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Zindgihurt W
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Yes it can happen and it is happening in India. My parents are married for almost 40 years. And they have an arranged marriage. I don't have any single Divorce case in my whole family including Uncles and Aunts. It depends totally on how well you treat your other half. |
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♥Jen♥
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I believe so, however, Id rather fall in love first, then marry. |
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Robin B
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Maybe, but that's a hell of a risk. Why marry if you don't love each other? |
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Bayy_BiidNiiZz
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why would u get married if u wasnt in love in the 1st place?
bt i think a loveless marriage is doomed from the get go..
i think if u do get married 1st its never gonna be like it should be
and will end up other ppl n cheatin on eachother
or divorced.
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KENSETH-LAMBERT
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Not impossible I suppose. Not practical either. There is no marriage without love.I certainly would not try it. Then again .Perhaps I already did. No wonder I am divorced.Got to do better next time. |
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Cozie
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yeah you can learn to care and trust and be friends and you will fall in love. it would be purer than any other. x |
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¡dulce niña!
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sure if I marry somebody's bank account... I might fall in love with the person later...why not?
baci |
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ald_rett
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Sure is possible, just look at countries where they believe firmly in arranged marriages i.e. India |
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punxsutawney phil
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yep. Then wake up after that. |
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lolly
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Why the heck not? It doesnt work for 3 out of 4 marriages the other way round so is worth a try! |
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IDK SOME CHICK
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sure if its an arrange wedding |
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Sara J
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If think it can happen but it's not really wise.
When you get married it should be because you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. If your not in love then you can't honestly make that commitment. |
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Ivan
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i think so> |
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fallon s
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no comment. |
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Answer Man
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sure |
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Geoff the skier
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If you're lucky. If you're unlucky you can marry first then despise the very ground each other walk on at leisure. |
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*Jasmin*
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ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE |
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Zinchik
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yes its better to be in love rather to fall in love. |
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miabella b2b 6th June 2009 !!
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I suppose you could, lots of arranged marriages start out this way. Who knows, its not something I would want to chance anyway but people marry for all different reasons, love being only one of them. |
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Cool Guy
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Yes I am sure it will work out, cuz you know in love marriages you expect a lot from your partner and if its ot exceeded to to desires you are hurt and ukltimately the relation goes on the verge of collapse and mostly the relation collapses on petty issue, where as in an arranged marriage you understanding grows day by day, you develop the strength with full maturity, and ultimately Love starts burning in your relation and you become the precious loving couple, So expect les and give more theory will work your love and make you a happy satisfied couple.
You have seen in here many a marriages cannot even survive a year or two, so whats the fun in a love marriage. |
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xoxo
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no you should fall in love first and get married then
but in some other countries or some families do have this fixed marriage since they were a baby |
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*jen*
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they can but if I were you I wouldn't risk it. Divorces are expensive now a days. |
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Cassandra S.
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It would make things a lot easier, yes. |
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Perigee
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Sure, but I am told the second half usually doesn't happen later |
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jes1brian
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why not ' it's a round about way of doing it . but hey if it works why the hell not . |
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Kshitij S
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Yes you can. You can fall in love even after your kids are married |
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fayetie
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I suppose it is possible but i could never marry someone i didn't love plus what if you did marry Someone who weren't in love with and you NEVER did fall in love with hat person you would both be really unhappy and would end up in divorce!! |
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Minnie Mouse
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Yeah, I've seen it happen enough times.
But there does need to be some common ground and attraction at the inital stage.
End of the day arranged marriages have been taking place for years on this pretence, and they worked...
xXx
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Patricia P
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I don't think so.
when you marry first usually you are an illegal looking for papers.
or you might be from a country in which they still do arranged marriages. But it doesn't happen in the US, usually people don't marry off that easily.
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varshini78
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You have to get to know someone before getting married, as friends and lovers.
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