Can men truly be faithful?

Marsh

Well I am probably considered too old to even respond to this question but I can say not only is it possible, its more common than you would imagine. I for instance was married for 35 years and never cheated on my wife one time nor did i want to. She passed away 2 years ago or we would still be together. If you truly love someone, you wont cheat..but trust me if it starts it probably will never stop. Stay happy
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tastesofheaven

yes...my dad for instance

medleyc1

They are out there, it is possible, it may be only a few, but they are out there, lol.

Max Powers

I am living proof!

Jen Hates Evil Empire Starbucks

Yes!!!

MelC

i believe for the right woman any man can stay trustworthy but she has to be the right one.

Kelly773

I haven't had one that stayed faithful either, but I do believe there are men that can be solely devoted to one woman. (I only hope to meet one soon!) But as there are women that can remain faithful for a lifetime, I believe men can do it also.

the_wayward1

yes, I have never cheated on my ex or will I ever cheat on anyone i'm with.

jorge e

First of all, are you worried that all the men in the world are going to be faithful or should you be concerned about the one man you are married to will be faithful to you? Of course it is possible for your husband to be faithful to you and yes it is possible that no matter what you say to each other and how you say it, that he will remain faithful to you. Not all men are dogs. I am a man and I am here to tell you that you need to believe and trust your husband. Let him show you that he is faithful and place less importance on what he tells you. You've stated that you have never had a man in your life who hasn't admitted to cheating on their partner. Well you have not had or even know all the men in the world. Appreciate who you have now in your life and believe in him and just keep him secured to your heart and most of all be faithful to yourself and God. Yes it is possible for some men to actually stay faithful? just like it is possible for some women to stay faithful. After-all, women are people, just as imperfect as us guys,, right? Just think of it this way, you are human also and you are imperfect therefore you are capable of error. You can also fall victim to temptation,,, right? Count your blessings, stop and smell the roses and get rid of your unsureness.

jamlws1

I have been with my husband for 11 years and he has never cheated on me and says he never will. Some men just don't believe in cheating. Maybe you got one of them?

stephanie_6234

People can and do actually stay true to their vows....not a lot, but it does happen. If he shows you that he is a man of his word with everything else in his life...then, believe in him, he probably is telling you the truth.

chasen54

Yes i certainly think so.There's no doubt there're lots of temptation out there in pubs,clubs or even in our working places.But if One can stand firm and say NO, i m pretty sure one can stays faithful.
Having said that, the marriage itself must first n foremost hv a strong foundation.Both husband n wife must be able to communicates openly and be truthful when having discussions.
I'm only speaking for myself cos many will disagrees with what i said.Sometimes its very heart drenching to see a good marriage goes bad just because of issues like these.

Lydia

Yes, mature married men with good character actually do stay faithful. How about you accept your husband at his word, and just don't borrow trouble....

vincepac601

i've been faithful.

bust it baby

of course, but unfortunately, only a handful.

bluesun

yes some

Some men do.

plain jane

People don't cheat, unless there 's a problem with the realtionship or the person themselves. Please don't base your current relationship on past expereinces......former lovers, & the like, they're not your current husband. Address the now, and not the past. Next, have you sat down and figured out why you fight all the time? I think that's where your concern should be. Good luck!

jaramir99

I would like to think that there are a still a few men out there who are faithful.

If you are having this thoughts, could it be that you are trying to overcome some doubts about your faithfulness?

You may not hear it enough, but yes I've come in contact with people who have been married 40-60 years and still with the same and only person they have known.

I don't know if it is harder for the younger generations to accept monogamy but it is out there.

what is the catch?
you have to make it work. You have to work for it.
is it easy? no, but then nothing in life that is worthwhile is ever easy. Other wise, there would be no divorce or breakups.

good luck.

Life is FUn

Now why do you have to argue with your husband over such non-sense..When he cheats, guess what he will say "You made me do it because you thought i would cheat just because i'm a man"..maybe then you will believe that SOME men can be faithful

BudLt

There are some really good people out there, people that don't steal, don't lie, don't cheat.......I would turn your thoughts towards all the great qualities that your squeeze has and amplify those qualities. Your looking for something that isn't there, but if you are so determined to find it, you may facilitate its existence. He says he isn't cheating, then leave it alone. Give him a reason to want to stay with you...show him you love him, show him that you are the one. My Mom and Dad have been married for 54 years, they still talk to each other like they are on a date. Its pretty cool. They don't sit around wondering what is going to go wrong. Peace be with you.

dubs

I think men can be faith full except for that time i had a threesome with my sister in law and mother in law but you have to allow for once in a lifetime experiences like that

farah

I wish there was a man who was faithful to his wife

Yes they can. I have. But stop the arguing it doesn't do anything for your marriage. Your marriage is about you and him, not about imaginary situations that probably never happened. The question in my mind is have you cheated or thought about cheating. You may be subconsciously placing your moral values on him.

Jahnene

My last boyfriend was totally faithful, but he couldn't get off his lazy butt! There aren't very many good guys out there anymore but there are a few. Good luck!

Big Red

Yes, men stay faithful. Those who stray aren't men they are boys and boys come in all ages.

You can keep him faithful by KEEPING his attention. Are you up to it?

Good Luck

Jazzy Angel

I honestly don't know how to answer this question but I will do my best. I think that there are some guys that can be faithful. but there are those few men that can't.

adrik c

their are those who do stay faithful and those who drift away. men and women alike tend to only focus on those that drift away. when in all reality we should think of those faithful ones. is it wrong for you to think that way no its just they way we as humans think. but im prove that men can stay faithful. married 12 years been together 16 ....

LMB

to be onest with you my man says he`s never cheated on me to well I heard alittle some thing that makes it untrue well i used to trip all the time but I stoped tripen an ever since I stop my man treats me real good I just let go all the messed up past an now i bon`t even think abut it any more i trust him. you know you gotta trust some one to be soul parteners or its not gonna work out .Well GOOD LUCK
P.S. I think they can an you need to also.

mommyX's3

Yes and I'm lucky enough to be engaged to one.

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