Can someone tell me why my husband doesn't notice me?

Dr. Sarcasm

sounds like most marriages

katy c

cus hes ur husband he dont have to try to get u anymore

angeldionta

lol u sound like a loser lol be yourself and then maybe he'll pay you some attention

Julie H

Maybe he is just comfortable with you and kind of takes you for granted. Change your hairstyle, get a makeup makeover at a big department store. Get some of your own friends so you don't have to depend on him for entertainment. Get going today.

always an opinion

Well maybe you look like those women but you carry yourself like someone who is sad that her husband doesn't notice her. You need to act like he would be blind not to notice you and carry yourself with pride. That will get his attention.

Marge

I have the same problem and all I said to him was " If your not gonna give me attention I'll find it some where else." But even with that comment I have yet to be seen. Maybe it'll work on your man.

Mrs.Simsâ™¥

Try one day before he comes home putting on some make up your favorite outfit that makes your body pop and see what he says. See if he notices then. Maybe as your marriage has progressed you have fallen into a habit of just living and not trying to make yourself more attractive as you used to.

My husband used to be like this and I felt really bad, but the moment I put on make up one day he noticed and liked the change. Then 2 weeks ago I had a baby, and I feel like a huge cow even though I weighed 191 before I delivered and back down to 152 when my pre pregnancy weight was 145, so I'm almost there. But I felt pretty good when his buddy came over the other day and said for just having a baby your wife looks d*** good. He just smiled and said I know.

Sometimes it's just the little things that you change to make them notice you. :)

spaznskitz

Oh for crying out loud get into therapy for your insecurity - you are upset because he feels you look like one celebrity when you prefer being told you look like another?

He IS noticing you - in his way....geez. Get a grip.

miss m

try ignoring him completely. i find this the best way of getting a mans attention.

PRLadyDama

Because he feels secure having you..no challenge for him anymore...sad but true...It's like stop watching a baseball game because your team is winning, then next day you find out that your team lost!!!!
I would recommend you to get busy, and find some interest for yourself, and hopefully it won't be another man that pay more attention to you.
Have you ever tried telling him how do you feel?

American Beauty

It's not about looks, lady. It's about YOU--who you are inside. Stop being so hung up with your appearance and start expressing who you really are. Otherwise, you're nothing but window dressing; and how many times do you talk to the walls?

kajal c

Trying doing something different for him or try to change urself a little bit like new hair do or anything

ronidl76

It's like when men cheat on their really hot girlfriends. It doesn't make sense, but to the men, they've had those girls, so it's not a big deal to them. You're married, though, and it's a shame that he pays more attention to his friends. He'll take notice when you decide you've had enough and leave his butt. Do you have your own life? I mean, do you do your own things? Like job, hobbies, other things that don't involve him? Or is it all centered around him? If it is, try doing your own things. When he realizes that your world doesn't revolve around him, he'll start noticing all the ways he took advantage of you.

ndnqt1966

More interested in hanging our with his friends than with you? Now that is messed up. It sounds like your husband is self absorbed and has become complacent with your marriage.

montrosehorse

put out that will solve it all

I'm sorry I don't know why your husband doesn't notice you, you sound very pretty. I have to say, I look like neither of those women and don't feel very attractive (I find my husband extremely attractive) but he always notices me. Yes, he needs guy time once in a while but the majority of the time it is me and our children that my husband wants to be with. Is he in love with you? You need to talk to him about this. No one reading your question is going to fully understand and know how to answer you. Only you and your husband can figure this one out.

Good luck to you.

b n real

Sweet Pea sometimes our hubbies are use to seeing us a certain way. Try a new look on the outer appearance, weather it's a new hair do, new make up and new clothes. I think he just may need something new from you. God Bless!

Isabel R

Don't be insecure. It's just a feeling.

When he goes out with his friends, tell him that you want to go with him! You're his buddy, right?

Third REICH

that means he never care about you,married guy he has to stop hanging out with his friend he have to be with his family, okay meybe once a while he can hang out with his friend but not all the time or every weekend .that means he is keeping you just to clean home cooking and any time when he is horny and he can't go to his friends he use you other wise,he never care about you.

Craig B

Sounds rough..I would love to hang out with you..

brokenn_doll

well
-try to be more attractive
-talk sweet stuffs
-do stuffs he love
-show him care
-give him good time and pleasure
-wear hot clothes
-u know better but try to look around and find out why he is so

Valerie X

He is used to you.

Gentlemen prefer blondes anyway.

Grey Person

Most marriages aren't 24/7 Hollywood romance. Count your blessings. You have a husband. Many women don't. You have companionship. Many women don't. He is faithful. He thinks you're gorgeous. What else do you want? Put your fairy tales away and grow up and appreciate the good that you have.

Big Mama

Maybe you need some fixing up, look at yourself and see what is wrong with you.

harold gardner1946

now you have got a very good question there but how can anybody let you know how you look with out seeing a pic of you you might be one very good looking ladie can you let me see a pic i would be glad to answer your question for you ok and tank you very much

J W

Being attractive is not only about looks. Do you notice him? What do you do to make him want to spend time with you vs his friends? Demand his attention! Figure out some way to wake him up.

Jim B

his loss come say hi to me

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