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Definition of a home-wrecker?

I admit to sleeping with a guy who is married. He has kids. Why should I care? He chose to cheat on her for years. How can I wreck a home?


    




jude
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a home wrecker would be anyone who sleeps with any married man and knows he is married. u should care because it shows your character and who u are, and what your morals are. u can easily wreck his marriage, just your willingness to give him what he wants is wrong and can effect how he treats his wife, and family. but remember that bad karma will visit u when u knowingly do things that are wrong. and don't think he wouldn't betray u also one day and sleep around. it says alot about your own self worth when u allow this kind of junk in your life. u couldn't think too much of yourself either.


jd
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maybe u will understand when you love someone.


Ashley
Beacuse you are knowingly sleeping with a married man, wait till it happens to you!


Mike S
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His wife looks at you as someone who wants to end her happiness and take away her husband and kids....hence you ARE a home wrecker!


Gray
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You chose to let him. It takes 2 to tango. For that reason, it is your fault as well as his. Hopefully that makes you feel better.


Ramona-please step back!
You just did


Matthew F
yeah, that's kind of the definition.


OC Boarder
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You are the definition. Don't get involved with married men, regardless of their situation.

Get some morals!


smartyness
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Just because he has no morals, doesn't mean you shouldn't!!


Mikey Staten
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I dont understand why you wouldnt care.. You will always be second to his wife and kids...


BrownTown
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Because it's like helping a thief carry out stolen property. You may not have broken in but you're helping the wrong person in the situation.


beki
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You have no self worth or self-respect.

Imagen you life being torn apart by another women!


ANTI DEM
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mirror mirror on the wall whos the slu........................................


Ashley D
You are more to blame than he is, sorry. You owe a duty to the wife. Shame!!


Ade
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Look at all the men answering this. Wow I am so happy about that.

Kinda tells ya something, doesn't it.


BIG T
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you helped


Live Laugh And Love
Someone Who Has An Affair with a married Man Knowingly

Short Answer Someone like you. YOu know he's Married. Yet you still continue the affair

Just Because he is a creep doesn't mean you have to be

there's a long answer but if you wish to talk i will talk

Get used to being Second Place to the wife and kids cause you always will be and so you should

Hell you shouldn't even be there

Find a single man and leave this family alone

Edit: You are the definiton of a Homewrecker


Rebecca W
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Let's see here, your actions are effecting innocent people. Those people are his wife and his children. Do as like but it is still wrong and you will be called to balance your actions at some point in time.

How would you feel if he was your husband or your father?
Quit being a selfish witch and think of the innocents.


FlyingScooter
You tempted him and he answered.

It's a common belief that if men/women are tempted, and answer, that the other man/women is the HomeWrecker.

Yes, he chose to cheat and i'm sure he'll be feeelin' it for a while.

Don't be too offended by it, everything has to have a name attached to it, and in this case it's HomeWrecker.

Have fun with it! make a T-Shirt that reads:

HomeWrecker-2008 World Tour! (on the front with a wrecking ball smashing a house and on the back it should read:)

And You think He won't.......


the_morris_bears
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EMOTIONAL ATTACHEMENTS: have you ever heard someone say that? It simply means that someone has strong feelings for another person. A husband who goes out and has an affair with a woman (home-wrecker) and has an emotional attachement for her is considered a great example. If you have any emotional attachment (even a friendship) and you sleep with him you are considered a home-wrecker because you took the emotions he is supposed to be showing his wife. Do you understand that? A homewrecker doesn't have to be a woman but can be a friend or a guy or even a pet. The point is a homewrecker takes the affection of another person.
Momma_Bear


Wintermute
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if you dont feel you are wrecking a home why dont you ask his wife how she feels about you sleeping with her husband? let me know what she says! and why are you looking for approval for your actions on Y/A?

You're sad. how would you feel if your husband cheated on you?(that is...if someone lowered their standards enough to marry a person like you) im glad to see human nature at work and how kind and thoughful you are! i hope he's at least paying you very well for your services.


KJ
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why should you care?

because, his six year old son hears his parents talking to their friends, "we're together, only because of the kids" and he'll blame himself for his parents being miserable and never forgive himself.... because the six year old wakes up every morning, wondering if this is the day they'll split up.... because the six year old is too afraid to leave his bedroom in the middle of night to go pee, too scared of his parents yelling and screaming at each other... because the six year old is sick of having to answer "would you want to live with mommy or daddy?"....... because the six year old might one day ride his bicycle straight into a speeding car, which is first of his six suicide attempts in his life...


you did have a part in it.


that's why you should care.


Dr. Tough Love
You're right.I checked and there are zero single guys left in the world.


KC
homewrecker=you


gl


kcmom
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first of all it goes both ways him doing wrong and you doing wrong i hope this never happens to you when you get married but if it does then and only then will you understand why you should care and not sleep with someones husband


BG
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You're basically being part of his betrayal. Yes, he chose to do it but you didn't even consider another person's feelings. If it happened to you, would you be so indifferent about it?


KM
So what if the wife cheated on him at the beginging of their marrriage twice and their really hasnt been any marriage what so ever between them except living quarters..They have no kids between them and she has 2 teenagers that he feels sorry for if he has to throw them out..He doesn't even get along with the kids..He said they are and have been dead in the marriagefro the very begining and live 2 completely different lives in the house..We haven't slept together that often but their are strong feelings between the two of us and i believe he is going to file for divorce this year..I have only been seeing him a year but 3 yrs ago we talked several months before actually meeting and i ended up going back to my ex..Now it has been almost 3yrs since he married her. No i'm not with anyone but him..He said i messed up cuz we could have been married thats how strong our feelings we back then but i wasn't ready...





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