Can i still be a good husband?

Shannon

You're young for all this!

Confess everything to her and kill this before it goes any further.
Delete your account together.
Get a new phone number, call the company and tell them that you keep getting harassing calls from people who knew the last person who had it.

You have already hurt her deeply, don't make it worse.

If you are that addicted, break your computer and spend that time with your wife and child instead. Unplug the CPU and put it an out-of-reach box if you don't want to physically destroy it.

You can change, you can be a good husband and father.
Ignore all these bitter, weak, people.

Read a book on marriage, read a book on parenting.
Stop being a douche.

Shame, you are going to lose your wife, child, home and everything you say you love just for a few cheap thrills.

KimBaby

Have a trusted friend delete it for you. Then seek help.
You are not alone in this and I think easy access (via the internet) is causing more & more people to drift from their marriage/relationships.

Good luck.

edit: You are on the right path by recognizing your addictive behavior. Now all you have to do is "get away" from your addiction. It's not going to be easy, but you should probably sit down after gathering your thoughts and tell your wife you are having these urges. And if this woman calls, DO NOT ANSWER.

Janet W

Your a pig. I feel so sorry for your baby having such a mess of a dad. You can control yourself so stop saying you can't even delete the account. Addiction is all in your mind. I think your wife and baby should leave you but they need to find out first and believe me, they will. You disgust me.

â€¢â€¢â—‹ PitBuLL â—‹â€¢â€¢

Wow you are a peice of work

Patty

Question is...do you want to be a good husband, father and role model to your child? If you want to be respected by all above and your extended family then you must demonstrate respect to all as well. I would suggest counseling. There are a few great books that you can pick up and read as well. You are so young to begin this pattern...if you continue on this path no one will be able to trust you.

jennjo

You better stop it before it goes farther and you will regret it the rest of your life.

oh_jo123

nice one wonder what your wonderful wife is going to think

RuthAnn

On line chatting & dating is addictive, and U R smart to realize this. But if U want to stay married STOP. Get help -- go to counseling. This will only get worse if U do not try to quit.
Many men are doing what U R doing, and it is CHEATING. My husband tried to do this 4 years ago. He claims he has stopped but I will NEVER trust him again. NEVER.
Change your cell #. Do not give it out again. Do not "confess" to your wife. It will tear her world apart.
Be a man, and take action to stop the computer dating. I know what I am talking about. Do U want to loose your child? Is your family important to U at all???

Piggy

Epic fail in 3... 2... 1...

Say it Like it Is :)

Ok so how can you be a good husband with this childish behavior?

Ani Del Franco

tsk! tsk! guys..guys...better put a stop on this.. there's going to be a big fight if she finds out..goodluck!

kpopp

Yes, you have made a choice: you really do not want to be married. Dating outside of marriage just does not work. You will have to lie to your wife and lying will change your behavior. The best you can do now is to break off your addiction. This is no different than drugs. You either cut it out or you will go down with it. If you want more info on how relationships and marriages work, check out my source.

rockstarzdayjob

Where are your priorities? Delete your account. Be a man. Love your wife and your child. Dont be a cheater. Get help! There is counseling and stuff.

Amg

Sounds like you aren't mature enough to be married.

suzie

no, you cannot be a good husband.

i feel so sorry for your wife, does she really deserve this? i can bet my life that she dosent and as for your son...he shouldnt even get to call you dad to be honest.

you cant bring yourself to delete an account? you really are pathetic. i hope she does find out and leaves you. because you sure as hell havent got the balls to tell her.

Chris

If your wife never finds out and you never get guilty and tell her about it. But, she probably will.

ariana

YEAH YOU CAN YOU CAN DELETE IT I HONESTLY THINK YOU DONT WANA BE MARRIED ANYMORE WHY WOULD YOU WANA HURT SOMEONE ESPECIALLY YOUR WIFE IF YOU EVEN THINK ABOUT ANOTHER WOMEN IN ANY WAY THAT MEANS YOUR NOT HAPPY I REALLY THINK YOU SHOULDNT HURT YOUR WIFE AND IF YOU HAVE ANY LOVE FOR HER AT ALL YOU WOULDNT BE DOING THIS ESPECIALLY WITH THAT FEMALE THAT YOUR CHATTIN WITH SHE DONT NEED THE DRAMA IN HER LIFE WAT IF YOUR WIFE FINDS OUT YOU KNOW ITS GONNA TURN INTO DRAMA I THINK YOU SHOULD REALLY THINK ABOUT WAT YOUR DOING. IM GONNA LEAVE YOU WITH THIS QUESTION AND THINK ABOUT IT REALLY GOOD. PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES FOR A MIN WAT IF YOU FOUND OUT SHE DID THAT TO YOU? YOU WOULD PROBABLY GO CRAZY. RIGHT JUST THINK ABOUT IT AND THATS IF YOU GOT ANY LOVE AND RESPECT FOR YOUR WIFE AND CHILD

mickey mouse

Well, the fact that you're able to acknowledge what you're doing is wrong is the first step. Now the right and honorable thing to do would be to end all ties with that female and close your account on the online dating site. It's just asking for trouble and leading you to engage in behavior that totally violates your marriage.

Do what's right for your child's sake but more importantly...your wife (with whom you took vows).

SCOTTY

I want you to think for about a minute,,exactly what you have in your life..I want you to think also how many people there are out in the world who would give all they now have,,just to have what YOU have.. The place you are in your life RIGHT NOW is the turning point for you..Its now the time to realize your an Adult,,Married man,,With a child,,An Adoring wife And Mother,,and you are about to compromise your total everything for WHAT??? You already have any and everything you could possibly get from this casual nonsense you are entertaining online !! Insanity !! I don't judge you,,but you must realize how foolish your actions are,,DON'T YOU?? But I am going to help you resolve this if you want to..You must go on line and tell this other woman your married and are sorry you led her on,,and your finished with this !! Next,,you take your wife to the computer and bring up this question you have posed,, AND this part is critical,, you let her read my reply !! Then beg her for her forgiveness and never even consider anything like you have done..EVER EVER again..A wonderful marriage is a wonderful and precious thing that is to be cultivated and nurtured,and not toyed with.. You are a very lucky man,,appreciate it !! I wish you both and your new little child my very best !! SCOTTY

Pollana Y

Are you being a good husband now? . . . no
Can you still be a good husband while continuing your current behavior? . . . no
You are heading down a path of deception for all parties involved. You are being unfair to your wife & son and the uninformed "other woman." You're also deceiving yourself if you think that this is OK or that you're not "missing anything." Sounds like you may still crave the thrill of the chase. What do you really want? Are you willing to change or to get help so that you can change? If you are, then you can be a good husband from now on; if not, then that's sad.

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