn into being something you'll regret. These are troubling times, this day and age as it is. You guys have been blessed, so do the right thing and love one another. Besides, you have a great opportunity to read good books so your child's I. Q. will be very high. Make good and congratulations!

Piggy

You're mad at him for taking an anti-depressant? For trying to get better? That's totally wrong.

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