Cheated please help don't be mean?

I have a boyfriend and we have been friends for about a year we have been dating for a month there is this kid i like & i have liked him for 3 years hes got a gf but he texts me took "hook up" ive always been single so ive done it and not cared but ive got a bf now..i did hook up with him once when he texted me but i do not plan on doing it anymore ever should i tell him i know he would leave me because he told me i wasn't allowed around that other guy should i keep it to myself and make sure it doesn't happen or tell him and have him leave me?
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i dont pay attention to what group it goes in
not that big of a deal

Douglas B

This is where you have to do what you can live with. If it's not going to happen anymore then why bother. If you tell him he might be gone right away so then what do you have? but what can you live with?

CJ B

You have to tell your bf. Its his choice whether to stay with you or not. Once you cheat on someone you make the choice that you dont want them.

gem

He don't "Allow" you around the other guy? What the heck is that all about? Anyway, I'm not being mean but, you should have never done it in the first place beings you already had a b/f. Do you want to be with this other guy or do you love your b/f? You have some thinking to do girl. Good luck.

Macky

GROW UP! If you can't commit to one guy then its better to sort it out right now. STOP PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH PEOPLE'S FEELINGS! Time will come that all these things will catch up to you.

Sasha's Mommy

A relationship built on dishonesty never works out. You will always have to live with the guilt of what you did. It will be worse if you don't tell him and he ends up finding out anyway. It's best that he hears it from you. And truthfully, if you didn't tell this guy no this time, you probably won't tell him no next time either.

You need to be honest with your boyfriend. He was apparently right about the fact that you need to stay away from this guy.

Sarafina

Tell your bf that you cheated. No relationship survives based on lies.
Tell your hook up "friend" that he is not allowed to call you again.... or you may want to hold off on breaking that off... your bf is going to drop you like you're going out of style! So, you'll probably be single soon.

Karma takes care of these issues. No worries.

Eagle

Yes tell him... Building on lies it only get worst... If you really loves him tell him if he loves you back he will tell you but give him his time or get someone you could really be loyal too. Of course depends what you are looking for with your bf... it is just play... then keep playing.. Other wise if is going to be serious tell him but be careful in remaining with him. It is a delicate situation.

teenie

If you want to keep your boyfriend don't tell on yourself why would you do such a foolish thing anyways. Never ever tell no matter what !!

Andy P

the best answer is "why is this in "marriage and divorce" since you're both obviously unmarried teens?

Thick Madame

move your question to singles and dating

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