Cheating wife.. What do I do?

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been having an affair. The usual signs: Phone rings, I answer, caller hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls, it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always comes walking up the driveway as I hear a car setting off...as if she had exited the car 'round the corner.

Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her?

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?

Gone fishin'

Repair it yourself. No point in wasting money.

David S

Neither.

Trade both in on a newer model with big bumpers.

3595

to both questions: **** it

Zoey

leave her

Sherry F

Take the car to the body shop

Can't let that rust get out of hand it's like termites eating away at the foundation of your home.

Good luck if i knew where you lived i might be able to recomend a good shop.

Night Pixie

confront her

Rochester don

Which is more important, your cheating wife or your rusting car? Man, they both need to go into the junk yard.

â™¥Ti Amoâ™¥

If she is cheating kick her cheating *** out the door. Who needs a wife like that since she yelled at you so bad about the cell phone thing I think she feels bad about it. Leave her. She is not worth the time of day no offense.

Blanca V

how could you do that to a girl!!!!!!!!!

The Handler

troll

E TeL

clobber her...then clobber the man

lisa

if you have suspected sumthing, you can always get a spy to fo it for you. u shd not only ask for pictures of whom she hang out with. get it recorded.

Aiko H

No, it's probably not a taxi.

Also,

Hmm. You could try to fix it yourself, I suppose. I'd say that it's probably a better idea to take it into a shop, but god knows how much money that may cost. Try to do it yourself, I'd say!

oldmarine08

DIVORCE, her and your car

hahahaha that was funny! what a way to change the subject. Yeah she is cheating!

nic

if you take the car to the shop it could cost alot of money, how nice is the car? Are you any good at fixing things? Try the auto shop first, they should be able to look at it and let you know if it need to be taken to a shop or its something you could fix.

::cheeky::

lol. If the rust has eaten through the body of the car I suggest taking to a body shop if it is just surface I say fix it yourself. LOL. People don't read. LOL.

riffraff_s

auto shop, rust repairs are a b----- to get right.

Becca and Brian

OK so what is the issue: The wife or the car?

XO

vins_babi

Dude.. you started with cheating wife.. and ended up with broken car. wtf. About the wife, you should borrow a friends car and follow her on the night that she "goes out with the friends". If you catch her, confront her when she gets home and end it right away.
About your car, if you cant fix a car by yourself maybe that's why shes cheatin on you...

Marie H

Nah, you just need to go to the auto body ship and get some rust-free crap. Oh, and you are a silly guy!

Chantel S

Talk to her about it, if you get any more clues i guess all you can do is divorce her

Abe M

Confront her with it. Stay calm and ask her, if she loves you and you're wrong, then she shouldn't be angry. It's perfectly normal you should suspect, with all these signs.
I think if you let this go on for much longer, it'll be all the harder to break up, or get over it.
Please help with my question too :/.

Gracie -Pie <3

play it safe and go to the repair shop you dont wana stuff up

Cing

leave the b**** or do the funner thing and cheat on her @$$

xbigdaddy750

trade the car in for a rust proof saturn with plastic body panels

blackjoe77

Now you should decide what's the biggest problem, cheating wife, or rusty car. I do not think it's worth waste your time on it.
File for divorce... and wait for she will do.
Buy a newer car and start new searches.

Courtney M.P.

Time for some bondo, primer, and paint - you can't let rust get out of hand, that car is much too important for that!! You can repair it yourself, you need a hobby while the wife is out with her mister! You know working with your hands will give your mind time to mull over "methods" of taking care of the situation!

Tim S

Fix that rust now, What does your wife look like and what is her first name

assiqtaq

Funny dude, you had me.

Try to repair it yourself if its not that difficult a task. When I was on my own after my husband was sent to prison I did as many of the small car care things as I possibly could figure out, mainly to save myself from being taken advantage of by unscrupulous mechanics, but I ended up keeping it up after I found a good one because I found I rather enjoyed it.

However if the damage has gotten too bad you will want to get some professional advice.

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