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Cheating with married people?

has any man or woman had something that they should not with a married person and if so how did it turn out.i mean if your were single and went with a married person.what were the results.good or bad please.
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is the problem that the woman tells someone and thats when the trouble starts?


    




skullian
well as yet I haven't quite crossed the line (I don't think) some people would probably disagree, but I'm married and so is the person who I have a something for, but due to our locations it is still in the "virtual" world. and if your interested I'll let you know how it turns out!

I know I want things to progress to another level, and I'm fairly certain she does too!, how far it will eventually go only time will tell!


Indy500
I don't do married men.


Ht
cheating with married people
dumbbbb


Rolsy
I had an affair with a married woman (I was unattached at the time) There is never any good to come out of these relationships and I'm not proud of what happened. Although it was her that did the chasing, I am equally to blame because I knew she was married!


jelisa3120
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messing with a married person is plain stupid! theres too many single people out here for that ****!


oh_jo123
they are never going to leave their spouse for you unless they were seperated at the time and you are probably being used for a quick fling


sarah k
No way, It would be the worst thing anyone could do to me and I would never want to inflict that on anyone. Cheaters get caught in the end and deserve all they get.


renume
Don't do it! Trust me.


lonewolf
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dustbin 3, Dude you will be playing with hell"s eternal fire if you do !


lesley s
your playing with fire and believe me it will all end in tears!!!


Grant M
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listen while in the act anything feels nice. But relations no matter how slight with a married person is dangerous and more then not does not turn out for the positive... Think before you leap.; The water sometimes is a lot deeper and when you are in over your head problems always are abound.... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania


Thomas
that will be one worst thing you can do.


Why not me
Why? So you can go & ruin what could really be a 'happily married life'?


20+ years and still in-love!
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Are you serious. The results will be bad for someone, if your only concerned for the results on your end then hey go ahead be a part of ruining someone elses life. See it is the cheating spouses responsibility to not stray, however if one knows another is married they share a small percentage of moral blame. Its definetly not a win win situation.


val
If you are single and they are married it usually has a bad ending because one of you get more emotionally involved than the other. If you are both married and know the score it always works out a little better as long as you don't let it get emotional


Lets go eskimo.
If they were in the process of getting a divorce for an extremely valid reason it might be acceptable but not really otherwise.


Lulu
DO NOT DO IT. Period. You really don't need any "reasons" not to in this situation. Despite the immoral implications of an affair, it will not end well.


squishy
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That will alwalys turn out bad. First it is a sin. And it contributes to the moral breakdown of society. That is something america can not afford. Second, it hurts the spouse of whoever is being cheated on. and it will bring about the distruction fortold by ancient and modern prophets.


margi_hugheslivesforjesus
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Would you like it if you were married and someone had an affair with your husband/wife?

Believe me it is THE most destructive thing that you can do in this life, short of murder - and in actual fact it is murder of someone's relationhsip! It depends on lies and subterfuge and deception BIG TIME!

Some people seem to manage to do it without an iota of remorse and go from one affair to another - some don't even mind if their spouse does it continually, in fact some relish 'open marriages'!

HOWEVER, most people know nothing but the deepest sense of betrayal and having had their heart broken!

As someone pointed out if you have ANY integrity, then DON'T even contemplate it! Because eventually you WILL come to loathe and despise yourself!

I could bring God into it because I am a Christian now, but it's hardly likely that His Opinion of it would matter to you! Yet if I hadn't had Him to turn to when I was stupid (which was the time when Jesus Chose to Break into my life), I don't know where things would have ended!

Again I will ask you - HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF IT WAS DONE TO YOU?


xy
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it's not worth it.


That Special Someone
STOP BEING A HOME-WRECKER!!!


DiamondDoll
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I'd like to answer the question but I can't read what you typed. Are you asking if any of us have been with a married person or cheated on our spouse? I have, if that's what you were trying to type.


itchy
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The results will always be bad - for those in the marriage, because it is sanctified by God, and for the single person, who sins in having the affair. And also for many friends and family of those involved in he affair. God doesn't impose rules to be annoying, or to control you, he imposes them because he knows that the order which they bring to our lives is important in our happiness. He gives you the free will to choose to abide by these rules or not, but be prepared to accept the consequences.


SundaeG1rl
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I have had dalliances with the odd married guy - funny how they don't tell you they're married, or if they do, it's too late to go back!!! And I have hated myself ever since. Cheating is hideous; to be married or even attached and knowingly cheat is abhorrent.


good tree
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I can tell you as the wife of someone who cheated with a single girl that it is incredibly destructive. Morally indefensible too. The results were bad, we are still together but only because I'm a Christian who knows how to forgive. You have the chance to be a responsible person and say no before you wreck innocent lives.


butterflylover
we been together for almost a year now.we met on a dating site called millionairematch.com/photo/bloger but now we argue everyday.over stupid things.we love one another we do. we live together . im older then him .when we fight we say things we dont mean,,,,i do at least i said something like...if u dont want me then ill be with someone else and get out of my house... it is my house he moved into..he left and said this time ill never call u again i said me either we both swore we wouldnt either.im sad heartbroken and its borth our fault,but i dont wanna give in im tired if runnning back to himits a routine with us we break up all the time but i feel it really over now.he hasnt called at all... i called his house were he is at no answer im scared he doesnt wanna come home nomore do i wait its only 2 days now.and i love him alot
i broke it and called will he call me?if i dont call him i want him to miss me also im not sure if he does what should i do now?


david
It was fun for a time. I only ruined their relationship "FOREVER"


mostassuradlyso
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If women were better at what they claim they would not have to worry about the possibility but most want to watch from the sideline and blame the problem on their partner. Reality is if you do not take care of what you have someone will take it away.





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