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DO YOU THINK ITS FAIR?

I live with my boyfriend for over a year now and his 24 and im 19 will his friends invite him to places that are 21 and over because they are 21 and over as well i get mad when he goes because i stay alone at the house but he wont let me hang out with my friends and i told him you get to go out so i should 2 but we always end up arguing for the same reason wat do you guyz think?


    




blues breaker
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i think he's a controlling idiot and that you should move back home.


Tony
Think you ought to move back home...


ally'smom
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i think he is "just not that into you" a guy who was into you would want you around.


Leo
antone could not have phrased it better. you should also take a deep breath and reread before you submit. by the way he isn't stopping you from going out unless you let him. put some pants on girl


Nicole m
you deserve to go out and have fun what the heck. what does he expect. i dont under stand why you cant go out. oooh my. you think he is controling now wait till you have a kid. run away


Baby's got blue eyes
I think it would be right and fair that you hang out with your friends as well. If you boyfriend deliberately goes to places that he knows you cant go, then he has no business bossing / controlling you to stay home alone. Dont take any of that controlling crap from him, or before you know it you'll be a stay-home mum of 5 kids whilst he's out running around the town without you.


Horse Up
That's what happens when you live with someone. You will never be #1 and when the right girl comes along, which she will, you will be history. Learn from it and move on!


yoadriannejohnson
why are you staying home and he gets to go out, no need to fight just be happy that he goes out that way when he goes out you go out, you should be hangin out with your girlfriends and having fun. he does just think whatever is good for him is good for you. remember it works both ways.


Jade M
I think you have a right to hang out with your friends too.


WUWEI!!!
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It was reasonable 21 and over

Now don't let you hang out with your friends is totally
out of whack...unless you want to hang out with guy friends
then he's afraid your guy friends and you have something going on behind his back...Which I hope it's not the case.

either way, I think it's somewhat unfair to ask you to be home and wait for him while he was out having fun. 21 or not. I think he should have taken you with him....

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dmarie_333
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i think its an excuse for you not to tag along so he can do something he shouldn't be doing, leave him and be with someone that will take you everywhere they go and treat you like a princes


Sue C
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He's NOT being one bit fair w/you. NOT at all. What makes him better than you that he can do just what he wants, but you can't?! Sorry, but there is NO way I'd put up w/that bunch of bull he's pulling on you. He's actually treating you like a child. Are you sure you're even w/the person you honestly belong with? There is no way I would take someone to "dictate" what I am & am not suppose to do. I just have an idea from his attitude that you're going to continue to have problems w/him, as I feel he has the feeling he is "superior" to you because of your age. I really think in the long run you'd be much better off w/someone closer to your age than he is. Especially by the way he's treating you. That is in NO way fair of him to leave you sitting at home alone, especially if you at least could be w/some of your friends if you wanted to be. About now I'd be starting to have second tho'ts about him & his WHOLE attitude twds. you. I feel like he's on some kind of a power trip w/you, & all due to the differences in your age. You really do need to be w/people closer to your own age, he needs to be w/someone closer to his. I truly don't foresee this working out in the long run tho as you're going to become very resentful twds. him & ritefully so. Think about it & see if maybe you just did make a mistake in being w/him. I would NOT stand for this, he has NO rite to do this to you or to dictate what you can or cannot do..I wish you the best...:)


curiouscanadian
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I think he is treating you like a little girl and this relationship is not equal. You might want to find another room mate and live your life as a single person.


Tommy T
This does not sound like a fair and equitable relationship... get out now!


♥B@BY~GURL♥
NOPE IT AINT


Arthur A
I agree with you and you should put your foot down and go out as well.





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