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Rambo
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If you hide it, it means that you think you are doing something wrong! So, are you doing something wrong? if YOUR answer is YES, then stop seeing that "friend". If YOUR answer is NO, then you should not be afraid that your hubby knows about it. Unless he is a closed minded, old fashioned p*g head |
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steelypen
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Yes, they can.
No, they shouldn't. |
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slickpam
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No, I think a married woman can have male friends but she should tell her husband. Would you want you're husband to not tell you about his female friends? |
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heaven o
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Why wouldn't a married woman tell her husband if he is just a friend? Nope it isn't right, besides how would she feel if her husband had a female friend that he was keeping a secret? That is the making for a disastrous marriage. |
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camarolynk
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Married women can have friends, but keeping it a secret is not the best idea. If the shoe was on the other foot, how would you feel? I know I wouldn't like it. When you keep something like that a secret, you are putting yourself into a circle of trouble. Why would you want or have to keep it a secret, unless the are other motives behind the relationship. |
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lilygateau
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Rule of thumb.
If you have to ask is it ok, should I, is it the right thing to do, etc etc then the answer is always no. |
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arsal09
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NEVER CHEAT UR HUSBANDS |
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sassybree1979
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No, it's not the right thing to do. |
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boozer
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if you cant tell your husband then its definitely wrong |
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April
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Can they? Yes. Should they? No. If you are doing something which you cannot openly discuss with your husband, you gotta know it's wrong, sweetie. |
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Miriam Z
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If you need to keep the relationship a secret then there's a problem. |
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The Weed Fairy
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you are cheating on your husband if you have a secret man friend. wheteher or not you did anything with this man keeping a secret like that from your husband is wrong. if you are not cheating on him there would be no reason for you not to tell your husband about your little "friend" |
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Katie S
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It's not good to not tell your husband about them, because if he finds out about them, he'll wonder why you were hiding them - why would you have anything to hide, if they were just friends?
If you're hiding your male friends from your husband because he gets insanely jealous of other guys spending time with you, that's an issue that you and he and a professional need to work out. But that's him being unreasonable for the insane jealousy. Don't put yourself in the wrong as well by being dishonest. |
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Aseret
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No - If you are keeping it from your husband, than something is wrong. How would you feel if it was the other way around and you found out your husband had female friends and never told you? |
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youdontneedtoknowme
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You're leading to potential chaos with that one. If the guy knows about the guys friend, it normally turns out alright. Because if you all go out, they may have something in common and in return become friends as well. Hiding guy friends smells of something fishy. It's a guys nature to assume something's going on if the women is hiding something, more or less, someone. |
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LJ
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You can have male friends, but why wouldn't you tell your husband. There sounds like there's a trust issue here. Not telling your husband is just leading to problems. |
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Hillary Dillary
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If you get caught in the lie, he will wonder what else you lied about. Don't lie |
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eli a
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if he is cruel - leave him. if not - your problem once it will be discovered.
but - what you will say if he will do to you the same?
life is not a t.v. show...
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Nothing in life is as good as the marriage of true minds between man and woman. As good? It is life itself.
Pearl S. Buck
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fivetoze
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er, not really...folks love to gossip, and one day, you'll get spotted with him. it may well be perfectly innocent, but tongues love to wag with salacious rumour.. remember, neighbours dont require proof, innuendo is enough.
be upfront about it. dont lie, or conceal anything, or it'll bite you, and any trust you had will dissapear forever. |
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scotty
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why not tell the husband no they can't |
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Sister Cat
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No, it is not the right thing to do. I am not judging you but I am telling you that having a friend that you keep from your husband is just asking for trouble.
I have friends from all walks of life and of both genders. My husband knows about all of them and has met nearly all of them.
If you are married then your husband should know about all your friends. Your husband does not have to meet all your friends, or even know them by name, but if you are having lunch or after-work-drinks with friends your husband should hear about them at least in passing conversation. |
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nwnativeprincess
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NO, LYING BY OMMISION. TRAGIC TO RELATIONSHIPS. |
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yes married women can have male friends, but bad idea to keep away from husband. just reverse the script and ask yourself the same question. can married men have females friends and not tell their wife's, is this the right thing to do? that will answer your question. |
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Lydia
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Your husband should be your best friend. It is not good to have male friends - especially if you do not tell your husband. That is just asking for trouble. |
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PinkHighHeels
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As I married woman I have male friends. My husband does know about them but never asks me about them. I chat with them online and never really hang out with them. They are guys I knew before my husband and I got married. Honesty is always the best policy you do not want to keep anything from your spouse! |
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datalov3
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If you are here asking what is right then you know it's not right. Blessings |
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Big Bear
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Keeping secrets is never the right thing to do. |
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