Dead man here...please help.(Serious advice only please)?
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Dead man here...please help.(Serious advice only please)?
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My girlfriend has an identical twin and they are always wearing something similar and it bugs me to death!
I have a bad habit of grabbing my girlfriends butt...really bad and I paid the price for it last night.
Last night, I picked up my girlfriend at a family party after work. I came in through the door and gave her a BIG kiss and and a BIG hug with my hands on her butt (squeezing). When I gave her the kiss I gave a little tongue action.
Everyone looked at me (including her) like a deer caught in a headlight. Only to realize that its not her but, her sister. Everyone saw what I did including my girlfriend. It was really odd, how do I get out of this one? or at least stop feeling like an idiot!
~I haven't slept yet~
Serious advice only please!
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Dustin R
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Tell her it was an accident duh...LOL..And why did the sister let all this happen? She just let you give her tongue action ...hmmmmmmmmmmm |
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Brandi
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Laugh it off, and make the comment to your GF that you should ahve know right away that it wasn't her because she kissses SOOOO much better. |
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wizjp
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Get used to it and move on.....bound to happen again. |
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jlcjills
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Tell her you were just so blinded from your need to see her that you made a mistake. Seriously try to laugh it off. |
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back2future
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u can just said, we just had fun...its not serious at all |
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cmdrbnd007
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Dude, you are in it deep. I can understand what happened but making you girlfriend understand is going to be hard. Hopefully, she'll go easy on you because they are twins. Good luck with this one, I think you are pretty much on your own. |
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luv
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are you for real????? it's actually pretty funny. you only see that kind of stuff on tv. but on a serious note, you need to apologize to your girlfriend first, then her sister, then to their family. and what was the sister thinking? she's partly responsible in my opinion, she should have stopped you as soon as you put your hands on her. i don't know, this whole thing sounds like it could have been a practical joke on you too! i just don't understand how so many people can just stand there and watch you do all of this without saying something before it got to the tongue action. good luck!
p.s. maybe your girlfriend should try to look a little different unless she wants this to happen again. |
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mommabear27
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Look for that identifying mark on your girlfriend so you can stop mixing the two of them up, and also be prepared to get on your hands and knees for forgiveness. Say it with some expensive roses. |
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Dino
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Well, on this one you'll just have to let time help (though this is most likely going to be one of those stories told and retold at holiday gatherings), but in the future, check before you play tonsil hockey and start grabbing for the goal. |
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Mandy M
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First off, how can you not tell the different by now?
Second.. if you really are that dumb, she will understand. |
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Raziel
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Just say you cannot tell the difference between her and her sister, and that they always wear similar things and it bugs you to death. You thought that was her and not her sister. That's the only thing you can say. But make it like it's her fault that she looks like her sister lol. |
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American Beauty
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It was an honest mistake. Don't beat yourself up about it. Talk to your girlfriend and see if she can't wear something that would identify her next time. Perhaps you could buy her a watch, or a necklace of some sort--something that she would enjoy wearing that would keep you on guard. Everyone should understand that you make a mistake, so don't worry about that. I'm sure you apologized to her sister, so just move on and let this die down. Buy your girl a nice watch and get some rest. Best wishes! |
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Kitty
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Quick, hide in the toilet! |
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goldwing
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IF this is an honest question (which I doubt, I have never seen identical twins that identical), then IF they dress alike and look alike, what the hell...they do this to confuse those about them as a joke...so, they fell victim to their own joke...serves them both right! IF they are old enough to be a girl friend(s), they should be exhibiting individual styles of dress, actions, etc...NO ONE is identical to someone else, and twins who perpetuate this are asking for trouble.
Get some sleep....you didn't do anything wrong, your girlfriend should find this funny...if she does not, they SHE has some serious issues, not you. |
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C
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Apologize to your GF. Explain to her you thought it was HER not her sister. Then ask your GF to start wearing something different when she sees her sister. And pay attention to what your GF is wearing so you dont make the mistake again. |
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sonnyboy
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Explain it was a mistake.They should both understand.I'm sure they've been mistaken for each other before.
You're not an idiot.You made a mistake and we're all guilty of that at one time or another.
Stop beating yourself up.It happened and now it's time to put it away. |
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CrazyLove
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It's not your fault. It's not like you PURPOSELY fondled and kissed your girlfriend's twin. If the two of them are identical and tend to dress alike...but really have no distinguishing characteristics, how were you to know? Your girlfriend should try to understand this... She should also stop dressing like her sister! It's cute when they're kids, but they're grown women now! They should get their own individual identities. If she can't forgive you, it's her loss. Good luck. |
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Mekia
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Why the hell are they still dressing alike?!! Your gf sees it's a problem with you figuring out which one she is, she needs to find a solution... soon. |
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?
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WHY ARE YOU WORRY I THOUGHT YOU WHERE DEAD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Tryna-Hyde
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Sleep man, sleep! I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. This couldn't have been the first time that identical twins were mixed up.
Maybe she'll start wearing different clothes.
You DO however, need to be concerned with her saying things like "you don't even know me"...and "you can't even tell it's me"...type of stuff. Quickly think of something (on her body, preferably) that your aware of that, in your mind, separates her from her sister. This way she'll at least know that you pay attention.
Apologize, and go to sleep, man! Go to sleep... |
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young granny
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Hello, I hope this will be of some help. Ask your girlfriend to wear a certain pin,headband,or different color then her sister, as you are not going to be responsible for the obvious accidents, if she does not cooperate, then hold the affection, until you are SURE. Nora |
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pleadship
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Well you're only human so just keep on stepping and that next girl you hug and kiss hopefully its your gf. I think that maybe you should be able to tell so maybe you could get her a bracelet or necklace so that you would be able to tell who it is next time. And remember tommorrow is a new day. |
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Kitty
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OMG! Those twins should know better to not look alike by dressing similar . Blame the twins for you making a mistake of idenity. Sereously, it sounds like to me they're playing you by messing with your head. I suggest you have a talk with BOTH of the girls and that they should dress alittle more different from the two and plus I think that is disrespectful of them playing with your head to see who you would make your move on. I use to go through that with two twin guys, the only way I could tell them apart was my ex had piercings and the other had glasses and only very few piercings. Yet they both use to love messing with my head by telling them apart and it pissed me off. Don't fall for their games, Tell them to knock it off! |
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Anna
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Aplogize, saying that you honestly thought it was your girlfriend. |
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RS_AK
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LOL.. Its a honest mistake.. I think she will get over it.. Tell your sorry and that it could happen to anyone.. |
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foxy lady
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just explain to youre girlfriend that you thought it was her and youre sorry about it and it wont happen again |
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weatheredmom
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Don't worry about it, it was an honest mistake. Just make sure your girlfriend knows this. |
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frawlicious
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DAMN! Sorry to hear that happened to you. I wonder why the sister let you tongue her and I wonder why the other sister did not say anything. If they dress alike, I would just tell my girlfriend that it was a serious mistake. I would then try to figure out a way to tell them apart. Are they exactly the same size? Maybe there is a mark on the body, that she has that her sister doesn't. How about her hair? Do they do it the exact same way or is there a difference. There has go to be something that can help you and I know it's hard for men but you are going to have to be more attentive in order to make sure you have the right girl. Good luck to you! |
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Free spirit
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Hey I never kiss that turd but my husband has a twin and I used to confuse them in the begining. Tell you GF that it was an honest mistake and apologize.
Tell her that she needs to get her own identity in gatherings so that you can tell them apart |
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